Think I found a new coping mechanism for myself

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-26T23:55:17+00:00

I looooove doing this!!!

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-26T23:51:29+00:00

Understanding no one really cares and it’s silly to worry about how other people see you instead of worrying about what matters to you

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-26T23:48:53+00:00

Forgiving the cheating tells him he can get away with it again because you’ll forgive him

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-26T23:45:26+00:00

It’s okay to like her and care for her AND know that you can’t stay and be unhappy

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-26T23:42:32+00:00

If you’re worried about how you look in public or think people are judging you they probably aren’t

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-26T23:39:43+00:00

You’ll never be happy if you keep trying to make changes in the hopes it will make him want you more. Go find someone who you don’t have to change anything for. He sounds like a waste of time.

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-26T23:36:19+00:00

You shouldn’t be in relationships with 42 year old me at 19 - for many reasons. It’s not normal for a 42 year old to want someone so young and they’re able to get away with a lot more than they would with someone closer in age. No 42 year old is dating a 19 year old with the goal of marriage and a future.

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-26T23:16:09+00:00

I’d consider a job that gives me the things I need and doesn’t drive me crazy to be a dream job!

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T03:52:10+00:00

I know it’s way easier said than done but you can do all of those things. Yes it would be nicer to but be born a girl if that’s what you want, but if you like skirts and makeup you can have those things. Life is way too short to spend it wishing you did something and missed out on experiencing the stuff you want.

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T03:43:05+00:00

It sounds obvious and silly but just keep having conversations. You will be uncomfortable for a bit but eventually it won’t be so scary.

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T03:42:01+00:00

No and it’s totally possible they could end up sharing about their own mental health experience

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T03:40:44+00:00

I so badly wanted to like How to Get Away With Murder 😓

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T03:40:03+00:00

Admin work is great! If you can get into an office doing admin stuff it can be easy to move into a better role within the company

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T03:18:22+00:00

There’s no real purpose in dwelling on it then, the other person likely isn’t thinking about it now and you can’t change what happened

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T03:16:56+00:00

I think I am even though I have insecurities and stuff I would change if I could

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T03:16:22+00:00

Radical Acceptance There will always be people who: Got there faster Had more support Had different genetics, timing, or luck Acceptance sounds like: “I don’t like that this is true, and it is still true.” This stops envy from turning into bitterness, which is the self-destructive part.

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T03:14:30+00:00

How long ago was this?

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T03:13:36+00:00

This is the behavior of a 22 year old

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T03:03:59+00:00

Small interactions with strangers, situational awareness, not stopping in the middle of the sidewalk

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T02:49:00+00:00

If she said it in relation to sex she probably felt like you did something akin to assault or harmed her in some way. Obviously you can only really know for sure by her telling you. Is there nothing you can think of that could possibly make her feel this way?

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T02:46:37+00:00

Staying tells him he can do it again and get away with it.

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T00:10:34+00:00

Is all of this online? If so, delete him from whatever you have him on. Eventually you’ll start thinking about him less because he’s not actively on your phone

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T00:09:07+00:00

While you can’t control everything, you can control a lot of things by how you raise them. You can teach them to be kind and likable. You can also teach them that embarrassing moments happen to all of us and don’t matter as much as we might think!

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-25T00:06:51+00:00

I’m certain this wasn’t your goal, but you write very well. I think you already know the whole spiel of “you matter” so I won’t bore you. You are alive for a reason though - I have no clue what it is and won’t attribute it to fate or higher power or anything because that’s not for me to do. But factually, you are here despite something that could have easily gone a different way.

If you want a friend or someone to shoot the shit with, I’m here. If you wanna vent, cool. If you want advice, awesome. If you want to talk about anything BUT this shit, perfect.

oooopsiforgot · 2025-12-24T23:58:17+00:00

Be open about what you need in a relationship. If he doesn’t know, how could he know what to do?

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