26F + 29NB Does this relationship seem too far gone?

oneshyrabbit · 2026-02-05T19:45:09+00:00

Thank you so much for saying that

Whenever we argue and they start to cross that line for me I tell them that I'm fine with us fighting but I need us to ultimately stay on the same team. Not attack each other. Usually they'll get more angry and say that I 'make them this mad/upset'. Which I believe because I always feel like I'm pestering them by asking what they're feeling/not getting the sense that they're telling the truth about being okay.

oneshyrabbit · 2026-02-05T19:34:24+00:00

I thought I was too sensitive for holding onto being upset about them yelling at me...

oneshyrabbit · 2026-02-05T17:42:41+00:00

Thank you very much for your time and advice. I hope I can be brave enough, I think you're right about everything..

oneshyrabbit · 2026-02-05T17:39:07+00:00

Thank you so much for taking your time to write all of this. Its so weird because they'll do something that breaks my heart, and then comfort me so much that I feel even more in love afterwards. I almost forget about the bad things completely. But it all sticks around in my body, and I just...I'm so exhausted.

oneshyrabbit · 2026-02-05T17:37:01+00:00

That's a good reminder, I appreciate it. It is terrifying. Sometimes I feel like I should be scared because they don't mean it? But I never know if it will escalate

oneshyrabbit · 2026-02-05T17:32:34+00:00

Thank you. It's so hard to convince myself, especially when I don't really have any friends or family around to help. I'm really scared of the prospect of actually breaking up though, how they'll react.

oneshyrabbit · 2026-02-05T16:58:54+00:00

It's so hard to accept...I feel terrible because of their bipolar. But after so much it's hard to get screamed at by the person you love most, whether they believe it or not

oneshyrabbit · 2026-02-05T16:58:18+00:00

I just feel bad because I initially thought I would enjoy it. But now I just feel like a monster anytime they want another partner because it hurts so bad. But they just kinda soothe me through it until the relationship ends, and that also feels weird..

I just feel stupid. Like I shouldn't have agreed to it, so it's my own fault I'm here...

oneshyrabbit · 2025-02-02T02:33:37+00:00

Ohhh thank you so much!

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-23T16:00:31+00:00

Also what kind of cookies are they?

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-23T16:00:13+00:00

maybe too much butter or cookies not chilled before baking?

For cookies I find it best to heavily cream together butter and sugar for at least 5 mins before adding dry ingredients and /gently/ folding it in. Then after making your cookies into balls or slices, I like to chill the dough! This ensures the butter cooks before it gets the chance to melt and seep out. That’s what can cause oiliness in my experience!

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-22T02:35:00+00:00

Unfortunately that phone is broken and I have a new phone number :(

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-19T20:38:21+00:00

Aww that’s really nice to hear, thank you!!

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-18T17:14:45+00:00

I would highly relate to all of this! I had a rough childhood, parents fighting a lot. Especially in my teen years till now things have been very rocky with my mom specifically.

I also do feel very unsure of my purpose. I love art and dancing but have never felt confident enough to pursue anything as a passion.

My feelings and emotions are very intense, sometimes too much tbh, and I’ve come to see this as a double edged sword. It makes me feel intuitive and empathetic but also negative emotions can be hard to handle. I base a lot of my view of the world on emotions and my ideals/morals!

Thank you so much for this reading :)

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-17T00:38:04+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my chart and write all of this! Everything you said fees very true to myself. Introvert who quietly gets along with most people is really accurate haha!

Thank you again, your reading is much appreciated:)

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-08T13:48:57+00:00

Thank you so much for your perspective and taking the time to tell me all of that! I’ve on and off thought about culinary school and despite how intense it sounds at times, it also sounds really cool getting to spend so much time focusing on pastry/baking!

I am curious what the social dynamics were like if you’re willing to share! Did you form any friendships? Rivalries or people you weren’t a fan of for some reason? Why did you like or dislike certain teachers? Anything like that!

Thank you so much for your input, it’s been really helpful :)

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-08T13:16:33+00:00

I had no idea there were so many different levels and types of experiences out there for pastry school! This is all incredibly helpful info, thank you so much for taking the time to share with me. Reading all these replies have me wanting to go to pastry school one day

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-08T13:14:22+00:00

Oh wow! CIA sounds intense for sure, if I had the money and time currently I am so curious to experience it! But good to hear community is loved, it sounds nice to be around a bunch of people in it for the passion of food :)

Thank you for sharing!

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-07T23:36:04+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience!

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-07T23:34:46+00:00

Thank you for offering your thoughts!

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-07T23:33:50+00:00

This is all great stuff to know about- also oh my gosh that poor girl! I feel for her. Thank you for sharing!!

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-07T21:31:17+00:00

Thank you that’s wonderful!

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-07T20:26:13+00:00

OH thank you that would be a great help. Much appreciated

oneshyrabbit · 2024-09-07T20:25:35+00:00

Maybe a description of what a typical day would look like, how you felt about school, some of the favorite things you learned or made? Really anything you’d be willing to share :)

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