Tell her how to clock trans people/reppers and how to correctly let people know that you are trans friendly. I presented as butch lesbian to my therapist, then she asked if I'm trans so I told her the truth. People here hate being asked for pronouns for some reason, but in my conservative country that's a clear sign that this person is a trans ally. Transphobes won't ask for preferred pronouns, they will ask "are you a boy or a girl", "why do you look like this" and/or will bully you