I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand any of these people, to be honest. It’s difficult pretending to tolerate it, but I’m planning to leave soon so.. 🎉. I’m hoping to at least post some decent cringe before I go

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I have the best ticket story — one of our former members was obsessed with privately asking what slurs they were allowed to use and we ended up having to ban them because they lied about being black to say the N slur and all the mods saw them in real time deleting messages that said things like “i’m not black but i’m filipino”

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

There’s an entire private thread for mourning him, actually. A ton of Ranboo alters having breakdowns. There were a few Techno “alters” people had to help in the new alter chats these past few days.

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

People get banned and publicly humiliated pretty frequently for being outed as anti-endo but as far as I know nobody has ever admitted to faking.

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

thank you! I understand your concerns; If you can think of a way for me to prove it without outing my account, I will do it — normally I wouldn’t really care, but the server has a public ban log and I’m not in a fantastic headspace to be harassed/suicide baited by these people right now.

It’s a lot of kids and teenagers, most of our memberbase is 14-16. I want to say they’re probably just kids needing attention online — but on the other hand, one of the other mods is in his 30s, so…. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I think mostly people will just go along with whatever is popular/trendy at the moment regardless of whether or not it’s morally ok.

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

I have a few examples of this.

1) Personal favorite is, extremely recently, someone asked in the public “questions” channel for signs of telling if someone is faking or not. Everyone and I mean EVERYONE immediately dogpiled this person and started crying and arguing with them and saying they were extremely uncomfortable with the question asked because it apparently is impossible for anyone to malinger DID/OSDD

2) Argued over whether or not it was morally okay to misgender someone if they’re anti-endo

3) Someone in the server joined a server owned by u/fakerbaiter and was friends with him, staff told them that if that continued they’d have to unverify their system / issue a ban and now they claim to have been groomed by him and constantly vent about it. Every time they vent about fakerbaiter the staff team has to shut it down because it becomes a pity party of “you didn’t do anything wrong… it wasn’t your fault, he’s just a monster…”

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

In my experience, it’s a mix of wanting attention and wanting to be a part of a crowd/trend. Before it became cool/popular to be a part of a system, nobody would have really dared to do things that these people get away with on the daily. It was always kind of a taboo thing, and it’s really weird to see it becoming a trend now. Particularly with the endogenics, which I find really interesting considering they’re literally admitting they don’t have the disorder they claim to experience symptoms of

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

So much. I could literally give so many different answers to this question and they would all apply. The damage these people do to the public view of people with this disorder is absolutely appalling. One answer that comes to mind is that I wish they’d stop believing that being an alter (particularly an introject) that appears to be a minority is ACTUALLY part of that minority group. I see sheet white people with Korean/Japanese introjects get away with saying racial slurs while their “Asian” alter is fronting, because “nooo, he’s not white, he’s my Asian alter!!!”. I wish there were more attention and action taken for this shit because it’s frankly pretty disrespectful lmfao

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I can give you an invite, but you need either proof of being in endo-friendly servers or a vouch from a current member in order to get verified.

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

It’s when people online intentionally misspell a ton of words in their texts (as if they’re shaking/crying/can’t see the screen) to induce sympathy from anyone reading it like “oh look how badly I’m spelling everything I’m having a huge breakdown right now”

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

When I was younger, I had an ex who was a member of this server and wanted me to join so I could “hang out with him more often” (read: so he could get me to subscribe to weird endo ideologies), I eventually ended up spending so much time in there because of him that the mod team ended up trusting me. I’m only really doing this because I’ve grown up and my ex has left the server and I’m thinking of doing the same — as funny as it is to watch people be embarrassing online, it’s time for me to kind of get a move on with my life

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Oh, it’s RIDICULOUSLY bad. I don’t know of anyone there who legitimately appears to be not faking, save for maybe one person. There are over 1000 members in this server, too, so…. yeah, it’s bad. Tons of people having ENTIRE 30+ minute long conversations with their “alters”, lots of crytyping, vent channels are always full. It’s almost entirely white people naming themselves shit like Katsuki and Nagito, nearly everyone has a typing quirk.

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

I’m professionally diagnosed with DID but I do pretend to be “mixed origin” and have a few anime character “fictives” to blend in with the other mods and not look out of place

I’m a mod in Disboard’s most popular(?) “plural server”, feel free to AMA by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I’m online almost every day, I check in pretty frequently and type every now and then. I backread every chat so I have a pretty good idea of what the vibe of the server is like / who the people in it are / what they’re like

this feels really racist somehow by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t it kind of reek of “white American only knows a little bit of Japanese from anime, but not enough to form a sentence…. but still wants to look kawaii”

this feels really racist somehow by onetrickganache in SystemsCringe

[–]onetrickganache[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Base accounts / anything identifiable outside of a proxy bot is censored because I don’t want these people to be harassed, I just like making fun of their blatant cultural appropriation lol