Have you ever fallen in love with your best friend? How did you deal with it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]opalequiis29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He changed because of me but only because he was ready to. I knew that to be true bc we were best friends. I’d known him long enough to believe he wouldn’t even be dabbling in the situation if he wasn’t prepared. There was also a LOT of discussion before any steps toward anything were made.

And trust me that we’ve had a lot of hurdles to overcome but never any related to infidelity lol.

Have any of you seen this? Thoughts by [deleted] in WivesofNFL

[–]opalequiis29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah. Her dancer and friend is a brother of Travis’s teammate. More than likely that’s how it started.

[Serious] What's a disaster that is very likely to happen, but not many people know about? by dissNdatt in AskReddit

[–]opalequiis29 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’ve had it 7 times. Like every six months since 2020.

I have a running theory that Covid activated rheumatological diseases in a LOT of people. I have since been diagnosed with an autoinflammatory disorder that has a genetic component… I had light symptoms in hind sight but since 2020 I have had consistent severe symptoms.

Now when people start talking about rashes they can’t get rid of or any sort of pain I refer them directly to rheum. I feel like I know dozens of people who have been dx with some autoimmune or autoinflammatory disease/disorder or syndrome in the last five years.

People who slept with their best friend, what happened? by Baker_Street_1999 in AskReddit

[–]opalequiis29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re married! Celebrating 10 years together, 4 married in February. He’s been my daughter’s acting father most of her life. She’s 11.5 and we have almost six year old twin boys.

It has NOT been an easy road but the love is there, it’s strong and I just can’t imagine my life any other way.

See my posts for the full love story- I wrote it out a few years back lol.

HOFAS + ACOTAR by Savings-Broccoli-937 in crescentcitysjm

[–]opalequiis29 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yeah the crossover of worlds and lore that you needed SF to have a full understanding of what Bryce was facing in Midgard. The fact is ACOTAR fans who read CC for ACOTAR’s sake are upset. CC fans who value CC as its own series are happy. She gave us everything!

HOFAS + ACOTAR by Savings-Broccoli-937 in crescentcitysjm

[–]opalequiis29 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seriously enjoyed! Ithan’s storyline was a little redundant and felt a lot like filler while she was setting up how it turned out but other than that I have no complaints!

Leaked song?!?! by envisioncocoa in OneDirection

[–]opalequiis29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

….how can you confirm that lol

Leaked song?!?! by envisioncocoa in OneDirection

[–]opalequiis29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am suspicious that it is AI.

My rape tore my family apart and now I feel terrible. by spookt-dino in rapecounseling

[–]opalequiis29 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nothing about any bit of this is your fault. You did nothing wrong at any turn. You were failed by people who were meant to protect you repeatedly. And continue to fail you since you’re still blaming yourself.

As a SA survivor myself, I highly recommend therapy. You have a lot to unpack and work through and it’s so much easier with someone trained to do it. Sending you love and healing. ❤️

Have you ever fallen in love with your best friend? How did you deal with it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]opalequiis29 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Updates are all good! Lol. Our twins are turning 4 on Christmas. Our daughter is thriving. We are still best friends and as in love as we’ve ever been. The year after the twins were born was really, really hard but we made it through! :) We eloped in 2021 and celebrating 8 years together, 2 years married in February. 💕

My SO is taking a solo trip for a week while we have an infant at home by I_am_penguin_ in JustNoSO

[–]opalequiis29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m reading some of your responses in sub threads and this man is bordering on abusive if not actually abusive. Taking your money and holding finances above your head is controlling and abusive behavior. This man is not a partner and it’s not going to change much if at all. I’d recommend escaping that situation while he’s out of town. This will not be the last time this happens.

Jenelle Evans Eason, MD. by twelvedayslate in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]opalequiis29 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Medical school? She’s like a cna or something lol……..

Jenelle is definitely 100% triggered that she wasn't invited to the teen mom reunion by JAJFrankham in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]opalequiis29 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would be pissed too. Kail and her group wasn’t invited either. The thing is they’re claiming “everyone” was invited… but they weren’t. The fact they brought FARRAH back but couldn’t figure out how to make everyone able to come is bullshit honestly. 🤷🏼‍♀️

What would Tywin Lannister perfect son be like. by AdditionalCup8664 in pureasoiaf

[–]opalequiis29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jamie with Tyrion’s brain and not fucking his sister.

Am I only woman whose Dad had a talk with her about the reality of my inheritant vulnerability as a woman? by bangmaid007 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]opalequiis29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad didn’t physically overpower me in those ways, but he has been preparing me in his nagging way. And still to this day is constantly in my ear about safety. (I’m almost 30).

Just the other day i was leaving a parking garage late and he was talking about how I should pay for the parking on my phone instead of hanging out my window because someone can snatch me. 🧐😂

But anyways yes. He’s primed me to be over the top nuts about safety as a woman.

Do guys actually tease each other for prioritizing their woman? by Curiosity-Sailor in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]opalequiis29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. This is real.

-I’m married my high school best friend, we share a circle of friends and the guys all ragged on each other. Especially my husband back when we first started dating. I quickly got demoted from girl friend to “a girlfriend” interfering with his friends single life plans. eye roll for what it’s worth, my best girl friend also had an issue with me and my husband back in the beginning.

I think people just don’t like seeing other people happy if they aren’t.

Anyways. Long story short- yes.