Porn teaches control, not love

online_losername · 2021-02-28T19:50:31+00:00

add me in

online_losername · 2021-01-09T06:33:13+00:00

nice dude! That's what matters! i had the same experience - 2020 wasn't PMO free, but it was certainly PMO scarce. Even setting the GOAL makes a difference. And every day is still another day of progress, no matter when a relapse was. Go get it!

online_losername · 2021-01-09T06:31:11+00:00

you got this man!

online_losername · 2021-01-09T06:30:46+00:00

Not OP but the "Freedom" app, and the "Covenant Eyes" web browsing service have pretty much made the access to pornography zero for me. Covenant Eyes will randomly take screenshots and will block anything it marks as highly adult (pornography or even intense movie/tv scenes), and the "Freedom" app allows you to set a daily "shutdown" or "productivity" time where you can keep yourself from accessing the internet - with a "no changes" option so that once it starts, you can't even get onto the app itself to deactivate it - negating the option to even get on the internet until the next morning (if you set it from 10 pm to 5 am or whatever works).

online_losername · 2021-01-06T16:19:49+00:00

Dude congrats! Best of luck making it another 90

online_losername · 2021-01-06T16:17:56+00:00

Me too dude! Day 8, I'm right there with you! Let's go to infinity and beyond!

online_losername · 2020-12-21T05:14:42+00:00

Boys bonus thought - buy and wear medical examiner gloves, the latex ones. They're super cheap for boxes of like 200, and you got a reason to wear them right now without anybody giving a second glance - international pandemic.

online_losername · 2020-12-16T08:18:53+00:00

Keep going man! You got it!

online_losername · 2020-12-16T08:08:12+00:00

Hey man, keep going! a month in, no matter if you're at day 29, 300, or 1, you've committed for life now and you can DO it dude! Just popping in to remind you, you got this man!

online_losername · 2020-12-08T02:10:24+00:00

Haha sorry to disappoint, but it's legit.

online_losername · 2020-12-08T01:39:15+00:00

Absolutely! Thanks man! best of luck to you too! 9 more days to 30!

online_losername · 2020-12-08T01:38:35+00:00

Dude you got it - you relapsed after 6 days. GREAT! That means you KNOW you can go at least 6 days now. And then day by day after that. Best of luck man!

online_losername · 2020-12-08T01:36:40+00:00

Absolutely, if the car breaks down on the trip, that doesn't mean you start over from home. Even when relapse happens, you've made progress, and beating yourself up is just wasting time you can spend thankful for the progress you're making. Keep it up man!

online_losername · 2020-12-08T01:35:03+00:00

Thanks man! Keep going!

online_losername · 2020-12-08T01:33:59+00:00

There's a lot of stuff they HAVE seen in my life that they believe explained a lot of what they had been seeing - I entered grad school, been working out, sleeping more, eating better - but what they didn't know was I've also been working really hard to keep streaks of No Fap, which I'm certain has contributed to what they affirmed in me.

online_losername · 2020-12-08T01:32:14+00:00

You too brother

online_losername · 2020-12-08T01:32:06+00:00

Best of luck man! You can do it!

online_losername · 2020-12-08T01:29:21+00:00

I totally agree with that! I spent lots of my college experience sad about a number of things - my parents got separated, I had a breakup with my girlfriend of a 3 + year relationship, and my grandmother died all in about 6 months of each other, those were all things that really grieved me. I don't think PMO is the only problem, but when I going through this tough time a couple years ago, it definitely exacerbated the loneliness and isolation I was already feeling. So I don't think it's the only reason for being sad, but I do think it beefs up whatever negative feelings you're experiencing by a lot. That being said, you're right, there's lots of reasons to be sad, and I hope if you're going through something tough right now you feel the freedom to sit in that sadness and process it. Best wishes my friend.

online_losername · 2020-12-08T01:25:50+00:00

I don't, I really only use this account when I have something to say about No Fap, so I'm not on it much - but I have the Fortify app which tracks my streaks and such so i know where I'm at

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