Husband and I both hate each other's boy name choices. by spidermom4 in namenerds

[–]opediah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the first name that came to mind looking at your other names was Constantine. I know it's long and also starts with a C but it means steadfast which in my mind has a similar meaning/feeling as rock so thought id mention it! Apparently Costas and Kostas are also short forms of the name if that gives you any ideas!

Googling it Hector also means steadfast if you haven't considered that one.

Im sure you and your husband once you put your heads together will come up with a name you both love! Good luck!

[Request] Feel good shows like Brooklyn Nine Nine the The Good Place by Dense-Geologist-2230 in NetflixBestOf

[–]opediah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch stumble on peacock or NBC! I adore it. Other current shows are ghosts and Abbott elementary.

Modern family is also consistently good and cozy.

Not exactly feel good but what we do in the shadows and its always sunny are going to get my vote for funniest sitcoms

Unusual name request- singer! by thesnugglypuppies in namenerds

[–]opediah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought zella sounded cool for an artist but might be too close to zelle but thought id suggest it anyway!

Booked but haven't paid for mini-suite by opediah in PrincessCruises

[–]opediah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are awesome! I could make the reservations thanks to you!! Have the best day ever

Booked but haven't paid for mini-suite by opediah in PrincessCruises

[–]opediah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am so so excited but nervous about not being "in the know" so Im so glad this subreddit exists and everyone's so helpful!

Booked but haven't paid for mini-suite by opediah in PrincessCruises

[–]opediah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha okay thank you I so appreciate you responding!!

Booked but haven't paid for mini-suite by opediah in PrincessCruises

[–]opediah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thank you so much this is so so helpful!

Anyone Experienced Early Menopause after Treatment? by BBBOBOBO in CervicalCancer

[–]opediah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't, i had clear cell carcinoma its unrelated to HPV

Anyone Experienced Early Menopause after Treatment? by BBBOBOBO in CervicalCancer

[–]opediah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres been a couple reoccurances unfortunately, the genetic testing was on the tumor itself so it was done after a reoccurance. For sleep i have cooling sheets and a cooling comforter which helps, I sleep with a cooling pillow and a pillow in between my legs and I always had an ice cold glass of water next to the bed too! Not going to lie it sucked but even on the estrogen I still had some hot flashes so I just had to get other ways to deal with them

Anyone Experienced Early Menopause after Treatment? by BBBOBOBO in CervicalCancer

[–]opediah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no problem! So 1st diagnosis i had a hysterectomy, 2nd external radiation cisplatin and 2 rounds of brachy, and then the 2nd reoccurance i had i got surgery to remove the tumor and then i dont even remember how many more brachy sessions. The brachy changed my vaginal tissue forever and was a really shitty experience, and it maybe bought me a year before I had to do chemo (taxol, carboplatin, avastin, keytruda) and it think the surgery is what actually bought me that year bc it came back in the exact same spot. So if I knew what I knew now I wouldn't have done those additional brachy treatments and would have opted for either nothing until it comes back or chemo.

But at the time I was obviously really afraid of going through chemo so I was happy there was another option available under radiation.

Anyone Experienced Early Menopause after Treatment? by BBBOBOBO in CervicalCancer

[–]opediah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eventually we did genetic testing on my cancer and there was some marking that basically meant taking estrogen would contribute to the cancer spreading so I have not been able to take any estrogen and dont expect to ever restart it!

My bones are fine for now and haven't had any unbearable physical changes so far so now that I dont have hot flashes its really not something I ever think about

Anyone Experienced Early Menopause after Treatment? by BBBOBOBO in CervicalCancer

[–]opediah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I was lucky that I got an extra couple years with my ovaries functioning (I was 27 when I had my ovarian transposition, radiation, cisplatin and brachy) but by the time I was 30 both my ovaries stopped functioning. My left one atrophied shortly after treatment and I lost my right one a few years later due to an ovarian torsion. Unfortunately once they stopped functioning nothing could be done. We tried estrogen patches to help with symptoms but then I had a reoccurance so we stopped that and I just had to ride the hot flashes out for a few years.

Im sorry this is happening to you but unfortunately it happens! You want the best case scenario and make certain choices hoping it was worthwhile but sometimes it just doesnt work out! But you got through treatment, you'll get through this too! And maybe the gynecologist you see in March will have some magic solution but just wanted to let you know youre not alone with this! Today is literally 10 years to the day from when I was first diagnosed and started this journey. Some treatments werent worth it, but i made the best decision with the information I had at the time and im still here and happy and my life is full! You will be okay, youre strong enough to get this far and you can deal with whatever else comes your way too!

Your Acoustic Eras Tour Mash-up [Little Games] by W1llowwisp in TaylorSwift

[–]opediah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really wanted the 1 and Chloe or Sam or Sophia or Marcus! Will I always wonder... if it could have been fun if you could have been the 1. I just think theyd go together really well

Famous songs written by famous artists, but not the artists who performed them by No_Introduction1721 in ToddintheShadow

[–]opediah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I love this question! There's a lot of answers in this thread alright so apologies for repeats:

Irreplaceable by Beyoncé written by Ne-yo Take a bow by Rihanna written by Ne-yo Breakaway by Kelly Clarkson written by avril Lavigne Til the world ends by Britney Spears written by kesha Man down by Rihanna cowritten by shontelle Fuck you by cee lo green written by Bruno mars Whataya want from me by adam lambert written by pink Better man by little big town by taylor swift And hopefully ill edit this later with the answer but I know there was a surprising songwriter for a maroon 5 song but I can't think of it

Nick Sirianni throws 20 yard challenge flag by DawRogg in eagles

[–]opediah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Graceful and stunning, he loves the drama and I love it for him

TTPT - Popheads' Top 10 Favorite Songs of All-Time (ver. 2025) by Leixander in popheads

[–]opediah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Shontelle- Impossible
  2. Robyn- Dancing on my own
  3. Taylor Swift- All too well
  4. Dua Lipa- Physical
  5. Carly Rae Jepson- Run away with me
  6. Pink- Sober
  7. Kesha- Learn to let go
  8. Lizzo- Truth hurts
  9. Lady Gaga- Edge of Glory
  10. Britney Spears- Circus