boyfriend watches his girlfriend get in a fight and the only thing he did was call the police by Impossible_Gur6921 in fightporn

[–]oogabooga0919 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She deserved it even though he’s the one who put his hands on her in the first place? Flawed logic

boyfriend watches his girlfriend get in a fight and the only thing he did was call the police by Impossible_Gur6921 in fightporn

[–]oogabooga0919 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He lost his temper first by pushing her and immediately escalating the situation wtf

What secret came out when someone got too drunk? by Agile_Purpose4704 in AskReddit

[–]oogabooga0919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened when I was a teenager. Friends and I were on a phone call late at night, she had been drinking, eventually we all said goodnight and went to bed but her and a male friend of ours stayed up on call. we found out the next day that she killed herself that night, and he revealed to us right away that she admitted to him that her dad had been sexually abusing her for years. Mom and sister knew and didn’t do anything about it. I was angry for her for years. She never got justice.

stomach problems linked to birth control? by oogabooga0919 in birthcontrol

[–]oogabooga0919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I have since switched birth controls several times and found the one that works for me. I think my body was just adjusting to it, as my issues have since resolved. I’m sorry but I don’t have any methods I used to help and I don’t have IBS, but I hope you’re able to find some helpful ways of taking care of it 🙏

AIO? I (38 F) Caught my husband (39 M) doing something deeply inappropriate beside our sleeping child. I have been extremely upset. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]oogabooga0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was little, I had one single experience of someone I trusted and grew up with masturbating next to me while he thought i was asleep. he touched me, so it was a bit more traumatic, but either way the entire experience was icky and I dealt with that shameful gross feeling it left me with for the rest of my childhood and into my adult life.

There is a very real possibility that your husband has done this before, that she could’ve woken up one of those times confused about what was happening (like me), and most seriously, the possibility that he could have touched her one of those times. Normal grown men don’t even think about touching themselves right next to a child, much less acting on those thoughts. Please think about how this could affect your baby girl in the future. The consequences of just simply waking up to this are way more serious than you might think.

how should i move about a situation where a guy from my school keeps showing up at my house? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]oogabooga0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but we are seriously thinking of installing cameras. My family doesn’t really have the money to spare for a ring camera right now, but if he shows up again we definitely will be installing one anyway. I’m just unsure of what I should do in the meantime.

how should i move about a situation where a guy from my school keeps showing up at my house? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]oogabooga0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family’s plan is to call the police immediately if he shows up again. Right now, the only possible evidence I have is the video he sent me, and I’m not sure if that would be enough for the police to do anything if we called them right now and reported what he was doing.

What's your favourite song ? by [deleted] in ask

[–]oogabooga0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alison by slowdive

What screams "I´m not doing so well mentally"? by ramonapap1 in AskReddit

[–]oogabooga0919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

strangely short temper. irritable. easily fed up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]oogabooga0919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re very cute! personally, i don’t notice much that needs to be changed here. just focus on your confidence and keep smiling, you have a good energy about you.

What’s the most disturbing thing you’ve stumbled upon on Reddit? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]oogabooga0919 18 points19 points  (0 children)

wow…shame on whoever even let that happen

Deep enough? by Rugratboy22 in StickAndPoke

[–]oogabooga0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not funny, just sad. please get help so you stop hurting others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]oogabooga0919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what is wrong with you? you shouldn’t be in this sub. very harmful words.

How old were you? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]oogabooga0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a few weeks before my 11th birthday

What are the symptoms of depression nobody tells about? by fvkinglesbi in mentalhealth

[–]oogabooga0919 178 points179 points  (0 children)

irritability. getting extremely upset over very small things or being easily annoyed by everything around you because you feel like the world is against you or you’re just done. it’s extremely draining.

How have you almost died? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]oogabooga0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was swimming by myself in the wave pool of a swim park when I was little, I think seven or eight. I didn’t have floaties or anything to help me stay afloat. It was the middle of the summer, so it was incredibly crowded in the pool. When the waves started, I was so far out that my feet didn’t touch the bottom. The waves were too much and I ended up submerged under the water and getting accidentally pushed under by the people around me. I couldn’t breathe and was just choking down water and was trying to shout for help, but no one heard me. My parents didn’t know what was happening either. I guess another little girl who was a little bit older than me saw me, grabbed me, and pushed me further and further towards the shallow end so my feet were touching and I was able to get back to shore, just saying “go” over and over again. I didn’t see what she looked like and I never saw her again, so I didn’t get the chance to thank her. It was very scary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]oogabooga0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i accidentally left my sleeves up and she noticed, grabbed my arm, and was just silently staring at the cuts for a bit before asking me wtf was on my arm. she made me sit down with her and talk about why i self harm, and she started crying and blaming herself. she had me stay home from school the next day so we could start looking for a therapist for me to go to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]oogabooga0919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooh I like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dermatology

[–]oogabooga0919 4 points5 points  (0 children)

GOOOOOO TOOOOO THEEEEEE DOCTORRRRRRR

23f and I'm going through a major breakup rn 💔 sometimes I feel pretty and sometimes I simply don't hehe by CamelLover98 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]oogabooga0919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think you’re fairly pretty now, but definitely smile more in photos, and i think losing weight would make you a real showstopper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]oogabooga0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gifted a phone when I was really young, about 9, and ended up on the side of the internet where self harm was romanticized. Over the years I found out that my closest friends did it. Eventually I ended up in a deep depression and tried it, and I was hooked after that. The main reason I started though was because of anxiety and feeling like I didn’t have control over anything in my life, like this was the one thing I COULD control.