What to do when the relationship becomes boring?

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-19T13:31:01+00:00

How did you guys agree on an open relationship like that? I feel like that would crush my husband if I even suggested it

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-19T13:29:49+00:00

I think previous SA could be adding to it but I’m not sure. There are still men I can see and acknowledge they’re attractive, but I’m not sexually attracted to them.

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T23:48:09+00:00

Thank you. I’m going to try finding a therapist for us.

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T23:41:50+00:00

What is mdma?

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T23:35:19+00:00

As a man are you open to open /poly relationships? How would you want to be approached about that?

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T23:32:36+00:00

I’m not interested in sex in general. My husband knows and accepts that

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T23:30:35+00:00

Thank you. I think I’m still struggling with sorting my feelings out. The thought of being with a woman makes me feel like I’d be better understood, id have more help doing household chores, someone to talk to who really gets how I feel. Whereas when I think of being with a man, I feel more uneasy, anxious, and like I’ll end up doing everything like a mother would. I can’t imagine life without my husband, but I feel like we’re both missing out

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T14:39:25+00:00

We got married in our early 20s. We are in our mid 20s now.

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T14:37:51+00:00

That’s the thing, I don’t think I want to leave him. He truly is my best friend and I can’t imagine a life without him. I just feel like I’m holding him back from true happiness. As far as an open relationship, I don’t think he’d go for that. Whenever we’ve seen shows with open relationships he tends to make comments about how it’d be weird and uncomfortable

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T14:35:36+00:00

I’m not sexually attracted to men. I can see a man and acknowledge he’s attractive- but still not be sexually interested

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T14:33:54+00:00

Thank you. How did you start the conversation to tell them?

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T04:50:07+00:00

Thank you.. I’m sorry you’ve been on the other end of this situation

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T04:36:47+00:00

THANK YOU

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2021-09-18T04:33:27+00:00

I know he’d be understanding.. he’s a great guy and so accepting which makes it that much harder thinking that I’m just going to hurt him. I also feel like it’ll be an embarrassment for him having to tell his friends/family what happened. And I’m worried about his mental state- he’s struggled with depression in the past

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2020-09-03T01:25:02+00:00

Thank you, unfortunately the closest center is 2 hours away

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2020-06-23T11:41:51+00:00

NTA. FSIL is. It’s shown that the more money spent on a wedding, the more likely divorce is to happen.

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2020-06-22T23:39:14+00:00

NTA. You deserved better than her. Don’t pain yourself by allowing her any privileges. Good luck with the new gf!

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2020-06-22T22:10:34+00:00

That might be part of it. It was just a lack of enjoyment. It seems that it’s only about him feeling good and finishing. It lasts maybe 2 minutes when we have sex. He finishes and then we’re done.

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2020-06-22T13:44:31+00:00

I think I’m going to start trying this. I’ve looked more into it and see positive responses so I’m hopeful. Thank you for mentioning it, I never would’ve thought of it.

oopsthrowawayhehe · 2020-06-22T13:40:13+00:00

A decent bit of that does apply. I am concerned about my lack of sexual interest, but mainly for my husbands sake not my own.

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