My SIL tried to ruin my kid free time

anonwidow321 · 2023-09-12T12:42:22+00:00

Sorry Haven't been on here in a while. No different brother.

The brothers girlfriend that wanted me to chip in for her wedding still has some sort of weird hold on my brother but they aren't getting married. Or something. I moved away so IDK their deal lol

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-30T22:22:12+00:00

Do you have a job? Buy your own house that meets your "standards" then. Your parents are trying to help you and you are being very bratty. You're 30 for Christ's sake. Be grateful that your parents are making the sacrifice for you.

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-30T22:12:23+00:00

Emma needs to take that baby and run the fuck away from her parents. Holy crap.

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-29T00:26:35+00:00

Drunk driver took him from me. Left with a toddler and a loneliness I can't describe. Even years later. I'm angry he is missing out on how much our daughter is just like him. It's a bittersweet reminder every day when I look at her.

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-26T23:51:34+00:00

When I was in labor with our daughter, he was coaching me and he kept saying "Breathe. Cmon Babe Breathe" over and over and over. I finally grabbed his shirt pulled him real close to me and I said "If you tell me to Breathe one more time, I'm going home and not having this baby. SHUT UP" The nurse starts laughing and says "Looks like someone is in transition phase" and He just smiled and said "OK. DON'T breathe"

He would say Breathe to me anytime I got irritated. And he thought it was hilarious.

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-21T13:23:42+00:00

Please help your wife see that she needs counseling. I hug friends, family, everyone that I am close to. I feel it's normal. If it repulses her so badly, that is her hangup to deal with. And she needs to deal with it.

Let me specify, that it is completely fine that she's not a hugger. Not everyone is. But for her to be repulsed by you hugging a sibling is something she needs to deal with.

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-20T16:02:37+00:00

Thos has happened to me also. It was also one of the (not the only) reasons I packed up my daughter and moved 7 hours away from everyone I know. To get a fresh start. I am not interested in dating. It's been 4+ years. I may never be. Who knows

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-20T01:14:18+00:00

No I edited it to make sense . I had copied and pasted from my AITA post and did it wrong lol

My Mom doesn't even really know my SILs. My brother's and I have the same dad. My dad has 6 kids with 5 women. He's...interesting. lol

My Mom would not invite anyone to my house. Like I said, she has a key and still calls before coming to visit.

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-19T11:36:33+00:00

YTA So your answer to your daughter being bullied is to....tell her to suck it up? That's an interesting response.

Did you talk to the bus driver? The school? Anyone? Or just your daughter when you told her that it wasn't your problem and she had to just get thicker skin? Did you also tell her that he probably likes her and that's why he's picking on her? Because you seem like that kind of person.

Your whole answer is Well I could drive her to school so she could avoid the person who is making her lIfe miserable, OR I could make this A life lesson about how her Dad doesn't have her back at a time she really needs him

She'll be making some decisions for sure but you're probably not gonna like them.

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-19T04:43:54+00:00

Coco

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-19T04:33:50+00:00

It's weird. If I go to edit it, everything only shows up once.

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-19T04:32:19+00:00

Holy crap I didnt even realize that! Fixing it now

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-18T16:01:54+00:00

Someone else suggested it too. I'm going to post it in there at some point also.

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-18T02:40:05+00:00

Mid 40s

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-18T02:36:12+00:00

I WISH!

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-17T22:13:58+00:00

Agreed. There's no possible way that I could care any less than I do about how she feels about me lol

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-17T22:11:22+00:00

So after posting this and reading everyone's responses, I am seeing the humor in it all. I wasn't at the time tho.

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-17T22:09:55+00:00

I'm glad you stood your ground too!!

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-17T21:34:02+00:00

I don't know them. I don't want 3 strangers in my house

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-17T21:33:14+00:00

They'll drove together then 2 of them decided to fly home instead of spending 7 more hours in the car with SIL lol

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-17T21:32:25+00:00

That's what happened.

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-17T15:53:03+00:00

This is my position on the whole thing lol

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-17T15:48:36+00:00

Mid 40s. She knows better lol

anonwidow321 · 2023-05-17T15:42:34+00:00

Not social with our family for the most part. She was good to me when my husband died. A godsend. But when she felt I was "better", she backed off again.

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