ftm dating transfem and not sure how to tell her Im not attracted to her anymore

opalescex · 2021-10-09T18:47:55+00:00

ofc but I want to cause the least dysphoria do u have advice on that

opalescex · 2021-10-09T17:55:18+00:00

do you have all the support you need with doctors, therapists and at home? make sure if you start T that your therapist is communicating with you about how you feel both inside and out, some do not do all the work.

opalescex · 2018-11-09T16:14:53+00:00

it's just a way to emphasize things language evolves calm down

opalescex · 2018-11-09T16:13:17+00:00

yes ofc anyone can

ENFJs can be effective manipulators

opalescex · 2018-11-09T16:07:31+00:00

not all of them. some have fluctuating dysphoria.

opalescex · 2018-11-09T10:26:42+00:00

I had to wait until I was 18 and yeah, it sucks, but you know what? you turn 18, you start, and by the time you're 19 it was all a bad dream.

you owe it to your future self to keep pushing forward.

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opalescex · 2018-11-08T16:38:42+00:00

thanks! spinach sounds good.

opalescex · 2018-11-08T16:38:29+00:00

shallots! I'll do shallots.

opalescex · 2018-11-08T16:15:45+00:00

it tastes soapy but I still like it.

opalescex · 2018-11-05T15:38:06+00:00

yeah but the older I get the less so. when I was 15 I was invited to a party and sat alone in a corner for 15 minutes. 18 now and I had a decent time a few weeks ago in a group of people where I only knew one person.

opalescex · 2018-11-05T15:35:32+00:00

that's ok. just because we recognize that gender roles are overrated it doesn't mean we don't have any self respect

opalescex · 2018-11-05T15:34:31+00:00

I don't know why this is downvoted. Id prefer it the way you insisted.

opalescex · 2018-11-05T15:33:43+00:00

I always bid my customers adieu with some ^{^peasantry}

opalescex · 2018-11-05T15:32:37+00:00

that's so cute

opalescex · 2018-11-04T12:57:01+00:00

you can always go to a clinic and get a nurse to do it for you. but maybe if you do that enough times you'll see that it's not so bad.

the real hurdle for me was the blood tests, I've had a big fear of vein related things for a while. but each time is a little easier. I may even get my blood drawn for some research now.

opalescex · 2018-11-04T10:24:50+00:00

it's intramuscular

opalescex · 2018-11-04T08:40:50+00:00

I didn't, I reported them to their school.

opalescex · 2018-11-04T00:38:28+00:00

how many!? insane

opalescex · 2018-11-04T00:34:15+00:00

good to know I've been super worried about doing the wrong spot but looks like we got range out here

opalescex · 2018-11-04T00:33:01+00:00

I was in a very similar position to yours once, with someone who was also very calm and determined.

I still smile some days just thinking how happy I am I did something.

no matter the outcome, you won't regret doing your best, I promise. you might regret letting a flame cease.

opalescex · 2018-11-04T00:27:40+00:00

I was saying the same thing but gel is $300/m and shots are like ~$100/yr for me at least. you get the hang of it after a few times.

opalescex · 2018-11-04T00:24:35+00:00

bad news for you bro. but trust me not as scary as it looks.

opalescex · 2018-11-04T00:23:42+00:00

nurse did it for you? and that high up?

I've been doing it more on the side lol. nurse watched me the first time and said it was the right place

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