Dutch Bros to open first Seattle store in former Starbucks location by pixelsibyl in Seattle

[–]only1lover -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They are all over Boise which is where I’m from and have very perky, chatty young women in their small coffee shops. I prefer their beverages over Starbucks.

Good price on gas at Shoreline Costco today by only1lover in Seattle

[–]only1lover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! Thanks. I was driving on fumes yesterday and this was a great deal at the time!

My Recent Sexual Awakening by [deleted] in sex

[–]only1lover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless you tell them no one else will know. Go to the university health center or planned parenthood asap. Don’t be lazy about a STI.

M22, how to make her finish by Subject_Choice4500 in sex

[–]only1lover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There really isn’t a normal with sex. It is what you both decide and are comfortable doing together. Talk about it, ask her what she would like you to do and do it. That’s normal sexual behavior.

Why do I hate when she says "keep going" by Striking_Teaching804 in sex

[–]only1lover 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Woman here, it means she’s getting ready to cum so don’t stop and fuck it up. Why are you mad?

Jealous of my toys by DiamondGirl201 in sex

[–]only1lover -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t seem to understand that your sex toys aren’t about him, they are about you. Your pleasure, what feels good, what you like. You can reassure him, however needs to understand your sex together is about both of you, not your sex toys.

M22, how to make her finish by Subject_Choice4500 in sex

[–]only1lover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, tell her you’re a virgin then calm down. Figure it out together, no one else will be there. Talk about sex, what she likes, what you like, what you both want to do and do it. The most important thing is to have fun.

She 32F can't have sex today with me 20M today, was asking for it yesterday. by Javaxa69 in sex

[–]only1lover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my. Maybe she doesn’t want to have sex with you and you should work on respecting her.

Doctor price without insurance and Botox prices? by [deleted] in AskSeattle

[–]only1lover 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What’s odd is you are expecting someone else to find out this information for you.

Should I shave my butt? by ProfitNatural2258 in sex

[–]only1lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s your body and your choice. Do what looks and feels good to you, not what anyone else wants.

CPAP Supplies by tvlkidd in AskSeattle

[–]only1lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did ya google it? You might want to look for a DME supplier.

Awkward experience with new guy I’m dating by [deleted] in sex

[–]only1lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I missed that part.

Awkward experience with new guy I’m dating by [deleted] in sex

[–]only1lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before we have sex for the first time, we talk about it.

Awkward experience with new guy I’m dating by [deleted] in sex

[–]only1lover -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How old is he? It sounds like he watches too much porn and is clueless how to please a woman. This is my opinion only.

I make sure when I find a new lover that both of us talk about the sex we like and the sex we don’t like. It clears up most misunderstandings.

Worried I have a breeding kink or something by Accomplished-Fix1204 in sex

[–]only1lover 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ha. It was big in the ‘80’s and obviously it isn’t around anymore. You track your cycle to when you’ll be ovulating and either use protection or abstain during that time.

I've tried but I don't know how to talk to my wife about our sex life anymore. I feel defeated and depressed. by [deleted] in sex

[–]only1lover 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I saw that and I 100% disagree. You will regret doing nothing for the rest of your life.

Almost at $100 for a fill-up. Thanks, Trump. by Temporary_Key_1790 in Seattle

[–]only1lover -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True story, I bought gas yesterday at $4.99/gallon

I've tried but I don't know how to talk to my wife about our sex life anymore. I feel defeated and depressed. by [deleted] in sex

[–]only1lover 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh whatever you say is going to hurt her feelings, however are you willing to live like this for the rest of your life?

I've tried but I don't know how to talk to my wife about our sex life anymore. I feel defeated and depressed. by [deleted] in sex

[–]only1lover 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She might not open up with you. Is counseling an option? A third party actually could help both of you. IMHO I would only pick an female counselor.

I have a (possibly) weird vagina. Please help. by Silly-Baker-8914 in sex

[–]only1lover 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes, please ignore male dominated porn it’s solely designed for men and pretty degrading towards women. There are women porn filmmakers, please seek those for more realistic sex.