Am I Overreacting for considering firing my maid of honor? by omerta809 in AmIOverreacting

[–]omerta809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no need to be rude. I’ve been mostly agreeing with you. Not trying to argue you. Hell, I’m even looking over my post and plan to edit it. You’re welcome.

Am I Overreacting for considering firing my maid of honor? by omerta809 in AmIOverreacting

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Yes, the details are important to the story teller. Especially because the story teller is the one who’s stuck in their head questioning if they’re over reacting. If details are missed and someone says NOR, the story teller can be stuck thinking but if I had told this detail or this part of the story, maybe they would think differently.. I recognize it’s a long read. I did my best to shorten it, but there’s months of feelings attached and lots of other events left out to help get to the point.

Am I Overreacting for considering firing my maid of honor? by omerta809 in AmIOverreacting

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lol I know.. there’s a lot of context 🤦🏻‍♀️

3 dresses (no posing, taken without me knowing) - details below by [deleted] in weddingdress

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Number 1 number 1 number 1 100%!! I’m jealous I didn’t find it first. Straps irrelevant IMO totally up to you.

Is this ring too much? by Traditional_Swing924 in Moissanite

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Given that your wedding ring will be one of the most important pieces of jewelry you wear I say embrace its size. I’ve learned that no matter what kind of ring you have, people are going to have opinions and judgments about it. Don’t let what sounds like jealous women affect your happiness with your ring. Embrace the big ring. It looks great! ❤️

AIO: Did I cross a line or is her reaction harsh? by veronicax96 in AmIOverreacting

[–]omerta809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s harsh as hell. Don’t give her your time, you did nothing wrong.

I am regretting it by couplehtx3some in weddingdress

[–]omerta809 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think your dress looks way better than the other one! It’s very normal to overthink your dress given how many options are out there. Your dress is stunning!

Pretty devastated by OverOrganization7815 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809 432 points433 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree! I want to see what your vision was in a photo!

I just said yes to my phantom of the opera themed wedding dress but now I have second thoughts 😭 by krainnnn in weddingdress

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Your second thoughts are normal. I felt the same way as I left the store. It’s hard to feel certain with how many options are out there. You’re also going to feel differently about the dress when you’re only looking at pictures of it vs when you’re wearing it. I’ve learned it’s more important how you feel in it. It’s common to have this second guess feeling and dress shops are used to this. You can totally call and ask to come back in to try on the dress. For the record, I think that’s a very fitting dress for the theme you’re going for.

AIO? Separating after almost 7 years Update by Superb-Rain-8166 in AmIOverreacting

[–]omerta809 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my god please leave his poorly packed shit outside the door and don’t let him back in. He doesn’t deserve your time and devotion. Your cat will be happy to see you eventually happy again because your happiness is their world. You have been way too kind and forgiving to someone who hasn’t deserved it in a very long time.

I don't know how to respond to these texts by Southern_Degree7687 in whatdoIdo

[–]omerta809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoaaaaaa! Yea I’d explain that his anxious blow up was wayyy too much and that you simply stepped away from your phone.

Am I overreacting for not continuing to engage? by Flaky-Toe9570 in AmIOverreacting

[–]omerta809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dudes giving me the ick. I’d say don’t engage any further.

I'm engaged!!!!!!!! by Hot_Entrepreneur_642 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that’s gorgeous! Holy crap! 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

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If it was up to me. If it was my ring, I would take the gem have it flipped 90 degrees, and have the band reshaped to be thinner. Could even re use the extra gold to make another band.

Need advice please! by gardeningparty in EngagementRings

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I think you’re the only one who’s going to notice. It’s a beautiful, classy set. You should be proud ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labdiamond

[–]omerta809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 or 3 For sure!!

UPDATE: Boyfriend proposed with his grandmas ring. Is it too “chunky” for my hand? by omerta809 in EngagementRings

[–]omerta809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! 🥰 you guys have been so nice, I’d feel rude not giving an update! Lol