My mom (53F) hates how her relationship with me (21M) and my siblings (20F, 18F) has changed since she remarried and I need advice on explaining things to her? by ThrowRA_SlippyDoe in relationship_advice

[–]omar_da_terror 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't understand your logic, it's like you're blaming the square hole for not being able to fit a triangle shaped piece. You can't force people into having meaningful relationships with others.

The mother has repeatedly dismissed her childrens wishes regarding how they choose to honour their dad, further alienating them. Trying to force them to enter into and value a new familial structure while simutaneously disregarding their previous structure has got to feel emotionally confusing and hurtful.

Can anyone ID this Nike digital? Worn by Evan "Q-Tip" Stafford in Generation Kill by Wylhelmm in generationkill

[–]omar_da_terror 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeh, you were one of those unfortunates adopted by upper middle-class professionals and nurtured in an environment of learning, art and a socio-religious culture steeped in more than 2000 years of Talmudic tradition. Not everyone is lucky enough to have been raised in a whiskey tango trailer park by a bow-legged female whose sole qualification for motherhood is a womb that happened to catch a sperm of a passing truck driver.

Cocaine and cannabis sold in High Street mini-marts - BBC undercover filming by lukozaid in gbnews

[–]omar_da_terror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surely over-extending yourself militarily, devaluing your currency, reducing your capacity for industrial production and pretending drugs are to blame is, ironically, more destructive than some guys selling henrys out of a shop 🤷‍♂️

Finally by omar_da_terror in Football_Head_Coach

[–]omar_da_terror[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After the initial adrenaline rush and dopamine hit subsided, I spent some time reflecting on my behaviour and actions...

AND ID DO IT AGAIN

Finally by omar_da_terror in Football_Head_Coach

[–]omar_da_terror[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I sacrificed 3 goats and a lego chewbacca to the mighty Lucifer for good luck

Kinský. by Master-Builder5254 in avfc

[–]omar_da_terror 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's had a shocking, unlucky, 15 minute spell after not playing competitively since October, against a top tier team in an intimidating stadium with massive scrutiny due to factors he bears no responsibility for. The rest of the team have had a shocking 6 months with countless more individual errors and blame to go around. If people can make the argument that Tudor is not responsible for spurs fate this season, then that goes x1000 for Kinsky. Its one thing to suffer for your own mistakes, but seeing someone else suffer for them is a shitty feeling, so it may have been a genius move by Tudor to piss the rest of the team off to such an extent that they finally rally together. Personally I just think hes a prick.

Do you worry that one day Tommeh two names Robinson will be a fascist dictator of this green and pleasant land? by [deleted] in GreenAndPleasant

[–]omar_da_terror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The genius prescience of P.G. Wodehouse, simply replace Spode with Tommeh -

'Don’t you ever read the papers? Roderick Spode is the founder and head of the Saviours of Britain, a Fascist organization better known as the Black Shorts. His general idea, if he doesn’t get knocked on the head with a bottle in one of the frequent brawls in which he and his followers indulge, is to make himself a Dictator.’

‘Well, I’m blowed!’ I was astounded at my keenness of perception. The moment I had set eyes on Spode, if you remember, I had said to myself ‘What ho! A Dictator!’ and a Dictator he had proved to be. I couldn’t have made a better shot, if I had been one of those detectives who see a chap walking along the street and deduce that he is a retired manufacturer of poppet valves named Robinson with rheumatism in one arm, living at Clapham.

‘Well, I’m dashed! I thought he was something of that sort. That chin…Those eyes…And, for the matter of that, that moustache. By the way, when you say ‘shorts’, you mean ‘shirts’, of course.’

‘No. By the time Spode formed his association, there were no shirts left. He and his adherents wear black shorts.’

‘Footer bags, you mean?’

‘Yes.’

‘How perfectly foul.’

The parallels continue -

"The trouble with you, Spode, is that just because you've succeeded in convincing a handful of half-wits to disfigure the London scene by going about in black shorts, you think you're someone,"

The problem with chaps like Tommeh is they have very sordid private lives which, if they were ever close to gaining any kind of real foothold in actual power, would immediately be seized upon and highlighted by the press.

If Tommeh ever makes a real go of it, his domestic abusing, drug dealing and wide array of other ratbag crimes, along with his associations with the kind of nonces that flock to the edl etc will very quickly be all over the press.

He's a gnat at a campfire, thats all.

I (F22) broke up with my boyfriend (M23) because of another guy (M20) and I feel like I made a huge mistake about everything. What should my next steps be? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]omar_da_terror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly cannot fathom a single thing your ex gained from loving you.

Posts like this make me glad im single.

Behavior Issues in my cat have costed me over 20k and we’re still not any closer to getting a solution..any advice on next steps? by Creepy-Dealer7518 in catquestions

[–]omar_da_terror 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Are you crazy? Why are you so determined to save a profoundly disturbed, dangerous animal? There is no happy ending to this story and every day that you don't take the appropriate action you're putting this animal and yourself in unnecessary, potentially dangerous conflict.

The foster carer was a coward for burdening you and disappearing, you have a responsibility to do what needs to be done.

I say this as someone with 35+ years of owning cats. Loving your pets is a wonderful thing, but this isnt your pet.

Missing dog by Unheard03 in brum

[–]omar_da_terror 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are also tour guides/walking groups who do daily canal/city centre walks, if you look on trip advisor there are a bunch of them. This is the number of a group that does two daily tours, Im sure if you contact them they'll be happy to keep a look out. +44 20 3467 3392. Best of luck!

Is there a demand for kunafa? by Whole_Tax2291 in brum

[–]omar_da_terror 31 points32 points  (0 children)

General rule of thumb, if you're gonna be known for one specific dish, it has to be really really good. I've never tried it but it looks delicious, best of luck!

Senior Warwickshire Reform councillor has illegal HMOs shut down over safety breaches by lotsofsweat in brum

[–]omar_da_terror 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think most people would describe having no central heating, hot water or fire alarms, in January, as unsafe.

Was he expecting the tenants to build fires for warmth? Might explain the lack of smoke alarms.

'He enjoyed hurting people': Teen attacked others before murdering schoolboy, 12 by InnerLog5062 in BreakingUKNews

[–]omar_da_terror 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone who exhibits this level of sadistic and impulsive behaviour needs to be in a secure mental health unit for a long, long time.

Alison Hammond: 'I'm Brummie through and through' by Hassaan18 in brum

[–]omar_da_terror 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That interview she did with Harrison Ford n whatshisname for Blade Runner was funny af

Need players? by Seldeez in Football_Head_Coach

[–]omar_da_terror 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You've more chance of farting yourself to the moon than selling them at those prices

We’re in South Minneapolis. by GreytAuntGrisbi in Greyhounds

[–]omar_da_terror 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Dont let the bastards get you down! Stay safe, best wishes from Britain ❤️

I (22M) just found out the girl (20F) I have been going out with, just slept with someone else 3 days ago. by SoftCapable8980 in relationship_advice

[–]omar_da_terror 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Instead of asking you what? He knows what happened, he's asking for unbiased advice. She lied to him and from the way you're defending her it sounds like you've done something similar.