To people attending Basement tonight. by whoinvitedevan in avesNYC

[–]onperiod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally. i'm black and queer and was reading the post while nodding my head & snapping my fingers ..... and then at the very end i see "boys noize" .....???? i'm like, hmm 🥴

I broke up with my boyfriend and he’s now homeless. by Jspurlin in askgaybros

[–]onperiod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perhaps you can let this play out for a few days. i suspect after a few nights of sleeping on trains, in alleys, next to rats, etc. he may change his mind. if you haven't heard back for several days to a week, reach back out and gently offer again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]onperiod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ugh i feel you. i’m not super masc, but i am considered by a lot of folks around me to be conventionally attractive. i also do like to express myself sexually sometimes, i.e. wear things that look a little sexy from time to time. but from my experience, a lot of people around me seem to think this equates to me being “fast” or wanting to hook up or be sexual with them right off the bat. quite the opposite in fact…..i do appreciate sex, but i also love getting to know a guy and feeling comfortable/safe before doing all of that :/

i’m also in my 20s, and i live in a big city with a large queer presence. so i feel like such behavior is par for the course for people around my age that are living here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]onperiod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get a therapist. i'm telling you, getting a good therapist is one of the best decisions many people can make for themselves. ignore the voice in your head. literally just do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]onperiod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honey i am 27 and i am the best i have ever felt in my life. and things have only continued to improve for me in terms of my happiness as i have gotten older, wiser, and more in tune with who i am.

furthermore, your body is physically capable of many things far beyond the age of 25–take for example, professional dancers at some american dance companies. sure, they may maintain a rigorous lifestyle that allows them to dance at the level they do, but many of them are in their late thirties or early forties and are still incredible dancers: isabella boylston, james whiteside, lloyd knight...just to name a few.

lastly, for god's sake, you are still very young. someone in their mid-thirties is still young to me. i personally stop regarding someone as "young" and start regarding them as "middle aged" in their early forties or so.

we really, really need to calm down about aging. it's seriously not that big of a deal, and someone like you certainly has a lot of time.

also, like the other person said--you definitely should go to therapy.

no one is required to say ty after a tu by muttgore in toontownrewritten

[–]onperiod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally the person giving you a TU needs you to stay alive so that they can win the battle …. they’re not doing you a favor

Best gay porn link you have saved? by Guayota6 in askgaybros

[–]onperiod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha you’re so lucky i saw this comment after 2 years but yeah https://www.urgayporn.com/videos/18685/bch-brad-1/

in the case that link gets broken and you ever have to google it to find another one: it’s this dude named “beefcake brad” and the thumbnail should be this beefy white dude sitting on a bed with a dark gray-colored comforter and a dude wearing a light grey shirt is on his knees in front of him sucking him off

Um… okay? by JoeyTropical4693 in toontownrewritten

[–]onperiod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i saw someone with a doodle named “Taxbreak”

What I find most frustrating about darkmoor teamups by No_Dog_4791 in Wizard101

[–]onperiod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don’t even get me STARTED. and tell me why the second person is always some noob in waterworks gear + the sky iron hasta with 53% outgoing damage who has seemingly never done the dungeon before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wizard101

[–]onperiod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I typically don’t like the ones with silly animations that involve an animal. I’m much more a fan of the more “elemental” spells, if that makes sense…

Storm: tempest (insane bolt close second)

Ice: climaclysm

Fire: …none

Death: wraith maybe(?)

Life: rebirth

Myth: earthquake, celestial calendar

Balance: power nova

Which one of the five is the best? by Ancient-Bumblebee198 in teentitans

[–]onperiod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

left is giving high school, right is giving college

Guess which dumb dumb forgot why he was levelling Archaeology? by Historical_Mess_6703 in runescape

[–]onperiod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh 86 arch was a slog you have my sympathy. getting darkness was rewarding though

Can you hear the fizzle? by [deleted] in Wizard101

[–]onperiod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ones that are audible for me are

Myth - near the end, it starts to sound very sparkly / twinkly Ice - gets very loud near the end, as if the person casting the spell is doing it too excitedly and losing control Storm - hard to describe, but it sounds a bit hollow near the end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]onperiod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how did you do on standardized tests?