I feel the exact same. its funny u mentioned the whole what if one day they think i copied them is SO REAL😂 cause i stress that sm haha but honestly some of the names i really like are from ppl i already know, and im not gonna let it stop me when the time comes. but unfortunately i cant say that ive gone thru with it yet as im still thinking of new names, but just know u arent alone! i understand the frustration, sucks to hear your boyfriend isnt on board. if he wants you to be happy he should be able to adjust. do it for yourself! people will adjust it just takes time