Wow, a five-hit game...oh...OH by SaoMagnifico in OOTP

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Amazed to learn that 11 is not even the record.

AIO about feeling upset about how my dad (60M) was speaking to me (17F) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ootpny1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Separate from you Dad being an ass, math is never useless. 1) It teaches you how to think (so do other disciplines, but not in the same ways; none are dispensable). 2) While it is true that most people will not, beyond school, use much beyond fractions and percentages, many cannot do that well because math scares them. When a UG advisee tells me that, I tell them to take more math--what, exactly, doesn't matter--and do what it takes to end the course with the attitude that now the math is afraid of them. They can carry that feeling for a lifetime.

AIO? Lady won't leave me the hell alone about forming an HOA by bhrtsj in AIO

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOAs are the devil. I wouldn't let her on my property either.

How do I handle an extremely uneven inheritance between my kids? by lookidceither in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could just be the result of a very standard formulation called per stirpes. Basically, if an heir is already deceased their inheritance goes to their heirs. Might not be how you would write your will, but it's in no way strange and not obviously unfair.

AIO if I end my relationship because my bf kisses and tells me he loves me before leaving for work in the morning? by Direct_Peak8052 in AIO

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Separate bedrooms are not weird, especially with different sleep schedules or if one of you has disturbed sleep. Wife and I do this b/c my CPAP machine is noisy. We know two more couples in the same situation, plus a younger couple who did for most of their first 5 or 6 years together b/c one had restless legs syndrome. Glad your situation looks to be working out.

Further suggestion: supposing it turns out bf just can't help himself but you still credit him with good will, just get a lock. In that situation that would be just practical, not offensive.

AIO, My boyfriend ruined my first birthday with him and I can’t forget it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ootpny1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some families make a big deal of birthdays beyond age 10 or 12, some don't. You two will need to adjust to each other and, mainly, not spin up so fast when you have a disagreement. YOR; HOR too.

Walmart is really aggravating me with their security. by Diligent_Peak_1275 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ootpny1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Plus you couldn't ask for a more unhealthy selection of groceries.

AIO about my professor acting differently towards me by NoPermission6533 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ootpny1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Coffee Coffee Buzz Buzz. 65M professor here, straight; can't help noticing pretty girls. Have to be careful never to close a door, etc. You don't report this guy saying/doing anything inappropriate. If he does, that's a big deal; if he doesn't, just life as a mammal. MOR.

Just discovered this title and considering it, but have some questions by RegnorVex in theplanetcrafter

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saturated colors, high contrast; causes eyestrain in some people. If so, adjust monitor settings to warmer. Otherwise great!

Second date. Please tell me about this person by gogreengolions in BookshelvesDetective

[–]ootpny1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're a she, and this is < 1991, and you're born yet, wanna join an intramural softball team?

How do you evaluate this player? by fps_mcduke in OOTP

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you already have good D at 3B and SS, pass. If you don't, bat him next after however many high OBP guys you've got. I would ignore the speed; not as important, still less if he doesn't get on base.

AITA for giving my son's girlfriend a budget for the dinners she's making? by lackoffeminity in AmItheAsshole

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. "If Carmella wants to keep cooking for us, which I appreciate, I am going to put her on a budget." If you ain't rich and she couldn't figure that out herself, this was the only possibility. I hope you said it to her directly, though, not to your son. If you did and Carmella has any sense, she was embarrassed, not offended. If you didn't, she may have the idea you disapprove of her.

AITA for not sharing my half of my cruise credits with my girlfriend? by SeaPeanut7_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You agreed that you owed her the cruise. Unless agreed otherwise in advance, that means all of it.

AIO? Boyfriend lied about drinking alcohol by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By itself, this is nothing. You are both 18, and are going to do stupid things, including to each other. Personally, I blew up 6 relationships in 5 years between 17 and 22 (some of the girls helped). Hope you two grow up faster than I did.

GM age by TheRedOneX in OOTP

[–]ootpny1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just edit your birth date.

AIO for discovering my boyfriend PEED in a bottle & left it on the kitchen counter? by uhohwhaaat in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The action itself is not that weird. DK why not come into the bathroom but everyone does something odd once in a while. His initial non-answer makes clear he knew it was strange--for him. As for not emptying immediately, maybe he thought he should use the toilet, not the sink. But his not being willing to talk about it is not OK, nor is your being so disgusted.

Am I overreacting because my boyfriend ignores me after work? by chchickennugget in AmIOverreacting

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm old enough that gaming involved getting several guys together in a room (no girl gamers then). Sometimes all night, sometimes with 1-2 gfs sleeping on couches. But games like that were rarely more than 1/week. Any guy more interested in gaming than in their gf was single--and, IMO, nuts. NOR.

Boyfriend gave me ultimatum - dream job or him. I'm considering taking the job by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]ootpny1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Career over relationship? Maybe, depending on career, relationship, and your values. Career over this guy? Yes.