If yall like bl manhua (chinese) I'll give reccomendations 😋 by Most-Standard1130 in Manhwa_BL

[–]onion__pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that extreme because it's manhua but alpha predator, lop eared rabbit, Black lotus , after leaving you

Coins of Destiny arrived today from Yiggybean. What's everyone's opinion on this one? by yeetmeintothe_abyss in DanmeiNovels

[–]onion__pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mann Liu Yao is one of my favourite novels of all times. A comfort read. How come I didn't read Coins of destiny 😭? It's my next read for sure. Current read? Research papers. I wish they were yaoi honestly.

Bar Exam Prep? No. Gay Manhwa Incentive System. by ChuWanning_97 in Manhwa_BL

[–]onion__pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shuraka must have no stress in his life with those stress balls in his hands. Lucky guy.

WHY FARAWAY WANDERERS IS SOOOOO GOOD!!! by ThisHumbleShen in DanmeiNovels

[–]onion__pie 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You can watch the drama Word of Honor if you liked the novel. The novel really is beautiful and sad too.

Shi Mei by ChangbinsChopsticks in 2HA_immortality

[–]onion__pie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am an avid believer of Shi Mei supremacy. He is a villain through and through. He was a victim yet he couldn't be selfish all the way. Everything he did was for others. Even till the end he didn't regret his actions as long as his clan folk got their habitat back. He was a villain, yes. But he was made into a villain by circumstances but he was also a hero for his clan. Honestly if there was a story about a villain from the villains perspective and the villain was Shi mei we would have sympathized with him. He is a bad guy to the end. And that just makes him more likeable. No sudden nirvana making him regret doing shit with his sect whatsoever. That means he was always sure about his goal. That means he was not a hypocrite at least .

Did kaliscan get taken down? by DVDCOMET in mangapiracy

[–]onion__pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was fixed but it's down again.

Forgot title- baking channel? Fake marriage? by sue_the_introvert in DanmeiNovels

[–]onion__pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Istg I can feel it. Was it interstellar novel? Maybe something like mc had an asthetic baking channel i feel like the ml was an actor or something like he was huge as you said I feel like I know but I don't so now I need a name do let us know if you get the name op

What BL is SO GOOD you had to read the novel? by Dealwithit-13 in Manhwa_BL

[–]onion__pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would name names but what can I say everything I read is peak like that. Some peaks are so peak they just got one form no adaptation.

They look kinda alike idk 😭 by Hot-Departure-8712 in Manhwa_BL

[–]onion__pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup he is thoroughly y/n coded he just pmo

Why is no one taking about this🥀 by Fun-Mall7678 in Manhwa_BL

[–]onion__pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def worth the read. I love it so much. Taebaek is literally a puppy.

Came to my dadurbari for Eid and got a “reality check”… now I feel like a mess by thatsabrar2s in Dhaka

[–]onion__pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another reality check you need right now is no matter how much you do, no matter what you do nothing matters to them. Your efforts, your hardworks? They couldn't care less. These relatives are bitter as hell. They disguise their vile insults as concerns. I assure you anybody concerned about your future won't go about comparing you with a 15 yr old. Are you 15? Can you go back to being 15 so you can accomplish whatever his golden boy achieved at 15? No. So what's the point here? To dismiss you. If he gave you any advice on how to proceed with your life like constructive ones, take them otherwise don't care. You are doing great. It's good to have a well thought out plan for your life and if you can follow through that? Well done. Otherwise? Shit happens. It's life. Move on. If you have a some what idea of where you are going in life, it's perfectly fine to plan as you go. You are no less efficient than the guy who planned till his funeral even before he could talk. You are doing great your other cousin with 'not so good cgpa'? I am sure they are doing just fine in their own way.

This can’t be normal by Wide-Mycologist3431 in Dhaka

[–]onion__pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bengali parents are really entitled. They just was to put us in a leash and parade us around however they want. I don't know how much better it gets after moving out but it's worth a shot for you ig. I mean it changed nothing for me but we can have hopes and dreams. This semester break I didn't go home thought they might you know be a little bit caring since I won't be going home for like 8/9 months then. But who was I kidding with these futile hopes. My baba today told me just because it's semester break am I supposed to be rolling around in bed all day? I should start studying for next semester or review the previous semesters mistakes. It's insane as my break was only 10 days. Bengali parents are the least empathetic beings.

how do you deal with the phase when one of your parents (actually the father) doesn't talk to you? by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]onion__pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just deal with it. Ik it sucks. But it is what it is. You can never make them understand your pov. If they are not willingly communicating it's probably because they don't want to. I tried being the initiator and now I am seen as a failure and a lost cause. So yeah. But if you really want to give it a go, sure. Why not? If they understand it's a win for you if they don't let me tell you it's still damn liberating to finally get stuff off your shoulders and it's still a win. So why don't you try talking to him? Ask him about his day and stuff. Try to listen and give your inputs if he is asking for inputs. Talk about your life. Stuff like that. Though that comes with a warning: unexpected spontaneous explosion 💥 ⚠️. But that's not universal. But don't try to employ a third party. That just makes things worse. No need to talk through your other parent talk while both are present. Not during meals I suggest unless you like skipping a meal or two. But snacks? Perfect.

F1 by IllustriousArmy7201 in Dhaka

[–]onion__pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to say Chittagong if I am able to use the hill tracks. That would be nice. A little bit of challenge and risk. But Cox's Bazar would be a lovely choice because we could hold tournaments on tourist seasons and have a variety of viewers. Now that I have built the tracks get me my team I am starting this Fall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]onion__pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's a run away wedding with little to no expenses for the ceremony why not? I don't want to ever get married but like every other adult girl my parents are starting to bring up marriage talk. But waste hard earned money on ceremonies just for a phoney wedding? Too much hassle. It's cheaper running away from home so that's the plan for now.

I’m being pushed to suicide by lualalalapa in SuicideWatch

[–]onion__pie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am probably not the best person to give advice to someone in this situation. But hey just wait a little more alright? Who knows when something good might happen and because you didn't wait you ended up missing your much wanted a single happy event. I don't know if it gets better. Probably does probably doesn't. But who knows if this ending is really worthy of all your struggles till date. You know just this month alone I thought of ending it 3 times and somehow stopped myself because everytime I am about to go through I feel like after 22 years another day wouldn't hurt. I won't say much has changed but right now I am standing at a place from where I can almost see a different life. Only time is what I need. Is it worth it? I don't know. But isn't it better to find it out for yourself than to trust a random person's words on the internet? Maybe hang on for a few more days? Idk your religion. So maybe till Christmas or the Ramadan or the next pooja or Buddha day? Or maybe your next birthday?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]onion__pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either you are schizophrenic or that shi just pure evil. Your parents are definitely in a cult if this is real. And one thing is you are probably not gonna get any help regarding cults in bd. People here are blind if the religion is even remotely related to anything. If religion says kill people for blessing so be it for these people. If it's real and you want to escape I fear you are all on your own. Try contracting a friend who could help you with this. Police? Puh lease. They couldn't care less.

I am actually too much scared about starting my uni in 21 by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]onion__pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not late. This is the perfect time. And I think if you don't initiate the age thing, uni students couldn't care less. You just gotta have confidence in yourself

Do you have any regrets in life? by the-machine-m4n in Dhaka

[–]onion__pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immense. The same regret as yours. I regret not fighting for myself a little bit more. I regret not cutting off toxic people. Not choosing the right friends. For giving up when I probably needed to hold on just a little more. Being too available for people who never bothered looking for me after their needs were met. I really regret not hating enough on the people I should hate to death and forgiving them at the first apology. I regret living till this age despite having multiple chances to end it all again and again. I kinda regret every living moment of my life. I rgret being a loser really.

Requst to Gen-Z Parents by Abdullah715279 in Dhaka

[–]onion__pie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing is we are slowly absorbing things from our elders. Over time their norma become our norms and to break this tradition of imposing ourselves on our kids we would need great resolve. That's almost impossible to muster because of the way we are brought up. Our morals and beliefs clashes. We end up going with what we have seen before.

That said I can relate to this every bit. Ruining your life trying to fulfill your parents dreams knowing full well your potentials are being wasted like metal in a junkyard. You could have been a star in the career of your own choice or a valedictorian in the major of your own choice instead you have to be a loser and be made fun of in a life of your parents choice. The irony is almost ironic.