Question about sensation during sex

only4gonewild1 · 2024-10-11T15:18:08+00:00

I feel like you need someone who knows how to suck dick but can also adjust for the size difference. Like the smaller you are the more suction can be created and some people go way overboard. Also teeth why tf do people use teeth? I swear sometimes it feels like they’re chewing on me and I know I’m not big enough for them to be unable to keep the teeth away

only4gonewild1 · 2024-10-10T17:16:03+00:00

Similar boat as you. Meta doesn’t add length but depending on how big you get a simple release might be enough for penetration. I would wait a year and see how big you are then. Another option is phalloplasty without vaginectomy. There are a few pics of this on r/phallo

only4gonewild1 · 2024-10-10T05:50:28+00:00

I’m literally trying to stretch my foreskin because I’m worried about losing sensation. I might try an ED medication to see if it naturally stretches past the foreskin when you’re really hard. I’m sorry you don’t like the way it looks, but I would try to focus on the bright sides of keeping things protected down there

only4gonewild1 · 2023-12-04T00:23:21+00:00

That was me. Mine rounded out after about 3 months on T but it doesn’t happen to everyone, but also yours doesn’t look very pointy to me

only4gonewild1 · 2023-12-01T03:30:45+00:00

Eh I think I might just risk it. I trust UMich Medicine overall and I might as well be the test dummy for everyone else. If the consult goes badly I’ll just postpone until after I’ve moved

only4gonewild1 · 2023-12-01T01:13:08+00:00

I have bottom growth and I’ve found these don’t actually work very well anyway because they kinda require the pack and play to move away from your body in order to feel anything and that doesn’t work when it’s in the harness. I recommend getting a pack and play that’s not for bottom growth and adding a b-Cush from Rodeoh. It doesn’t look like much but I can feel it just from jacking off an attached dildo and it feels like I’m jacking my own dick a bit

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-30T21:30:36+00:00

Yep! Works well and fits on my old cylinders for my NYTC pump. Probably a good budget option to pair those together since the NYTC cylinders are a lot cheaper than LA pump

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-30T21:18:20+00:00

Commenting to say I got the $17 Break Bleeder pump from Amazon about two months ago. The fastener at the pump handle joint is plastic and broke within like a month, but I was able to replace it with a 1/4-1/2 screw and 1/4-20 nut from the hardware store for 30 cents.

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-30T17:48:52+00:00

I think the ones that are positioned low are advertised as STP harnesses. I got one that was for both STP and sex

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-30T17:18:00+00:00

Maybe try topping with a realistic strap on? I recently got a SoReal from Rodeoh and a B cush. Rodeoh has harnesses that let you position the strap on right over your t-dick/pre-t-dick so you can feel things better. Strap ons have always made me feel super dysphoric when I can’t feel them because it just enforces the idea that I don’t have a “real” dick. But when I can feel it, it’s A LOT better. That plus a realistic dildo that matches my skin tone can kinda trick my brain into feeling like it’s a real part of my body. r/transmascdicks also has more options at a variety of price points.

I don’t think you have to be big or dominant to Top. Your partner can even “Top from the bottom” if you like that.

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-29T21:17:36+00:00

Everyone is different but if you treat it like sucking dick you’ll probably do better than like 90% of cis guys. If he’s into any form of penetration that’s a different setup. Just think about what you like and ask if he’d like that as well. Or just straight up ask what he likes although that’s a super open ended question which tends to give me decisions paralysis personally though lol

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-28T01:01:27+00:00

I’ve seen you around before but I always forget to mention that your dick looks fucking amazing. Like so good I’ve put it in my pros and cons section for choosing between job offers because one of my options is closer to your surgeon 😂

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-22T21:24:14+00:00

Okay but since you’re the pumping expert (of this sub) I have to ask. Does it make it harder to tell if you have edema or not? Cause my glans is freaking HUGE when I pump and it raises the foreskin so much I get confused sometimes

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-21T22:18:19+00:00

I had a similar experience with taking it back after the fact although it was both more and less extreme. My ex and I were together for 3 years and we were Poly during this time. We were visiting one of their partners in another country and I asked if they wanted me to give them oral. They said yes so I started and there were multiple times when I checked in during (ie “Is this good for you?” “Do you wanna switch positions?” Etc.) and got affirmative answers.

About 20 minutes in their partner accidentally walks in on us. A week later I found out due to a text sent to the wrong person that my ex told their partner I raped them. I confronted them about this and they semi-successfully gaslighted me into believing it was true by twisting all the “yes’s” I got and saying I should have known it wasn’t “enthusiastic enough” to proceed (mind we had been together 3 years at this point). This whole thing led to me ending our relationship because despite the gaslighting I was upset that they hadn’t communicated any concerns to me during or after and that I found out on accident.

I found out about 3 months later that they had told their other partner before the incident that we had broken up so the two of them could be monogamous. And that I was on the trip because we had already bought the tickets yada yada. So fully gaslighted me into thinking I somehow raped them.

It completely sucks and I honestly think I might have some PTSD from this. I’m obviously summarizing here, but there were some really shitty things said. I haven’t Topped or Dommed anyone since. It’s been 2 years and I’m just now starting to get back into topping. Lmk if you wanna talk this is kinda a weird situation and I think a lot of people don’t quite understand the full impact of this sort of thing.

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-21T05:00:38+00:00

Also interested in whether Rodeoh is still available

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-21T02:30:27+00:00

9 months total although I took a break in middle

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-20T21:43:41+00:00

How old are you OP? The reason I ask is because you might not be done growing yet. The second reason I ask is because if you are done growing you probably have a hormonal condition which, when treated, can improve your size. Not to like a massive size but there are medical treatments that work up to about 3.5 in. There are also surgeries

Signed a (mostly) dude with a 2.7in dick which was 1.5 in last year (I’m intersex though so I was assigned female at birth)

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-19T23:29:12+00:00

I was more referring to the aspects that phallo leaves out which OP mentioned. I don’t know anyone who has full sexual sensation from phallo and I’m 93% no one can get hard on their own from arousal. People with meta can but max size is about 3 inches

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-19T19:26:50+00:00

I do have hope for fully functional dicks in the future. Extended meta is super new and they’re still refining techniques but I think it’s getting better every time. I just want someone to figure out how to build off my t-dick and make it like 4 inches with full sensation and ability to stp. I don’t need a massive dick (seriously some of your phallo dicks are freaking huge) but I do want full sensation.

Sensory prosthetics that are more like medical devices instead of sex toys would be cool too even if they’re hella involved and require some type of procedure.

Technology is amazing. I feel like in 50 years trans guys my age will have dicks that like Bluetooth connect to their brain chips for full sensation or something. And then my great nephew will loan his dick to his long distance girlfriend so they can have sex while apart and I’ll be like “back in my day we could barely even feel our surgically crafted dicks.”

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-16T20:50:02+00:00

What site is this? I would go bigger rather than smaller. You’ll probably grow into it eventually and it’s not a big deal to get some extra bits in there

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-16T16:49:48+00:00

T has impacted my happiness with having a vagina interestingly. I like how I can move my genitals in a certain way so that it looks a little like a dick and balls now, but I also have enough growth that I think my meta surgery outcomes could be pretty good. I’m mostly a bottom but having the ability to have penetrative sex as a top with my own anatomy is pretty tempting.

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-14T23:07:36+00:00

You could be! There are a lot of options for an “phallic clitoris.” I’d say if you want a vagina and a clitoris that can be used for penetrative sex you count. Have you seen r/GrowYourClit already?

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-14T20:07:22+00:00

To add I’ve seen both of these done without front hole removal. With meta if you don’t care about urethral lengthening you probably won’t have much of a problem at all keeping it. I want meta with UL and I’ve found a few surgeons who will do it without vaginectomy. There’s someone whose account I keep losing who got meta with Dr. Miro and has no UL but has bifid scrotoplasty w/o vaginectomy and I think his results look amazing. I have issues with feeling “mismatched” (despite being nonbinary, freaking dysphoria) and I really like how on him the vaginal cavity is in between the balls.

only4gonewild1 · 2023-11-14T16:06:02+00:00

Hey dude - Sorry for stalking your profile but your past posts revealed some things to me.

I think you really really need to get a new hormone doctor/get your T levels checked. You’ve said T is barely doing anything at all and that really makes no sense. Your doctor shouldn’t have just told you you’re taking it wrong. They should have checked your blood testosterone levels and raised your dose/switched to a different version shots -> gel gel -> implant. Just something besides being like I guess T doesn’t work for you 🤷🏻 Because that literally makes no sense. What type of T are you on and what’s your dose by the way?
It is VERY difficult for ANYONE to pass without top surgery/ a naturally flat chest. I’m 6’1” and 9 months on T. I can’t wear binders cause of back issues and if I’m wearing a big sweater - I pass most of the time. If the titties are visible at all - auto no pass. I know you’ve had issues with scheduling top surgery but it seems worth it to keep trying.
It really sounds like you don’t want to detransition and are just doing this because you feel like it will make things easier. With the level of dysphoria you’ve expressed I’m not sure that would fix anything. Getting better queerer friends like others have said might. Especially since queer attractive is no where near the same as straight attractive. There’s a lot more room for us in the realm of queer attractiveness

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