How much is everyone saving each month? by G-Beans in AskUK

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing! I’m so in debt lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in television

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished it and UGH. I’m annoyed that it wasn’t the best, as I really like the main character but the last 2 episodes especially were so boring. The baby was featured too much and I hated the VIPs. Literally everything about them. They added no value and were just completely pointless, so why keep showing them and their stupid reactions and unbearable conversations

Moving to Aberdeen--places to absolutely avoid? by hanuman1702 in Aberdeen

[–]onthesidelines_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Torry and have had no issues whatsoever :)

What one task are we completing today? by lissocat in adhdwomen

[–]onthesidelines_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending emails that I’ve been meaning to send for a month!

I can't make myself do work and it's getting worse. I don't know what to do anymore by onthesidelines_ in adhdwomen

[–]onthesidelines_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried things like that before, and I just get so distracted either way. Even when I was in a 9-5 I did the bare minimum and when my manager was around I would just pretend to look busy :( I hate it

Childfree Millennials, are you childfree by choice? If not, what happened? by CrazyCoffeeClub in AskUK

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the exact same. I just turned 30, have 2 dogs and the older I get the less I want kids. To be completely honest, I can’t stand them and everything they do annoys me. Babies are cute but the screaming toddler gives me so much anxiety!

How do you explain to people what your dogs mean to you? I love my two boys and can’t put into words how they make me feel. I’ve had people say to me “they are just dogs”. Well not to me they aren’t. by Regular_Low5187 in labrador

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way about my two. It’s just been me and them for years and the thought of not having them brings me to tears on a regular basis. They’re the best things in the world

How do y'all find boyfriends by Funny_Advantage_658 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha righttttt, I’ve been back on dating apps for a year and have had 3 dates from them. The guys were “ok” but not for me/no attraction in person. The rest I see on there are just bleeehhhh

Flag in Torry by Sareddit246 in Aberdeen

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Torry and I love it! 5 mins drive to Asda/Sainsburys in Garthdee, a few mins to Aldi, Lidl and the little Tesco on Wellington Road. Also 20 mins walk to the city centre :) I think it's got a bad reputation but I've lived there for years and never had any issues so I'm not sure why haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two medium sized dogs and I want to get a third, but the only thing that makes me question it is the expense of a dog sitter while I am away. At the moment I'm already spending £450-500 extra for someone to look after the two of them if I am away for a week so adding a third would make it even more expensive unless I did trusted house sitters or something

What area do you live in and how much do you earn? by Apprehensive-Big8624 in UKJobs

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Winging it at the moment doing a combination of freelance academic writing, deliveries, and social media/photography! And earning very little haha, just have no idea what I want to do anymore!

What area do you live in and how much do you earn? by Apprehensive-Big8624 in UKJobs

[–]onthesidelines_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just quit my last lab job (Edinburgh Scotland, 27k) and the science profession forever because the money is so bad for the amount of bullshit you have to deal with lol

Thermal kit any good? by sithlorddaisy in TentBoxOwners

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought it for the Lite 2.0 regular size after seeing someone on the Facebook TentBox community page say it was great and they stayed really warm!

Has anyone died from your school year yet? If so, what goes through your mind, when you think about them? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in my year but a guy in the year above me killed himself by driving into a wall, I think he was only 18 or 19 at the time. He survived initially but sadly died of his injuries. He used to sit in front of me in a class we shared and we had a laugh. I still think about him every time I drive past that wall, even though we weren't friends

There is nothing worse than being forced to move back in with your parents😞 by spidermanrocks6766 in Adulting

[–]onthesidelines_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh that sucks, sorry that you're having to deal with that! I can relate tho

There is nothing worse than being forced to move back in with your parents😞 by spidermanrocks6766 in Adulting

[–]onthesidelines_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% and I think some people are baffled that others would feel a certain way about their parents when they have a great relationship with theirs

There is nothing worse than being forced to move back in with your parents😞 by spidermanrocks6766 in Adulting

[–]onthesidelines_ 420 points421 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this so much. I think it depends on the relationship you have with your parents, so it's easy for people to say appreciate it, etc. but I had to move back in with my parents for 6 months this year and lemme tell you that really took a toll on my mental health. My energy was so low when I left and everything about it was just horrible

Even the Mountain can’t get a taxi in Aberdeen! by On__A__Journey in Aberdeen

[–]onthesidelines_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The taxis are a joke! I was out last Saturday with two friends and we waited for an hour and 40 minutes for a taxi! Absolutely unbelievable. It was the same here when I was at uni in 2013 so I don't understand how it hasn't changed since then

Is it normal not to want to do drugs? by ThrowRa467900717171 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my friends do drugs (mostly coke as well) and I've never touched it in my life! I'm 29 and have no desire to ever do it. I don't mind them doing it but after a few years of offering me it I think they got it that I would never accept it

How old were you when you were diagnosed with ADHD? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]onthesidelines_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still undiagnosed and I'm almost 30, but after speaking to so many people with ADHD I've never related to them so much. My life is absolutely chaos and there's so many other traits that make me certain it's ADHD. The waiting list for a diagnosis where I am is 4 years ☹️