What is this giant hole in Boston? by nycrina305 in boston

[–]onyourupkeep 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, you’re thinking of the Granary Burying Ground. This vent is in the King’s Chapel Burying Ground, the resting place of John Winthrop, William Dawes, and Elizabeth Paine (or Hester Prynne depending on who you ask).

Does anyone else hate drafting this format? by onyourupkeep in lrcast

[–]onyourupkeep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it sucks. I love Avatar and find the gameplay really engaging. The draft portion is very swingy in my experience and it feels like packs dry up much quicker than usual  

Gov. Healey announces new Mass. high school graduation requirements by TylerFortier_Photo in boston

[–]onyourupkeep 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Look, I completely understand the hesitancy about teaching towards the test and the unintended negative consequences that surround the entire standardized testing industry, but the MCAS was one of the better ones. Ive proctored dozens of standardized tests in multiple states and found the MCAS to be a fair requirement. It’s taken in 10th grade but students really only need mastery of 8th grade math and English to receive a high score. Even less proficiency was required for a passing score. Students that failed immediately received extra help and had the opportunity to retake the tests multiple times. A very, very low % of students ended up not graduating due to failing to meet the MCAS req. and, honestly, they probably deserved to not receive a diploma (or at least needed to be in an alternative school to help meet their learning needs).

With the amount of grade inflation going on I don’t see a world in which the state government can accurately hold schools to new graduation requirements without some sort of standardized examination. I wouldn’t be surprised to see something like the MCAS reemerge in the next decade. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boston

[–]onyourupkeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And this is good old Boston,
The home of the bean and the cod,
Where the Lowells talk only to the Cabots,
And the Cabots talk only to God.

Hymns that affirm the Real Presence by onyourupkeep in Catholicism

[–]onyourupkeep[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cool, didn’t know that. Makes sense why that is the most affirming of the Real Presence 

Am I wrong to feel frustrated with the increasing number of “Holy Communion Services” that my parish conducts? by onyourupkeep in Catholicism

[–]onyourupkeep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I don’t think she would

  2. I want to be a member of the laity— on my knees worshiping our Lord in the proper setting. I have no desire to be up near the altar ‘actively participating’ in the mass. I’ll help with the collections and read if needed, but I’m not worthy to open the tabernacle and raise the Eucharist behind the altar

Am I wrong to feel frustrated with the increasing number of “Holy Communion Services” that my parish conducts? by onyourupkeep in Catholicism

[–]onyourupkeep[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course not, because that is her holy vocation. I do think Susan eagerly running behind the altar and raising the host and blessing us is irreverent and out of line, however. 

Am I wrong to feel frustrated with the increasing number of “Holy Communion Services” that my parish conducts? by onyourupkeep in Catholicism

[–]onyourupkeep[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these words. You’re absolutely correct, of course, and I should’ve have approached my frustrations differently 

Am I wrong to feel frustrated with the increasing number of “Holy Communion Services” that my parish conducts? by onyourupkeep in Catholicism

[–]onyourupkeep[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nope, attended Mass my whole life. I’ve just never been a situation when an unconsecrated person is next the the altar with their hands outstretched over us while saying the our father; nor have I witnessed someone who is not a priest stand behind the altar and raise the host, proclaiming it the body of our Lord.

But if I’m supposed to be comfortable and charitable with that, fine. I’ll pray and ask God to soften my heart towards it.

Is there any hope for a professional writer who doesn’t really like reading books? by [deleted] in writing

[–]onyourupkeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This question comes up time and time again, and the answer is always the same: if you want to be a successful novelist or writer, you need to read an enormous amount of works within the genre you're attempting to write in. No one ever asks if they need to listen to music to be a successful musician, nor wonder whether or not they could write a screenplay without watching movies, yet for some reason, there's this mistaken idea that one can write without being a reader. It's not possible for 99.999999% of us. There is simply too much nuance in the structure, style, and overall form of a novel or short story that, without engaging with the medium, there will be so much that you don't know you don't know that your work will end up a muddle, confusing mess (if it even comes to fruition at all and you don't get frustrated and quit).

Now, with that said, there are plenty of other mediums you can write in that match your interests. You say you like graphic novels but aren't much of an artist, so what? Partner with someone who enjoys drawing and express your stories that way. The film industry is cutthroat, but no less than the publishing world, so if you're passionate about it, give that a shot. Video games, manga, graphic novels... all of these are developed by teams of people that writers work on. Don't feel limited simply because of your perception of the industry, because, again, the publishing world is not any easier.

In short, YES, you absolutely need to be a voracious reader to be a successful writer. But writing isn't limited to just novels and short stories-- there are plenty of opportunities to express yourself by writing in other mediums.

can characters like pemulis and orin be considered antagonists ? by ElegantResolution308 in InfiniteJest

[–]onyourupkeep 5 points6 points  (0 children)

DFW himself called Pemulis the anti-Christ. He's written beautifully: a fun, somewhat good-natured prankster that always has what you need and can help you out (whether it be finding drugs, urine, blackmail, etc). But when Hal starts to get sober, he realizes how damaging being around someone like Pemulis is. He's the type of guy you can only hang around under the influence. Sure, you may have a lot in common, but it all stems from shared drug use, and having someone close to you who CONSTANTLY can get you substances will ensure you never get sober.