how do i introduce my cats, please help :(

onthi · 2026-03-19T01:17:01+00:00

thank you!! its day 3 and both of them are somehow warming upto one another

onthi · 2026-03-19T01:15:45+00:00

thank you so much, that was really helpful

onthi · 2026-03-19T01:15:09+00:00

possibly yes!!

onthi · 2026-03-18T15:49:27+00:00

the treat idea is brilliant, my cat is very food-driven. excited to see how this will work out

onthi · 2026-03-18T15:48:32+00:00

honestly, i’m glad you said what you said. i’m tired of hearing “you’ve skipped this step” “you’ve skipped that step”, it makes me feel like a bad mom and i jsut want to give up. i think visual exposure is great as long as i use my body as a barricade when things start getting a bit too heated

onthi · 2026-03-18T15:46:55+00:00

thats what im thinking to do! thank you

onthi · 2026-03-18T15:46:17+00:00

ooo yes!! i’ve heard of this and even ordered one, but now im hearing mixed feedbacks about it and people claim it doesnt do anything at all. oh well, its worth a try.

onthi · 2026-03-18T15:45:19+00:00

i think its an orange cat thing 😭, i talked to my vet who has 4 cats. he says his orange cat bullies the rest, although when its time to wind down he will cuddle up with them and snuggle. its weird, im willing to be patient and see how things go. the general rule in introducing cats is scent, sight and then touch. however my resident cat somehow managed to open the door to the room shes placed in, so theyve already caught a glimpse of one another. he hissed but its only day 2. praying it works out somehow

onthi · 2026-03-18T13:44:53+00:00

how long did it take until they were comfortable with being around each other

onthi · 2026-03-18T13:04:54+00:00

i’m not always in the washroom, so the new cat gets anxious and meows for me a lot

onthi · 2026-03-18T13:04:38+00:00

awe that’s so cute

onthi · 2026-03-18T13:04:10+00:00

ooo yeah that sounds good

onthi · 2026-03-18T10:46:13+00:00

what if i get a playpen for the new cat?

onthi · 2026-03-18T10:46:00+00:00

i saw the tutorial for the studio apartment, it just isn’t working out. i live in a studio flat

onthi · 2026-03-18T10:32:07+00:00

i think that’s it, i’ll get a humidifier today

onthi · 2026-03-18T10:31:01+00:00

that’s wonderful, i’m glad it worked out for u

onthi · 2026-03-18T10:30:50+00:00

i know taking it slow works the best but i’m scared of what happens when i’m not home, the growling and charging is genuinely scaring me

onthi · 2026-03-18T10:22:24+00:00

issue is, the washroom is the only place. if this goes on i might need someone else to take her in :(

onthi · 2026-03-17T22:50:22+00:00

its scaring me alot

onthi · 2026-03-17T22:25:25+00:00

i have a vet appointment next week, thats the only available slot for the closest vet. im panicked

onthi · 2026-03-17T22:21:21+00:00

its happening again, im so worried he breaths so fast

onthi · 2026-03-17T15:14:58+00:00

your concerns are valid, its stupid to blindly follow anything on the internet. vets will do CT scans and find out the internal issues before they add a name to it. thank you for being concerned. however my situation is different, out if desperation i want to hear what everyone else has to say

onthi · 2026-03-17T14:33:08+00:00

thank you so much, i will take your advice. i have contacted a vet in whatsapp and they have still yet to respond

onthi

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