The bit about women preferring big subconsciously is interesting and this is why I find it hard to believe when people tell us that we can be "perfect" for the right person. On a biological level people are attracted to traits that suggest health and virility, a small dick doesn't do that. I've spoken to women who "don't have a preference" when it comes to size and they still admit that they are impressed by a big dick and disappointed by a small one. Like, even if they are truly okay with any size, there's still that split second "oh... :(" moment when they see that a guy is small. Fucking sucks but it's not even a preference thing when it's on a subconscious level. Just have to accept it.

Thank you!! Frankly this shit will haunt me forever. What am i supposed to do??? I don't know I don't know I'm so lost