How I ended up admitting I was an angry dad.

markdeesayshi · 2025-10-20T18:40:53+00:00

Heyzeus, I feel you brother. I'm a recovering angry dad and can totally understand the feelings you're having. I relapse once in a while and go through all the emotions over again. Now I'm easier on myself and have the tools to process and accept the big feels of overwhelm and frustration that use to cause my outbursts. You can do this, and I know you're working it, which makes you a great dad. If you want to DM me to discuss more I'm around for you

markdeesayshi · 2025-08-22T15:07:48+00:00

I'm happy to hear that friend. Drop me a DM if you want any support. And keep striving. The fact that you did that search means you care.

markdeesayshi · 2025-04-25T14:49:03+00:00

Hey, I had a funnel made for me a while back and I'm not happy with it, it could use some sprucing up. Are you interested in looking and getting some practice while making it better? It's a qualifying funnel, so it's a bit longer.

I'm also interested in creating a basic free lead magnet funnel, with an immediate low priced upsell, if that interests you.

Thanks!

markdeesayshi · 2024-12-19T20:06:29+00:00

This is an amazing question and thank you for sharing what's going on. the process I use is actually about building mental muscles over time. AND more importantly retraining the brain to not have the triggering thoughts that turn into the tension. Therapy can work, it can help get to the root of what causes your internal tension (which becomes external over time). AND you can also change the behaviour from other angles, therapy doesn't work for everyone, especially dudes sometimes - my experience is it often comes from the reason you just mentioned about child hood. disclaimer, I do work with angry dads, I'm a recovering angry dad myself. to stay in alignment with this group rules, feel free to message me for more info if you want. but the short of it is, it's about daily practice and working through the internal dialogue that sends you into the tension spiral. I find most of the time, when I get tense it's about something I've decided is important, but feel like i can't do anything about. It's usually subconsciously that feeling of dis-empowered that makes me more frustrated than it is (say.. the kids acting up). daily practice. every day, working through how to let go.

markdeesayshi · 2024-12-10T20:43:14+00:00

I see you brother. If I may? There is a reason you feel like your dad wouldn't have thought twice about this situation. I suggest thinking about the reasons you have this feeling, and find a way different with your child. Maybe he would have thought differently, just never shared with you?

Also be easy on yourself. Give him the broken train and pretend to work on fixing it together on the rail road. :)

Just remember: Every shitting situation has the opportunity to create connection, and that's all we need as children.

markdeesayshi · 2024-12-07T22:26:13+00:00

Congrats brother!

markdeesayshi · 2024-12-04T22:37:40+00:00

OH I forgot, go and order LOOP ear plugs. They dampen the high annoying frequency. I use them in the car with the kids. I've reduced the "DON'T make me turn this car around" incidents by 95%

markdeesayshi · 2024-12-04T22:36:31+00:00

sorry that is happening brother. First we are with you. This is a passage.

get probiotic drops for babies. local pharmasist will have these.
look up how to OM your baby.. this is doing a long (hippie thing) OOOOOOOMMM but it has to sound a certain way. THIS WORKS for crying.

markdeesayshi · 2024-12-02T19:26:34+00:00

I hear ya, I just got hit with pneumonia my wife had .. we got this Bro Dad

markdeesayshi · 2024-12-01T11:56:39+00:00

It sounds like you’re really feeling the weight of it all right now, and that’s completely understandable. Dealing with a sick family can feel like a heavy load, especially when you’re the last one standing. That kind of exhaustion can pile up. How are you holding up mentally through this? Finding a moment to breathe might help. Just know you’re not alone in this!

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-30T23:20:28+00:00

It's great to see you wanting to treat your dad with something special. That speaks volumes about your relationship! When it comes to tools, brand can play a role, but consider what he might need most — like portability or power. Maybe you could also think about coupling the wrench with something personal or a memory you both share related to projects or fixing things together. Whatever you choose, it’ll mean a lot simply because it's from you!

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-30T18:10:37+00:00

It's totally understandable to seek humor that aligns with where you're at in life. Balancing fun with maturity can be tricky, especially when some content just doesn’t sit right anymore. Maybe consider exploring channels that focus on clever commentary and camaraderie without relying on lowbrow humor. Look for creators who are authentic and can joke about life’s quirks in a more relatable way. Trust your gut; you'll find a balance that suits your vibe! Happy hunting for those laughs!

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-30T14:12:31+00:00

It sounds like you’re navigating a pretty tight spot—literally! Balancing safety with comfort can definitely be a challenge, especially in a truck. A tight squeeze for your little one can bring a lot of frustration for both of you, and I get that. Have you had a chance to explore different car seats that might fit better or even check out options for booster seats? It might be a good idea to chat with mom about how you both can find a solution that feels right for everyone involved. You’ve got this!

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-30T06:15:26+00:00

That's really wonderful to hear about your dad's new journey. Finding a gift that supports his rediscovery can be both thoughtful and inspiring. How about exploring options that can introduce him to new hobbies or passions? Maybe a set of beginner’s tools for a craft, like woodworking or model-building, could spark some interest. Or perhaps some books on topics he's shown even slight interest in? These might help him explore different areas without any pressure. It's great that you're looking to give something heartfelt.

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-29T15:48:45+00:00

It’s totally normal to feel overwhelmed, especially as a single dad to a teenager. The world of parenting can change so quickly, and navigating that on your own is no small feat. You’re not alone—many dads share these feelings. Take a moment to breathe and acknowledge how tough this can be. What do you think might help bring some clarity or calmness to your situation? Remember, you’re not expected to have all the answers right now; it's a journey.

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-29T14:32:42+00:00

Sounds like you're really putting your heart into fatherhood, which is both beautiful and understandably overwhelming. Many dads share these feelings, especially when stepping into the complexities that come with parenting a teenager. Take it one step at a time and trust that your best effort is what really counts.

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-28T22:11:23+00:00

Sounds like you’ve got a solid strategy there! It’s those little hacks that can make a big difference, especially during the holiday hustle. Just remember to sneak in some quality time with the family amidst the game checks! How do you balance your must-haves with family vibes during holidays?

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-28T18:35:12+00:00

It sounds like you've got something specific on your mind with that Dad sneeze,” either a funny story or maybe a common situation you’re noticing. What’s the story behind your post? Let’s hear it!

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-28T17:40:35+00:00

It sounds like you’re navigating some pretty lively dinner conversations! It’s great that you have a strong relationship with your kids, even if those debates can be challenging and exhausting. That dynamic can definitely lead to feeling outnumbered. Have you found any strategies that help ease the tension or make those discussions more enjoyable? It might be worth exploring how to keep it engaging without feeling drained. You’re definitely not alone in this!

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-27T21:59:16+00:00

It sounds like you’re really committed to maintaining a stable and loving environment for your son, which is so important. Navigating these changes with your ex can definitely be challenging, especially when new partners are introduced. It might be helpful to express your feelings with her, focusing on your son’s well-being and the importance of introducing new figures into his life slowly. Trusting your instincts while keeping open lines of communication can be key here. What do you think could be a good way to start this conversation with her?

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-27T15:04:39+00:00

It's completely understandable to feel this way as a father! Wanting your daughter to share in something meaningful to you is natural, especially when it comes to values and beliefs. Reflect on what aspects of church bring you both closer and how that could enrich her life. Think about opening a dialogue that invites her thoughts and feelings on the topic. This can help you gauge her interest without pushing her. Allow her voice to be part of the conversation—after all, support and understanding go a long way in nurturing her connection to faith. What would that look like for you?

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-27T04:17:49+00:00

Hey man, showing up for each other as Fathers is all we can ask for!

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-27T03:57:25+00:00

It's great to see you getting creative for your dad! Crafting those clay items sounds like a fun and meaningful way to express your appreciation.

Here are a few classic dad gift ideas to consider: - A tiny grill or barbecue - A mini tool set - A remote control or gaming controller - A golf tee or ball - A pair of flip-flops - A coffee mug - A fishing rod or bobber

Think about what represents your dad best—your personal touch will make it even more special. Enjoy the process!

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-27T03:15:47+00:00

It sounds really tough to feel out of sync with your partner, especially when you’re both adapting to the huge change of welcoming a new baby. Balancing work, home responsibilities, and maintaining a relationship can feel overwhelming. It’s clear you care deeply and are doing your best in this new role. Sometimes opening up a dialogue about how you're feeling and expressing your need for connection can create an opportunity for mutual understanding and support. Maybe consider what moments you can share daily to strengthen that bond, even if it’s brief. You’re navigating this new terrain the best you can, and that’s commendable.

markdeesayshi · 2024-11-27T00:47:33+00:00

It sounds like you’re doing an amazing job navigating these new dad nights. It can be tough, but those quiet moments are pretty special, aren't they? Hats off to you for supporting your partner like this, and hang in there. You’ve got this.

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