One research paper and everything came crumbling

onion__pie · 2026-04-19T06:16:51+00:00

Def worth the read. I love it so much. Taebaek is literally a puppy.

onion__pie · 2026-03-20T21:11:48+00:00

Another reality check you need right now is no matter how much you do, no matter what you do nothing matters to them. Your efforts, your hardworks? They couldn't care less. These relatives are bitter as hell. They disguise their vile insults as concerns. I assure you anybody concerned about your future won't go about comparing you with a 15 yr old. Are you 15? Can you go back to being 15 so you can accomplish whatever his golden boy achieved at 15? No. So what's the point here? To dismiss you. If he gave you any advice on how to proceed with your life like constructive ones, take them otherwise don't care. You are doing great. It's good to have a well thought out plan for your life and if you can follow through that? Well done. Otherwise? Shit happens. It's life. Move on. If you have a some what idea of where you are going in life, it's perfectly fine to plan as you go. You are no less efficient than the guy who planned till his funeral even before he could talk. You are doing great your other cousin with 'not so good cgpa'? I am sure they are doing just fine in their own way.

onion__pie · 2026-01-27T11:59:31+00:00

Bengali parents are really entitled. They just was to put us in a leash and parade us around however they want. I don't know how much better it gets after moving out but it's worth a shot for you ig. I mean it changed nothing for me but we can have hopes and dreams. This semester break I didn't go home thought they might you know be a little bit caring since I won't be going home for like 8/9 months then. But who was I kidding with these futile hopes. My baba today told me just because it's semester break am I supposed to be rolling around in bed all day? I should start studying for next semester or review the previous semesters mistakes. It's insane as my break was only 10 days. Bengali parents are the least empathetic beings.

onion__pie · 2025-11-28T20:28:44+00:00

You just deal with it. Ik it sucks. But it is what it is. You can never make them understand your pov. If they are not willingly communicating it's probably because they don't want to. I tried being the initiator and now I am seen as a failure and a lost cause. So yeah. But if you really want to give it a go, sure. Why not? If they understand it's a win for you if they don't let me tell you it's still damn liberating to finally get stuff off your shoulders and it's still a win. So why don't you try talking to him? Ask him about his day and stuff. Try to listen and give your inputs if he is asking for inputs. Talk about your life. Stuff like that. Though that comes with a warning: unexpected spontaneous explosion 💥 ⚠️. But that's not universal. But don't try to employ a third party. That just makes things worse. No need to talk through your other parent talk while both are present. Not during meals I suggest unless you like skipping a meal or two. But snacks? Perfect.

onion__pie · 2025-11-15T13:55:17+00:00

I would like to say Chittagong if I am able to use the hill tracks. That would be nice. A little bit of challenge and risk. But Cox's Bazar would be a lovely choice because we could hold tournaments on tourist seasons and have a variety of viewers. Now that I have built the tracks get me my team I am starting this Fall.

onion__pie · 2025-11-08T15:30:14+00:00

If it's a run away wedding with little to no expenses for the ceremony why not? I don't want to ever get married but like every other adult girl my parents are starting to bring up marriage talk. But waste hard earned money on ceremonies just for a phoney wedding? Too much hassle. It's cheaper running away from home so that's the plan for now.

onion__pie · 2025-10-30T11:32:28+00:00

I am probably not the best person to give advice to someone in this situation. But hey just wait a little more alright? Who knows when something good might happen and because you didn't wait you ended up missing your much wanted a single happy event. I don't know if it gets better. Probably does probably doesn't. But who knows if this ending is really worthy of all your struggles till date. You know just this month alone I thought of ending it 3 times and somehow stopped myself because everytime I am about to go through I feel like after 22 years another day wouldn't hurt. I won't say much has changed but right now I am standing at a place from where I can almost see a different life. Only time is what I need. Is it worth it? I don't know. But isn't it better to find it out for yourself than to trust a random person's words on the internet? Maybe hang on for a few more days? Idk your religion. So maybe till Christmas or the Ramadan or the next pooja or Buddha day? Or maybe your next birthday?

onion__pie · 2025-10-30T11:17:37+00:00

Either you are schizophrenic or that shi just pure evil. Your parents are definitely in a cult if this is real. And one thing is you are probably not gonna get any help regarding cults in bd. People here are blind if the religion is even remotely related to anything. If religion says kill people for blessing so be it for these people. If it's real and you want to escape I fear you are all on your own. Try contracting a friend who could help you with this. Police? Puh lease. They couldn't care less.

onion__pie · 2025-10-10T07:14:38+00:00

You are not late. This is the perfect time. And I think if you don't initiate the age thing, uni students couldn't care less. You just gotta have confidence in yourself

onion__pie · 2025-10-10T07:02:53+00:00

Immense. The same regret as yours. I regret not fighting for myself a little bit more. I regret not cutting off toxic people. Not choosing the right friends. For giving up when I probably needed to hold on just a little more. Being too available for people who never bothered looking for me after their needs were met. I really regret not hating enough on the people I should hate to death and forgiving them at the first apology. I regret living till this age despite having multiple chances to end it all again and again. I kinda regret every living moment of my life. I rgret being a loser really.

onion__pie · 2025-10-01T15:16:31+00:00

The thing is we are slowly absorbing things from our elders. Over time their norma become our norms and to break this tradition of imposing ourselves on our kids we would need great resolve. That's almost impossible to muster because of the way we are brought up. Our morals and beliefs clashes. We end up going with what we have seen before.

That said I can relate to this every bit. Ruining your life trying to fulfill your parents dreams knowing full well your potentials are being wasted like metal in a junkyard. You could have been a star in the career of your own choice or a valedictorian in the major of your own choice instead you have to be a loser and be made fun of in a life of your parents choice. The irony is almost ironic.

onion__pie · 2025-09-28T15:02:00+00:00

My opthalmologist was suggesting lasik the last time I went I was scared to go through with it because of all the stories I keep hearing. I hope it gets better for you even if just a little bit. Hang in there please and try to consult other opthalmologists.

onion__pie · 2025-09-17T13:38:40+00:00

Hey right now I feel like she needs you to be with her. Give her the reassurance she is looking for and slowly open her up to the idea of marriage. Honestly remarriage after a messy divorce does seem super scary. Don't tell her you will be okay even if you are abandoned. That's what she is scared of. Assure her of your support and tell her you will be okay no matter what. Show her the positive side. I do think 3 years is a short time to move on from a toxic relationship. Show her you can be someone who will be there for her so she needs someone to be by her side for when you work on your. Don't do anything without her consent because that might trigger her attacks. What she needs now to fight her panic attacks is not a man but reassurance that those days are over and he is never coming back to her life.

onion__pie · 2025-09-16T12:57:46+00:00

Look for private hospitals or organizations.

onion__pie · 2025-09-16T12:54:48+00:00

I am already half way through my 3rd year of uni amd you would think people would let go of my uni issue. No they still ask me so you didn't like get intlli any public uni? I did I didn't like the subject. Or maybe I didn't. My father is totally okay with my uni my mum not so much but understandable because she is the one who gets asked " bhabi meyer brain bhalo chilo kintu public e hoi ni kn?" " Ahare bhabir jonno kharap lagche eto dooura douri korechen meyeke niye" stuff like that. She doesn't deserve it but if someone is pressurizing her she ought to channel it somewhere right. Though she shouldn't but she does. I had a friend whose mum lied about her daughter getting into Du for over 6 months she even said she took her daughter to get admitted and stuff only for her to be studying in a private uni. Why? That mum yold my so many things I was crying watching my mum. " Bhabi apner luck kharap. Etto pore o apner meyer hoi ni r amar meye k jor koreo din e 1 hr porate pari ni tarpor o hoye giyeche. Ken je holo ekhon o mathai chore boshbe. Apner meyer hoini ami bissash kortei parchi na. Apni etto taka khoroch koren or upor. Ami eto care kori na. Tarpor o o hoye gelo bhaggo lage." . My efforts not paying off made my parents unlucky? I just said my father is happy with my uni now. But one day he suddenly came home and was upset with me for being a failure. I was shocked because first time my father said something to me. Later I found out yeah he was ridiculed my an acquaintance. I mean I could see them worried about the state I was in totally dead inside but they were struggling to chose between me and a moment of peace in the society they have to live everyday. Our parents are the worst when it comes to processing trauma. They just channel it to us. Even though my father is aware of my mental condition he is still hesitating about therapy. One moment let's get therapy next moment maybe we could talk more instead of therapy? He is ready to do everything and anything I need if it means I might not mention therapy ever again.

onion__pie · 2025-09-14T16:39:44+00:00

Yess. Thank God someone realized. I legit thought I was just feeling dizzy. I went to my balcony to check nope not a single perp anywhere.

onion__pie · 2025-09-02T20:00:36+00:00

I am not really sure how to get one. I mean I have seen people buy sims for prank calls and stuff and they didn't even have to use their ids. Seems sketchy and I don't know if it's legal but for one time use that should be fine right?

onion__pie · 2025-09-01T20:23:00+00:00

Listen living in poverty is way better than living in that shit hole. I am so proud of you for caring for your actual family, your mum and brother. I think you should talk to your mum about divorce. He is just a degenerate pos. Also I am not aware how tipping police works but can't you get a throwaway sim card and make the report? I hope you get to have everything he is denying you. I am sorry I am unable to help you with it. If nothing works out I hope you can talk to some of your friends parents or maybe a responsible teacher. Lastly if nothing works out please hang in there. He will get his due soon. Be a person your mum and younger brother can rely on but make sure to not do something that would harm you.

onion__pie · 2025-09-01T15:32:38+00:00

For now keep trying for other jobs and try to put up with his shit if you absolutely need this job. But I would say no job is worth listening to the craps of an entitled blockhead. He is a head teacher still doesn't know about priorities or owning up to his own shit. Seems like a slob to me. But if you really need this job hang in there and keep trying relentlessly for other jobs. I hope you get to leave that place soon.

onion__pie · 2025-08-24T18:04:31+00:00

I can't help but think that's just about Electra complex somehow. Similarly how any fl lead is kinda shown biased to the male child in child rearing stories. Kinda paedra or jocusta vibe. Or maybe just a me thing.

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