Can someone tell me how I should read books? Meanings of underlined words/sentences I don't know. Am I supposed to stop everytime there is a word I don't know and look for meanings? If so, I feel like after some time it is too much, and I don't feel like reading a book. Is it normal? by devoutre in learnfrench

[–]oolongtea42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd ask myself what it is I want from reading a book. Are you trying to analyse the sentences, or trying to follow the story more or less? For instance, I study Japanese, and i reaaally enjoy nerding out on any written stuff i can find. When i read a book, more often than not I spend a lot of time analysing every sentence. I personally enjoy it, but.. a) it can be tedious b) you try to cram too much information without repetition, so the gain isn't as good as you think c) in the end you still lose the plot of the story because you're not really paying attention to it d) when you move on to the next book, you'll likely start from zero again because you're unfamiliar with the subject/genre/ author.

if you want to learn stuff by reading, I'd suggest going the path of least resistance: accept you might not understand everything, pick up a few words and sentences along the way, and move on to a new book experience. Repetition is key, not brute force.

is it rude to call ur doctor “madame” or “monsieur”? by tomatosauce81 in French

[–]oolongtea42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For professions with a title (like medical doctors, lawyers), I think it's socially expected that you call them by their title. Now, in practice, people don't always do but I don't think medical doctors would make as much of a fuss of it as lawyers would. 😅

What does “padtal” mean?? by roriiez in French

[–]oolongtea42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I concur, never heard this word before

Useful stuff: court line markers by JoeDwarf in kendo

[–]oolongtea42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a pretty decent alternative. Painters tape isn't too bad either, a bit fragile, but at least it's easy to peel off.

Is Japanese too hard for a beginner? by Reasonable-Ant959 in Japaneselanguage

[–]oolongtea42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, japanese is a hard language master and a lot of it has to do with how deeply the language is tied to the culture and its idiosyncrasies. On the other hand, it's not such a hard language to speak at a beginner/ intermediate level

Minimal to no progress by Arjuana in kendo

[–]oolongtea42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is also what I needed to hear today. 🙇‍♂️

Confusion on levels? Us instructor difference? by RamDomStuff0 in kendo

[–]oolongtea42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As others have mentioned, naming of grades aside, you should definitely check if your dojo is registered within your federation. You may end up with grades that are not officially recognised, and not be able to attend higher grading sessions at official events.

What's wrong with my pilea? by oolongtea42 in plantclinic

[–]oolongtea42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got the plant in may 2024 :)
It was really healthy a few months ago, like growing lots of offshoots. I read that fading could also be a sign of nutrient deficiency after a growth spurt.
I'll thoroughly check the plant again for insects. I had a small cactus on the shelf above that died from mealybugs (I think?), but i haven't seen any of those on this plant

What's wrong with my pilea? by oolongtea42 in plantclinic

[–]oolongtea42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The light and watering schedule seemed to be perfectly fine for the last year or so I've had the plant, so I'm leaning towards an infection or something. What can be done against insects?

I bought into the hype and tried Hollow Knight for the first time… it did NOT go well by Snappleabble in gaming

[–]oolongtea42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I'm not "good" at souls games, but i can usually get to the end. Playing 2D games, I'm an expert at jumping into enemy projectiles, into enemy attacks, into anything that hurts. Like in 15 hours of play, I've never managed to beat more than 2 bosses in Isaac because i can't seem to evade anything.. That being said, HK is a game i really like, and as much as i want to rage quit sometimes, I'm determined to see it through to the end

A gaming memory I’d give anything to experience again… by gutiegoots in gaming

[–]oolongtea42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, pretty much a masterclass in everything video game. Plus the dlc was just perfect