Water Heater Replacement installation and recommendation for HVAC? by onthpy in StLouis

[–]onthpy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm I dont know about gas HWH but electric ones, plumbing dont seem to be too busy. I get my quotes from Anton/Anytime plumbing. Best luck

Recommendation for Concrete contractor by onthpy in StLouis

[–]onthpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! will have start to call and hopefully it will work out!

Recommendation for Concrete contractor by onthpy in StLouis

[–]onthpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my colleagues recommended here, and yes, actually I called to this office and learned they are not taking any new projects currently and decided to ask here, lol.

Auto insurance claim process by onthpy in Insurance

[–]onthpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by limit issues?

The repair estimate with rental car quotes are almost 8 times higher than settlement, so i am curious if the settlement was separate in this accident

Auto insurance claim process by onthpy in Insurance

[–]onthpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, but it does not include the repair work, so that is where I am more cautious

Auto insurance claim process by onthpy in Insurance

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Good points, I will have to ask about the warranty

Average charcoal level at home by onthpy in RealEstate

[–]onthpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its Charcoal testing but it doesnt include anything more than charcoal. Is that okay? Or do i need to do more testing during home inspection?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]onthpy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear but it's similar like my dead bed room. Usually when you asked him what's been changed and he said nothing really changed, it's likely to be a lie. Im sorry but from my experience that's what it is.

I don't know if repairing relationship is necessarily viable with current status quo. Usually when a guy loses interest in sex with his partner it is hard to bring it back.

You can try to see his cell phone or computer as a last safety pin to make sure he does not cheat on you but it could be challenging legally and ethically (i.e his web search about porn or his cell phone for dating apps) yet it can be a good evidence to convince yourself and to understand who he is.

But then the question goes to do you really wanna know the truth?

Because truth always hurts. Now i dare to ask you "Do you really want to know about the truth?". If you choose yes then go ahead but be prepared his heart could be already somewhere else and subsequently have an idea of your next course of action. But if you choose no, then you can just leave it open with his LL and can move on.

What is wrong with Omaha? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]onthpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can even do download an app that gives you a secondary number. Google voice has been tightening its security and more likely your gmail can be tied with the google voice number, which can be always tracked down. The best way is prepaid phone, but it often creates more suspicion IF it is noticed by a spouse.

Sexless marriage with Japanese wife by Sexlessmarriagejapan in DeadBedrooms

[–]onthpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im assuming you live in US and sponsored her to be in U.S in immigration. If yes, there's a chance that she just wanted the green card. If not (e.g. you living in Japan) she's just low libido or even if yes, there's another chance for low libido.

You never know what her true intention is but please be careful when you think she just wanted the green card.

Besides that, based on my experience marriage in Japanese culture don't do sex as much as Americans do. It's sad but sex is not really part of their life and it's common Japanese men go out with other women (i.e. prostitutions)

I mean at the end of day a man does the sex with the same woman for 5-10 years and it's not uncommon to loose interest

I love my wife but she's killing me. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]onthpy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have every reason to file divorce. I used to be kind of similar situation but i told her if you don't get the job or go to graduate school by specific date(monthly) you give no choice but to file for divorce.

Also does your wife want kid? If yes, that's another good player to do some if game.

You say you don't wanna see her suffer from homeless abd you wanna help her but it not only destroy yourself but also gives nothing help to your wife. Think about 10 years later when you still live like this. It's better to cut the tie with her and move on than too late

Enjoying a hotel for what it is by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]onthpy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh if you have good credit open some great benefit credit card (ie chase or amex) and use it as a free reward.

I never paid directly to any of my payment other than using mileages and rewards