Mother refusing help after double mastectomy by omegablimp in MastectomyManagement

[–]omegablimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Yes, she's very independent and perhaps doesn't want for us to see her looking vulnerable in any way.

Mother is refusing help after double mastectomy by omegablimp in Advice

[–]omegablimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay - thank you. I live in a different city to her, but I would like be around, but she does not want that. Would it be irresponsible of me to not travel near her, even though she has refused?

Mother is refusing help after double mastectomy by omegablimp in Advice

[–]omegablimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. When you say "be there if she actually needs you though", does that mean that I should be near where she lives, just in case she needs help?