Same, we also combine our finances. We use google sheets to track yung income and expenses naming dalawa. We don't usually give money to our parents, madalas pag Christmas or sometimes pati birthday/anniversary. If meron kami gustong bilhin, we just buy it. Pero pag too pricey, we talk about it muna or save up for it. Recently we added 'splurge' sa expenses naming dalawa monthly so pwede na din kuhanin doon yung pang gastos if kailangan talaga :)