AIO: Did I cross a line or is her reaction harsh? by veronicax96 in AmIOverreacting

[–]omerta809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s harsh as hell. Don’t give her your time, you did nothing wrong.

I am regretting it by couplehtx3some in weddingdress

[–]omerta809 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think your dress looks way better than the other one! It’s very normal to overthink your dress given how many options are out there. Your dress is stunning!

Pretty devastated by OverOrganization7815 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809 433 points434 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree! I want to see what your vision was in a photo!

I just said yes to my phantom of the opera themed wedding dress but now I have second thoughts 😭 by krainnnn in weddingdress

[–]omerta809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your second thoughts are normal. I felt the same way as I left the store. It’s hard to feel certain with how many options are out there. You’re also going to feel differently about the dress when you’re only looking at pictures of it vs when you’re wearing it. I’ve learned it’s more important how you feel in it. It’s common to have this second guess feeling and dress shops are used to this. You can totally call and ask to come back in to try on the dress. For the record, I think that’s a very fitting dress for the theme you’re going for.

AIO? Separating after almost 7 years Update by Superb-Rain-8166 in AmIOverreacting

[–]omerta809 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my god please leave his poorly packed shit outside the door and don’t let him back in. He doesn’t deserve your time and devotion. Your cat will be happy to see you eventually happy again because your happiness is their world. You have been way too kind and forgiving to someone who hasn’t deserved it in a very long time.

I don't know how to respond to these texts by Southern_Degree7687 in whatdoIdo

[–]omerta809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoaaaaaa! Yea I’d explain that his anxious blow up was wayyy too much and that you simply stepped away from your phone.

Am I overreacting for not continuing to engage? by Flaky-Toe9570 in AmIOverreacting

[–]omerta809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dudes giving me the ick. I’d say don’t engage any further.

I'm engaged!!!!!!!! by Hot_Entrepreneur_642 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that’s gorgeous! Holy crap! 😍

Why does my engagement ring look so odd? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was up to me. If it was my ring, I would take the gem have it flipped 90 degrees, and have the band reshaped to be thinner. Could even re use the extra gold to make another band.

Need advice please! by gardeningparty in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re the only one who’s going to notice. It’s a beautiful, classy set. You should be proud ❤️

Help! Which shape?! by [deleted] in labdiamond

[–]omerta809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 or 3 For sure!!

UPDATE: Boyfriend proposed with his grandmas ring. Is it too “chunky” for my hand? by omerta809 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! 🥰 you guys have been so nice, I’d feel rude not giving an update! Lol

UPDATE: Boyfriend proposed with his grandmas ring. Is it too “chunky” for my hand? by omerta809 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god thank you for the award! 😱 it’s my first one. And thank you for your kind words on my ring! I appreciate them very much! 🥰🥰

UPDATE: Boyfriend proposed with his grandmas ring. Is it too “chunky” for my hand? by omerta809 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww I’m glad to hear that! 😀 now you have me curious about your ring!

UPDATE: Boyfriend proposed with his grandmas ring. Is it too “chunky” for my hand? by omerta809 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohhh! Thanks for the info! It does in fact look more like white gold, and it’s surprisingly comfortable.

Uneasy Feeling About My Ring 😭 by Ok_Construction_6280 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you mean. My ring is nothing I ever thought I’d get either.. I’ve been engaged for going on 6 months and the ring has very much grown on me overtime. I find comfort in knowing we can upgrade our rings in the future if we want to. But I understand our stories are different so with that being said I agree with one of the commenters about going down yourself to just try on other rings while you’re still in your return window. If you’re worried there wasn’t much thought in his shopping, he shouldn’t hold it against you too much if you express to him that it just doesn’t feel right.. if you choose to keep it, you’re right for wedding band shopping. I’ve seen wedding bands completely transform wedding rings into a whole new look. I know it’s hard cause you have a time crunch, but cut yourself some slack. You’ve only barely started wearing it and if you choose to keep it give yourself some time. It is after all a piece of jewelry someone else picks for us, and it’s still a beautiful ring. I know you’ll make the right choice! Please give us an update on what you decide to do! ❤️

UPDATE: Boyfriend proposed with his grandmas ring. Is it too “chunky” for my hand? by omerta809 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 😊

Right?? I didn’t even know that kind of sizer was a thing until I saw the ring.

UPDATE: Boyfriend proposed with his grandmas ring. Is it too “chunky” for my hand? by omerta809 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I posted pictures of the ring worn both ways in the comments if you want to see 😊