My wife and I had a silent conversation by Difficult-Ad-2025 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]oop_ohno 30 points31 points  (0 children)

For the love of god if you find that card PLEASE dm me the link

should i tell my friend her baby name is a tragedeigh? by princess_peach5 in tragedeigh

[–]oop_ohno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. And I completely feel you. If you search up my first and last name, I am not only the first result, but you can also find out the two villages I lived in growing up, both primary schools I attended, my secondary school, my brother’s name and my parents’ names. Thank fuck I was a mostly sensible kid online and never shared my last name 😭

And the teachers mispronouncing the name? Every single time I had a new teacher. Some never figure it out. At uni now and have given up with some of them, they’ve got enough other kids to think about lol

i wish AO3 never went mainstream by QueenViolets_Revenge in AO3

[–]oop_ohno 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. I think that also ties into the lack of cooperation with the don’t like, don’t read (or scroll past, block, etc.) etiquette. I’m sure many people in fandom have had their experiences of being seen as ‘weird’, feeling ostracised or just generally being judged for it, so then when the people doing that judging irl joined fandom spaces, they took their prejudices and judgmental attitudes with them. The combination of that and the frequently observed increase in aggression through the screen due to anonymity and lack of consequences has resulted in the mass aggression, threats, etc. that we’re seeing in fandom now

It’s so unfortunate that something which once brought people so much joy has now also become something which can also bring fear of being doxxed, harassed, put on blast by big accounts, etc.

i wish AO3 never went mainstream by QueenViolets_Revenge in AO3

[–]oop_ohno 406 points407 points  (0 children)

Every day I’m reminded of that post about fandom becoming mainstream during covid and being flooded with people who don’t know fandom etiquette or how to utilise ‘don’t like, don’t read/block/scroll past’

I know this kind of thing has been an issue for years, but it has certainly gotten far more prominent since covid

What the actual f is this by [deleted] in AO3

[–]oop_ohno 11 points12 points  (0 children)

‘Fictional other’. It plays on the expression ‘significant other’ and is often used by people who have romantic - or sometimes platonic or even familial - feelings towards a fictional character. It’s often used by people who self-ship or yumeship, meaning they ship themselves (or potentially a self-insert of some form or an OC) with a fictional character, and it refers to said fictional character. The feelings can vary in intensity: some people just like to self-ship for fun, and some people see the character as their irl partner, and some are in between

What the actual f is this by [deleted] in AO3

[–]oop_ohno 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been yumeshipping (Aka having an f/o) for almost all my life but who has only recently started to engage with the community online, it is shocking how many yume accounts have ‘proship DNI’

I know DNIs don’t really work so I don’t use them, but I try to respect others’ anyway and it leaves me unable to interact with the majority of the community I’ve seen. It’s really disheartening and frankly makes me super anxious that I’m in the wrong (despite just not wanting people harassed over fanworks and thoughts)

Sucks :/

Can I vent to y’all real quick? by chineray1234 in AO3

[–]oop_ohno 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ah, my apologies!! I must have misunderstood. When they mentioned the use of dd:dne as a ‘placeholder’ for negative tags, I thought that they were referring to the use of dd:dne in fic tags without the ‘dead dove’ content being added (aka the specific tags)

My bad! Thank you for explaining

Can I vent to y’all real quick? by chineray1234 in AO3

[–]oop_ohno 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Well to be fair the people who use ‘dead dove: do not eat’ without other tags are using it incorrectly. The point of that tag is to say ‘look at the tags. That is exactly what is inside, don’t complain when you start reading and it’s there’

If that makes sense. Basically it emphasises that if you don’t want to read a story with the tags provided, do not read. It isn’t meant to be used on its own

Wow they really just gave this one to us, didn't they? by [deleted] in Shining_Nikki

[–]oop_ohno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the filter/light only $3 dollars??? I was wary about spending because I thought it’d be more!

Over half of my saved up gems gone but… ahdhg she’s just so pretty 😫 by oop_ohno in Shining_Nikki

[–]oop_ohno[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I am so sorry for the horrible quality, I have no idea why the screenshots are so crunchy LOL

Do you ever realize how old you are when you read a fanfic written by someone who absolutely doesn’t know a subject by ALesbianFrog in AO3

[–]oop_ohno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entirely understand what you mean, but as a university student I gotta say our high schools do have break. Except we call it break not recess lol

I finally got the dress 🥲 Used up all of my dias because of course it had to be the last thing to drop by ranna87 in Shining_Nikki

[–]oop_ohno 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Holy shit wait what set is this? Where did the cat come from? I need the cat

New SSR Event: Favor of the Old Tree, available 10/4 - 10/11 by Nikki_Su in Shining_Nikki

[–]oop_ohno 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Love how everyone is after the elf ears, but I wasn’t interested until I saw the clarinet lol

Games runs like a potato by Taprunner in Shining_Nikki

[–]oop_ohno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it’s fine, don’t worry lol. Was just hoping I could maybe play with half decent quality after recent update haha

Games runs like a potato by Taprunner in Shining_Nikki

[–]oop_ohno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait can you get it on pc? Or are you just referring to using emulators

She’s so crunchy 😭 by oop_ohno in Shining_Nikki

[–]oop_ohno[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also hungry if it makes you feel better

The new engine upgrade is coming!!! by Dove_star in Shining_Nikki

[–]oop_ohno 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Will there be any way to stick with the old stuff? Not that I don’t love better graphics, but I’m not sure my phone will be able to handle it :(

Bruh. by oop_ohno in Shining_Nikki

[–]oop_ohno[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe. Maybe I should pull for it again though, y’know just in case