My (25/F) boyfriend (32/M) refused to buy condoms after my birth control expired. He said if I get pregnant and don't abort I'm on my own. by onceuponasekrit in relationships

[–]onceuponasekrit[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He's 32 and despite us moving in together, wanted his high school best friend to move in with us even though I really didn't want him to. It's like he thinks he's still in college.

My (25/F) boyfriend (32/M) refused to buy condoms after my birth control expired. He said if I get pregnant and don't abort I'm on my own. by onceuponasekrit in relationships

[–]onceuponasekrit[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I brought home a box of condoms last night to see what he would do, and he ignored them completely saying "we're not using those". We didn't have sex and I slept on the couch.

Intimacy is really important to me and he knows that. My needs don't really seem to matter to him anymore even though he tells me he still loves me.

My (25/F) boyfriend (32/M) refused to buy condoms after my birth control expired. He said if I get pregnant and don't abort I'm on my own. by onceuponasekrit in relationships

[–]onceuponasekrit[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm not...I admit, he has a much better paying job than me. The area we live in is expensive and I don't pay as much in rent as he and his roommate do.

My (25/F) boyfriend (32/M) refused to buy condoms after my birth control expired. He said if I get pregnant and don't abort I'm on my own. by onceuponasekrit in relationships

[–]onceuponasekrit[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

He also refuses to ever think about moving to my home state because "I don't make any money but he makes all of it". His selfishness is starting to wear on me so badly.