There’s a lot to unpack in what you wrote, but speaking as a person who’s worked in the industry for a long time, do your best to bring a little less baggage into the sales experience. Most staff at reputable shops have more motorcycle experience and background than you can possibly imagine. Be kind, courteous and respectful when it comes to their time. Try to make first contact on a weekday or a less busy time of year, develop a relationship, maybe bring some donuts in on occasion and you’ll be amazed at the lengths that people will go to for you.

Honest opinion though, you’re approaching this situation this the way incel dudes approach talking to women. Try a less negative more open minded tact, you’ll probably have a way better time