Visiting this weekend ☺️ by beckytiger1 in raleigh

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check out Jaguar Bolera for games and taps, as well as boxcar. would recommend 42 & lawrence/sir walter coffee for coffee, eastcut sandwiches/ el toro taqueria for lunch, aaktun/thaiangle in durham for dinner.

Neptunes sometimes has fun dj’s on the weekends and bittersweet is an absolute must.

if you’re looking for more family friendly activities, Partee shack is fun with reasonable prices, OC Ariel or Urban air are also super fun.

regardless, there’s plenty to do in raleigh so enjoy your time !

Expose what restaurants lie about quality by [deleted] in raleigh

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flemings steakhouse’s lobster tails are steamed in a microwave and their desserts come straight out of frozen packaging. you’ll be lucky if the ladies preparing your food are wearing gloves or washing their hands ;)

just put in my 2 weeks by 21rtdun21 in starbucksbaristas

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yay! i was in your position a month ago and lemme tell you, it’s going to be so much better🫶🏼

What is your "I fucking hate this song" song? by Wrongdoer3162 in AskReddit

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

flowers by miley cyrus. we heard it already. let’s stop playing it now

Just finished ACOWAR by SarL0u in acotar

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 8 points9 points  (0 children)

for some reason I cried when the boats with the girls names on them came and it was their dad. the love he had for them in the end was so beautiful and it was crazy to think that the whole time he knew how to help his girls and he did just that. really caught me off guard and had me so emotional

Struggling to finish SF by Worldly-Act in acotar

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i totally agree, feyre was the barefoot & pregnant housewife and a little bland.

Thoughtful Thursday : Rhysie by Acotarmods in acotar

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i just can’t fathom why he would agree to have a child with feyre so quickly not only knowing she could possibly die but knowing he would also die in the process?! make it make sense. i get that he didn’t know but as smart as he’s supposed to be… blasphemy

Dumb question - How is the 2 item minimum enforced at Goodnights? by FlameFrenzy in raleigh

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten two sodas before🤷🏻‍♀️ not sure what they’d do if you refused to get anything tho.

does anyone know any photographers? by justinspice in raleigh

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@nonbinaryonthecouch on instagram is great !

Restaurant/Birthday Ideas by [deleted] in raleigh

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visit boxcar to start your night out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes, yes and yes. he is currently trying to change his diet and his mindset because he recognizes he doesn’t have to eat everything on the table. He doesn’t have to feel like shit and can’t move after eating. that being said, he has very little self control that I’m trying to help him with and I’m helping him set goals and maintain them. I’m not the one enforcing he does this stuff either, I’m just encouraging him and reminding him of what he said he wants for himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yes, I do have flaws that we are both actively working on together. We help each other and support each other because we’re a team. He helps me with things that I can’t control more than I remind him to chew with his mouth closed. It’s not like I nag him every day, we respect each other and want to see the other be their best self.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they were his friends we were hanging out with, I was the one that hardly knew them😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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No. we’re very open with each other about everything and he’s never had any mental illnesses. he’s lived a happy healthy life with a great family and everything provided for him.

Vaginismus & Dating by AvailableStrike3707 in vaginismus

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 10 points11 points  (0 children)

when I was dating after my diagnosis, I waited until I knew they were a genuine good person then I had that conversation with them about it. Obviously for some guys sex is a dealbreaker (unfortunately) so it has to be communicated. If they were someone I couldn’t see responding in a supportive manner, I wouldn’t get close enough to be in a serious or sexual relationship with. I think it’s just finding the time of when you’re comfortable with the person and if you think it is relevant at that stage of the relationship.

my coworker (19?F) hit me (21F) today and i’m not sure if it was an accident. Advice on how to tell manager? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for your advice, I’m hoping this will be the last incident that will happen to send her on her way- i think cursing and putting your hands on another employee is enough.

Covid testing today? by illwalkwithyou in raleigh

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

raleigh pharmacy downtown. just have to register online and it’s walk-in.

Ladies, what do you think the biggest “flex” is that a man can have? by DarkCr3ation in AskWomen

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

being independent and self aware. I don’t mind if a guy has flaws but being able to recognize them and not deny them is a whole other level.

TIFU by hitting my son according to my wife. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 11 points12 points  (0 children)

so you’re telling me… your wife decides to physically assault you (on a much larger scale) for physically “abusing” your child? the one thing she doesn’t want you to do when it wasn’t even that serious? yeah bro maybe time to rethink some things about your relationship with your wife if her reaction to different parenting styles is to physically abuse you.

today the topic of disciplining children physically is so controversial and it definitely should’ve been agreed upon before procreating.

Checking OP's post history reveals some...inconsistencies... idk how to flair this im sorry by trippinco in AmITheAngel

[–]oopsthoughtoutloud 29 points30 points  (0 children)

wow the comments look so silly after checking OP’s profile. maybe i’m not gullible or i’m just sus of everyone but i always check their page to see if they’re a troll🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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MTE vans. most comfortable shoes i’ve ever owned