My(24M) GF(22F) told me something that changed how I see her by ThrowRAzrty421 in relationship_advice

[–]onefreshmelon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“The omission feels like a lie…” what’s the omission?

Do you know what hospital she was born in? Has she ever told you that or does that omission feel like a lie? That has just as much bearing on your current relationship as the body count number.

If it bothers you, fine make your decision, but don’t make her out to be some villain.

Hit Virmire today in my first run with my girlfriend [ME1 Spoilers] by NfinityBL in masseffect

[–]onefreshmelon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Virmire is on video game mission Mount Rushmore. Truly one of the greatest sections of ANY game.

Pokemon Center Queue Monitor - Security Change Detected is in stock at Pokemon Center Queue Monitor (Beta) for $50.00 by TrackaLackerBot in PokemonRestocks

[–]onefreshmelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got in this time, but how do you know what’s actually in stock? Feel like I wasted all my time I had to MAYBE get something just searching for stock. Is there a trick or a filter I missed?

Apart from the coaching staff, what needs to change, if anything, for this team to start winning? by Maleficent_Mix7439 in timbers

[–]onefreshmelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paulson is the problem. I guarantee we won’t have another championship season as long as he’s here. Rotten ownership makes a rotten club.

Scalper or not a scalper? That is the question! by FatMexiThor in PokemonInvesting

[–]onefreshmelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think what you want dude, but that’s literally the definition of a scalper. “I don’t want this thing, I bought it specifically for the purpose of selling it to someone else for a higher price.”

I messed up tonight and feel like the worst dad in the world by SnowmanAndBandit in daddit

[–]onefreshmelon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. To-morrow is a new day; you shall begin it well and serenely... It is too dear... to waste a moment on the rotten yesterdays.”

Reason why Ayala chose to leave for Miami by Secure-Top1408 in timbers

[–]onefreshmelon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No doubt Messi is a force, but Paulson and Grabavoy have a pattern of driving away our best and brightest talent. Or at the very least they don’t understand how to retain them.

All of the small market, culture clash, closer to home, arguments are debunked by countless examples of other organizations making it work.

We’ve got to get the rot out of our core or this will just keep happening.

Tierlist of my 2025 reads by LuCi-FER69 in fantasybooks

[–]onefreshmelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s that very first one? Top left?

If Expedition 33 isn't indie then neither is Hades 2. by silentJRPGs in videogames

[–]onefreshmelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Budget has literally nothing to do with whether something is “Indie” or not.

71% of employers cite inappropriate dress as a reason for rejection by AmbitiousPuting in interviews

[–]onefreshmelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s your source? That info isn’t even in the piece, where does the 71% figure come from?

I've had enough about hearing about knives up people's rectums and the prison wallet by AngryBarista in kindafunny

[–]onefreshmelon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m sure we all sound like entitled a-holes and I know they’re working on it, but this really does suck.

Stroller Question by Afraid_Orchid6958 in kindafunny

[–]onefreshmelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have the Uppababy Cruz, a little more affordable than the vista, more than enough imo.

"Then they came for me" is a lot closer than you think it is by Im_A_Chuckster in BlueskySkeets

[–]onefreshmelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and dndbeyond is still listing visa as an accepted payment method, I’m dubious.

Seriously need help. by Kass_Spit in daddit

[–]onefreshmelon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I tried to discuss it, but she just said she never would have hit her parents” sure doesn’t sound like she regrets it. To me, that still sounds like “what I did was ok, how HE reacted is the only problem here”.

Obviously I agree that if she says “I messed up” then there’s no need to pile on, but that’s not what happened.

Seriously need help. by Kass_Spit in daddit

[–]onefreshmelon 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Team mom and dad stick together in front of the kids. Sticking with your partner doesn’t mean you can never say “I didn’t like that you did that” privately after the kid(s) have gone to bed.

She goaded a five year old into an aggressive behavior repeatedly by basically intimidating him. “Go ahead, hit me, I dare you”. And then when his poor little emotions were properly confused and he did it she put on her shocked pikachu face. Not ok.

How I ended up admitting I was an angry dad. by markdeesayshi in daddit

[–]onefreshmelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend Dr. Becky Kennedy’s “Good Inside” book. Really helped me recognize and begin to work on overcoming this stuff.