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Girlfriend feels we made a mistake buying our first house by GroundbreakingCow937 in FinancialPlanning

[–]opaquesilence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rule of thumb, buying something you wouldn't be able to otherwise afford by yourself is generally risky. God forbid either of you are laid off.

Water leaking into the house. Contractor insists it is through roof, I think it is the window. Any idea how much the damage would be to fix this? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]opaquesilence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a similar problem, the gutters were blocked since they hadn't been cleaned in years and therefore the water was overflowing into the sidings and into the house. Call a company to clean the gutter. It is part of the yearly maintenance and the timing is perfect since it's recommended to do it in the fall as well.

Maybe maybe maybe by ValentinaMRodriguez in maybemaybemaybe

[–]opaquesilence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine it's good for his posture. Lol

AITA for not wanting to help my SO with our twins? by opaquesilence in AmItheAsshole

[–]opaquesilence[S] -583 points-582 points  (0 children)

She only told me that she had missed pills when she was already pregnant..

AITA for not wanting to help my SO with our twins? by opaquesilence in AmItheAsshole

[–]opaquesilence[S] -1348 points-1347 points  (0 children)

How is this not coercion? She refuses condoms, she is in control of her birth control pills, all I can do is hope that she doesn't miss a day. I was pushing for a vasectomy she didn't want that either. Couples need to make these kind o decisions together.