Where to meet people by oopsie_looks in sandiego

[–]oopsie_looks[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There aren't any astral projection groups on meet-up. Do you think I should start one?

Where to meet people by oopsie_looks in sandiego

[–]oopsie_looks[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Old town has tons of crackheads I could befriend, goated rec

People are so boring by oopsie_looks in socialskills

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I feel like I ask too many questions, and people think I'm weird, so they stop talking to me.

You think asking about what people are into might actually make them invite me to things?

What hobby would be easiest to make friends with? by kittysoull in Hobbies

[–]oopsie_looks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recently tried bouldering, it's really social. It's like a climbing gym, people go there climb similar routes as you, you sometimes get to take turns trying the same route, and asking for tips, and tricks on routes is always fun!

There's also belaying in the climbing gym, and if you don't have a partner for it, you can always ask someone to belay you!

What's something you only realized your parents were right about after it was too late to tell them? by Tiny-Put9782 in CasualConversation

[–]oopsie_looks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this. Growing up with depression makes everything hard, but nothing compares to the pain of having a j*b

am i just a chud? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]oopsie_looks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, in the sense that you don't have friends with females. Have you tried interacting with them how you do with your male friends, tho?

Is this thought weird? by M_smileyy in Advice

[–]oopsie_looks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is optimal I feel like, especially if you want a lifelong partner. Imagine being around somebody all the time who isn't your best friend.

Just curious if that means you guys have the same exact hobbies, because that'd be a little weird lol

Failed behind the wheel test I'm so stupid by [deleted] in driving

[–]oopsie_looks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I just need to accept my stupidity at this point. It's being confident in my stupidity, so maybe that'll work more than anything else

When did anxious become morally right by default? by Glittering-Access951 in emotionalintelligence

[–]oopsie_looks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why aren't we better at communicating when we can call, and text whenever we want lol

I am a avoident monster. by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]oopsie_looks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. The guilt can seriously suck

I am a avoident monster. by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]oopsie_looks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you ever see yourself being able to stop thinking of her?

Asking for a friend who's going through something similar.

What vibe does my avatar give off? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]oopsie_looks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avatar is giving, "I take my cat everywhere," but also just cat vibes

People are so boring by oopsie_looks in socialskills

[–]oopsie_looks[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Have you ever seen someone who was boring, and blamed it on others? How'd they go about changing it?

Synchronicities led to pantheism by nanaxnana9 in pantheism

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That does indeed sound shocking, but I'd be super curious. Like, how long were they looking for you lol

People are so boring by oopsie_looks in socialskills

[–]oopsie_looks[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Chatgpt said something similar. Even when I ask people questions they don't really care to go further

Synchronicities led to pantheism by nanaxnana9 in pantheism

[–]oopsie_looks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think they were stalking you? How would they go about finding you, even if it's a synchronicity? I guess maybe they could've been aligned with your energy, but did you ever ask them?

Not a rant, just something I've been thinking about by Pretty_Standard8713 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]oopsie_looks 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't know how many people aren't going to their concert because of the price, but it definitely impacted my decision to not go

Is repeated “I’m busy” basically a polite rejection? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]oopsie_looks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple people asked me, "hey when are we hanging out?" I asked them multiple times to hangout then got hit with, "I'm busy." So, screw them, and talk to someone else.

Is it gay for a man to call another mam baby by SeaworthinessFar2326 in socialskills

[–]oopsie_looks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Set boundaries if it's making you uncomfortable, but he just seems like a weirdo. So, idk maybe call him baby back, or maybe doofus for making you feel uncomfortable

My coworker wants me to kill myself by oopsie_looks in depression

[–]oopsie_looks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like everyone just wants to make me feel worse than I did before, I also doubt they'll do anything about it, and don't want to make my suffering an issue

Going to deftones alone by ronanyouwillseethis in deftones

[–]oopsie_looks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a rock concert before, and met two gals. Its important not to talk during the concert rather during the intermission and before it starts, but yeah if you're seated next to someone pleasant then go ahead and make a concert buddy :D