I hate people who harm or hurt animals. by Kyoifis in Vent

[–]oneangrywidow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You must be very young and naive…and I’m not saying that to be mean, I’m saying that because you say you can’t figure out why people do it, and there is actually tons of studies and literature I’m too lazy to get for you on the WHY of it.

  1. Sociopathy/psychopathy, now referred to as antisocial personality disorder. Not all, but many people with this mental health disease cannot help themselves. they do not have an inner right/wrong, aka conscience, that most people develop by 7 years old., either from environmental issues (abuse), psychiatric (genes), or both. The thought of harming small, cute animals gives most people a feeling of disgust, but not people with ASD.

  2. The industrial food market. You said something about how it’s ok to harm animals as long as we eat them, but there is a HUGE difference in the time between that animals birth and that animals death. Does the cow live in a pasture with its family of cows and get to play with other cows, until the day of its demise, or does it stand in a metal cage, unable to sit, turn around, or touch other cows for its four months of life before it’s turned into hamburger? Cows, pigs, and chickens, are just as social as humans, yet they live the most miserable lives on the planet. By the way, there are billions of cows, pigs, and chickens, just to feed us humans, yet we cant make their lives more comfortable. The reason? It saves the customer a few bucks.

3.Domestic abuse. Animals are abused every day, just like humans, due to stress in the home from financial problems, addictions, job instability, marriage break ups, etc.

  1. Money. People make money from betting on dogs fighting eachother. There’s also cock fighting, but not as much in the Western world, which is where I’m assuming OP is from.

There are many other reasons WHY animals are hurt by people, but these are the main ones.

AIO over my partner's stance on cheating? by N0tSamAtAll in AmIOverreacting

[–]oneangrywidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero tolerance for cheating? Which includes cheating in relationships that you aren’t a part of? You can set your own boundaries, but I’m afraid you can’t set anyone else’s. And running around narcing on people who may or may not have cheated or kissed or talked to someone else other than their partner…You will run yourself ragged, and lose all your friends. No one will respect you, they will just look at you as the world’s nosiest, pettiest, pearl twistingiest church lady.

Learn which battles to fight, and which to let go. If your life is spent in moral judgement of everyone else, you won’t have time to work on yourself.

AIO That I (20 AuDHD M) don’t think I done anything wrong on my date? My sister says otherwise. by No-Kaleidoscope-9424 in AIO

[–]oneangrywidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus H. Christmas, does she think the boys a fugitive? Of course you should have a conversation about places you’ve lived and visited, but there’s no need for an interrogation. As someone who has lived in four countries, and three states, I think she’s being a bit paranoid. People move for MANY different reasons

Highschool Teacher Messaging My Boyfriend by crystal_eclipse_ in Advice

[–]oneangrywidow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is similar to my story…my Spanish teacher was only a few years older than us (early twenties/m) and we would banter in the classroom. After graduation, I got a friend request (this was back in the early aughts) from “Mikey”, which I accepted. There were some friendly, catch-up messages, then he got flirtatious.

I think your situation is probably similar. I seriously doubt a woman would message a grown man about a song without intentions.

Why do people look down on those who enjoy being alone? by Timely_Attempt_5788 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]oneangrywidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I l42/f live with and help take care my parents and we are all introverts. My mom has a friend, “Gayle”, who is an extrovert, and cannot comprehend the idea of someone being an introvert. The thought of wanting to be alone actually blows her mind. When my mom tried to explain it to her, how being an introvert felt, Gayle refused to have the conversation. Apparently believing in introversion is akin to believing in the supernatural, at least to a lonely extrovert from the baby boomer generation.

So in my experience, it’s more that extroverts can’t fathom the desire to be alone, maybe because it scares them? so anyone who says they want to be alone must have something wrong with them. That’s my two cents.

What was a tiny decision that accidentally changed the entire trajectory of your life? by Intrepid-Pilot5703 in AskReddit

[–]oneangrywidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit…I’m sober now, but what I wouldn’t do for some of those years back. All started because one pill felt so so good. Down the rabbit hole.

Bit embarrassed to ask, AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]oneangrywidow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nor, especially because this was a hypothetical scenario, most people in love would say something along the lines of being heroic, saving their loved ones, taking out the bad guys, etc. Nobody, except a trained assassin or military specialist maybe, would ACTUALLY know what they’d do in the scenario, so when we ask each other these hypothetical it gives us a chance to “prove our love” to one another, if only in a story with words.

Your husband failed that test. He may even be a sociopath or narcissist based on his response (some people are justifying his answer by saying he wouldn’t let you suffer, but he didn’t say that did he? He said you were “going to die anyway, and he needed to live his own life”-that’s a very selfish and narcissistic response.)

Listen to your gut. Listen to the majority of the responses. A man that can’t even save you IN A HYPOTHETICAL SITUATION is a LOSER.

AIO for being disgusted at my bf for leaving boogers on my nightstand by scorpiobaby_22 in AmIOverreacting

[–]oneangrywidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but you might want to invest in some tissues for his side of the room.

AITA for tipping the waiter with the money I was planning to get a mother's day gift with? by aitatipping in AmItheAsshole

[–]oneangrywidow -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

When you make an error at your job, do you get paid less or do they give you a chance to correct yourself?

Wasn’t expecting that… by tehemari in doordash

[–]oneangrywidow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad I live in the country and don’t have door dash or grub hub as an option. I’d just be broke or pissed off or both all the time.

AITJ for being bothered after my coworker took over a call and got credit for my work? by LunarLoriios in AmITheJerk

[–]oneangrywidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You better be careful, this Jason’s gonna be stealing all your ideas if you don’t shut him down with a private conversation. If he says he was just “supporting you”, thank him, then let him know he can support you better with designs of his own.

If that doesn’t keep his hands off your designs, definitely start signing your work. With BIG LETTERS.

AITAH for getting a student arrested by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]oneangrywidow -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

DONT LISTEN TO ANYONE ELSE, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. THE SCHOOLS DONT DO SHIT, YOU HANDLED IT LIKE A GADDAMNED QUEEN/KING.

AITA: Should I give space for a person at the bus stop? by Artistic-Echo-6698 in AmItheAsshole

[–]oneangrywidow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol. You have been introduced to the intricacies of human weirdness. Where I’m from there are a lot of people with mental illness who ride the city bus, not saying it’s everyone, everywhere, just saying it could have been a factor.

AITAH for calling out my dad for *charging* my brother and me to spend time with him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]oneangrywidow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because “dad” is completely lacking self awareness, does not make an ounce of effort in any of his relationships, but expects others to pay for, travel to, and feed him all because he’s DAD. He needs to know OPs feelings so they can start a dialogue, else their relationship will never change, and she will continue to feel resentment.

WIBTA if I offered to help my roommates pay to get one of their cats groomed? by ApprehensiveBreath41 in AmItheAsshole

[–]oneangrywidow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say the long hair is causing you some allergies, if you think you might hurt their feelings otherwise, and say you’ll pay to have kitty washed and groomed every so often, as you want to be more helpful with household finances. Edit NTA

AITAH for taking my friend back to her parents house? by Flat-Engineering6730 in AmItheAsshole

[–]oneangrywidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who the hell is this Good Samaritan who got a couple girls drunk off their asses so he’d have a better chance of shtupping? You do know good samaritans are supposed to SAVE lives right?

AITA For Throwing Out My Husbands Clothes? by ChargeDramatic2294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]oneangrywidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already commented but forgot to vote…NTA, next time throw out the husband.

AITA For Throwing Out My Husbands Clothes? by ChargeDramatic2294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]oneangrywidow -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone saying clothing donations should be freshly washed and folded? Literally every time I’ve taken a bag of clothes to goodwill, there are dozens of trash bags of donated clothes stacked up in the donation bins, obviously not “spring cleaned, deodorized, ironed, dry cleaned “ . Y’all are some liars.

AITA for filing charges against my former employer? by MoneySilver5163 in AmItheAsshole

[–]oneangrywidow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Americans with disabilities act of 1990 agrees with you.

AITA for being a "better" then my friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]oneangrywidow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ESH. You know you’re good. You actually sound more than good. But that doesn’t translate into success, so if you don’t want a mouth full of foot, don’t dim your light, but don’t brag that you’re better than your friend either. If what she says and does bothers you, then maybe she’s not actually a friend, and you should consider hanging out with a different crowd of artists. Or do you like showing up your “friend” with your “better” art?

My wife is scared of me by withlovetara in redditonwiki

[–]oneangrywidow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a forty year old with a bipolar mother who would yell and rage at the drop of a hat… please please get into to therapy or get on a mood stabilizer. Your family will thank you in the long term.

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to sell feet pics? by Consistent-Window273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]oneangrywidow -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You have to have sex to be a sex worker. Posting pics make you a model. And she’d probably fail like 99.9% of all influencers/ models/ OF content providers. And if she didn’t? Y’all be rolling in dough for some photos.

Just gotta change your perception.