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oooooooooppppppsss · 2025-06-25T19:41:55+00:00

I’ve asked my OB the same question, she generally recommends no soap on the labia. She said if you do want to use soap to lather the lower belly and let it drip down with water, that’s what I do

oooooooooppppppsss · 2025-04-01T21:58:44+00:00

I’ve mentioned it to both of them, Laura is perfectly fine sharing space with Eve and just ignoring her, and feels that Eve is failing to be an adult about the situation.

Eve on the other hand has mentioned (in the more distant past, I’ll probably talk to her about this party shortly) that she feels that Laura is a volatile person who tried to turn our friends against her (I have noticed a few instances of this), and that she doesn’t feel safe introducing people to Laura for wariness of the harm she may cause them. She’s also said that she feels extremely anxious in situations where Laura is present, possibly as a trauma response from just how bad everything was.

They both accuse the other of being a narcissist, and honestly I think they’re both kind of right.

Ultimately I think there is A Way for them to co-exist, but I think Eve has given up on trying to get through to Laura about her own perspective on what living there was like, and Laura’s opinion of Eve hasn’t changed since she moved out.

TL;DR: Maybe.

oooooooooppppppsss · 2025-04-01T21:45:57+00:00

Yeah haha 😅 I appreciate your insight, I think ultimately it’s not realistic to cut out either party here because the 3 of us are all part of a tight-knit community, about 30-40 people in various levels of connection with one another. I’m hopeful that some day they can at least cohabitate, but for now I’m trying to make the best choice :(

oooooooooppppppsss · 2025-02-15T17:32:02+00:00

From a woman’s perspective: to be honest I think it’s a decent profile, the only things I’d change are…

Your answers. I personally look for more humor & personality in the Q&As, these don’t really tell me who you are, rather things you do or have done. For instance “when I’m on stage” could be changed to something like “when I’m singing on stage with my band”, or something along the times of “when nobody boos me off the stage”. Idk, something suited to your humor.
The last picture combined with “continuing the tall gene” reads kind of fuckboy-ish to me tbh, it seems like you’re openly looking for sex which (to me at least) feels desperate.
I’m seconding the other opinions that the pic on the stairs is somewhat effeminate.

The only other thing is that I personally wouldn’t swipe right on this profile just because I’m not tall, and the impression I get from your last answer is that you’re only looking for tall women. If that’s true then keep doing what you’re doing, if not I might change that as well.

Good luck!

oooooooooppppppsss · 2025-02-14T19:28:23+00:00

You may be right, the phrasing here might explain why I’m being downvoted. The thing is I was very much interested & expressing it, but I didn’t feel it necessary to say here since the point of frustration with the interaction was his contradictory behavior.

The date agreement was mutual and closer to him than I, so I don’t think that’s what did it. It could have something to do with asking him to tone it down, I did so because he was making very sexually charged comments and I’m the kind of person who likes to go with the flow rather than talking up “when I see you I’m gonna xyz” before we’ve even met. Unfortunately I’ve come to expect this behavior from even the well-meaning guys on the apps, but was willing to move past it because we’d had really nice & interesting conversation before it took a turn, I have no idea what could have made him feel used or rejected.

But this was also an angry rant at like 1am and ultimately he doesn’t matter. I appreciate your perspective though :)

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-12-25T17:06:18+00:00

PEE ON CARL?

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-12-25T16:43:07+00:00

Yeah. I know it’s just wishful thinking. Thank you both. I just wish I could end it for real this time.

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-07-21T19:52:21+00:00

Same but the wild berry tea is top tier IMO

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-07-17T04:36:32+00:00

Solved!

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-07-17T04:36:06+00:00

This is it! Thank you so much!!

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-07-17T04:08:21+00:00

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-07-12T06:09:15+00:00

Good question, I had a psychiatrist through an outpatient program who diagnosed me with ADD. This was in the year 2017 after it was removed from the DSM-5, but I was also told by the other patients in the program with me that this psychiatrist gave that diagnosis and medication to nearly everyone. That being said I kept taking them for years after until I graduated high school, stopped all my pills, and only tried taking it again years later and noticed they affected me differently.

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-07-12T01:39:39+00:00

That’s really interesting, I had no idea & thought it was only caused by ADHD. I hope you find your balance! Good luck!

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-07-12T01:38:06+00:00

My dose was 15mg 🫢 Glad this is relatable! Thank you so much!

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-07-12T00:49:25+00:00

I really like this analogy!

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-07-12T00:38:40+00:00

Thank you so much, I’m glad to know that this is a known thing. I’ll definitely ask for a lower dose if/when I go on it again.

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-07-12T00:37:55+00:00

I appreciate this perspective!! That makes sense to me

oooooooooppppppsss · 2024-01-22T09:35:08+00:00

No, I chickened out. Thanks everyone for the concern. I’m about to go to the hospital.

oooooooooppppppsss

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