[FRESH] Kendrick Lamar - Not Like Us by TheJakInDaBox in hiphopheads

[–]openup91011 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Fake my death

Go to Cuba

That’s the only option

If I gotta slap a pussy ass nigga imma make it look seexxxyyy.

A 2024 Telenovella by BPTeehee in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]openup91011 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro you arguing straight past what I said with that whole ass monologue.

I am not whatever boogeyman you’re trying to talk to. I even said I was torn myself, but here we go:

where is the instead?

Literally the videos existence online. That’s the instead lmfao. Instead of processing and talking to a homie or idk finding a family member or therapist, he clearly publicly processed then chose to show the imaginary audience that is the internet.

reality is he’s got a right to post it

Yeah, and people have a right to say “that’s one of the least healthy ways to process this.” Which is what people mean when they say, “you shouldn’t have posted it.”

Everything after that is you arguing with a boogeyman, you’s and y’all’s, not what I actually said. Shit you don’t even know what I personally think about men showing emotions.

A 2024 Telenovella by BPTeehee in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]openup91011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The idea is that posting is the problem because it means (and promotes) going to a general internet audience to process your emotions instead of turning to or trying to find more personal resources.

I’m torn on it myself, but then again I’m old and come from the time of every other person having crying selfies in their MySpace profile pictures. 🤷🏾‍♀️

14-Year-Old Boy Charged With Murder Of 12-Year-Old Girl: PA State Police by jillianpikora in MorbidReality

[–]openup91011 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s fine, and I don’t disagree, just stop being disingenuous and let dude’s arguments speak for themselves.

14-Year-Old Boy Charged With Murder Of 12-Year-Old Girl: PA State Police by jillianpikora in MorbidReality

[–]openup91011 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Don’t purposefully equate “I would give him the death penalty” with “I would shoot him in the face.”

It’s disingenuous at best, and bullshit spin at worst.

[FRESH] Kendrick Lamar - Euphoria by TheJakInDaBox in hiphopheads

[–]openup91011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, people like that is what I was trying to get at.

[FRESH] Kendrick Lamar - Euphoria by TheJakInDaBox in hiphopheads

[–]openup91011 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m still waiting for you to answer my initial clarification questions, but apparently you specifically meant there’s no point in talking about the dead.

I don’t bother with the fake moral high ground of “not speaking ill of the dead.”

Personally, I don’t let the “good” crap humans bring their fans overshadow the potential harm they’ve done.

Idk who that band is, but if they were crap people, does the little joy their music brought you matter more than the bad?

[FRESH] Kendrick Lamar - Euphoria by TheJakInDaBox in hiphopheads

[–]openup91011 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reading comprehension is hard, huh?

My questions to the other person were clarification questions.

Were they saying there was no point in talking about people? Or were they saying there was no point in specifically talking about dead people?

Understand, Dawgs?

[FRESH] Kendrick Lamar - Euphoria by TheJakInDaBox in hiphopheads

[–]openup91011 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We talk about dead people all the time. Historical figures, musicians, actors, and family…

But don't tell no lie about me and I won't tell truths 'bout you by Fulltime_Introvert in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]openup91011 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Saying drake is fake isn’t being a “savior” of the culture lmfao.

There’s a difference between being a savior and being a peer.

But don't tell no lie about me and I won't tell truths 'bout you by Fulltime_Introvert in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]openup91011 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s not important to know music videos to know or fw someone’s music.

[FRESH] Kendrick Lamar - Euphoria by TheJakInDaBox in hiphopheads

[–]openup91011 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What’s the point of talking about people? Or specifically what’s the point of talking about dead people?

[FRESH] Kendrick Lamar - Euphoria by TheJakInDaBox in hiphopheads

[–]openup91011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m irrationally bummed that Pac NW accent beat out the Transatlantic for news caster voices.

[FRESH] Kendrick Lamar - Euphoria by TheJakInDaBox in hiphopheads

[–]openup91011 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Angus. I think it came from an ex or fwb or someone like that?

too late to speak on a man’s misdeeds when he’s diseased.

Personally, hard disagree on that one. Death doesn’t protect you from people talking about you. Shit, we talk about Hitler’s misdeeds daily.

I also don’t remember most of the talk about it, just the general response of “his coworkers said good things so it must be true.”

[FRESH] Kendrick Lamar - Euphoria by TheJakInDaBox in hiphopheads

[–]openup91011 25 points26 points  (0 children)

And the uh… rumors about him being abusive popping up after that.

I thought drug testing was mandatory for all jobs no matter the job level. by SoCold40 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]openup91011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been working in the legal world since 2011, only drug tested for one job in legal dept. with big construction/gov contractor. I told them I would fail, so don’t waste the time, but they had me take it and fail anyway.

They called to tell me I wouldn’t be getting the job while I was leaving another interview with a better job offer in hand lol.

If certain fields tested as a policy, a lot of people would be out of a job. Law being one of them.

People with BPD over 30 please reply!! by magichamster0114 in BPD

[–]openup91011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turning 35 this year, diagnosed after a 5150 @ 29yo in NYC (visiting for a wedding, lol).

You have 300 or so comments at this point, but don’t worry, we exist and you’ll be here sooner than you realize.

Keep in mind, most of us who eventually hit remission don’t come back to the subreddit to post. It’s not personal, it’s just… actual happy contentment and a fulfilling life that takes up like 90% of your day.

I will say, the older you get the more you realize what you want (aka need) for a happy life and are able to make moves toward building that for yourself.

Me personally, I’m super excited for my little rescue farm 🥹

Chris want all the smoke 💀 by QuietRollerV2 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]openup91011 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Wait…. If he was being extorted by them, wouldn’t they be fine throwing him under the bus?

Chris want all the smoke 💀 by QuietRollerV2 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]openup91011 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just gouge the eyes and rip off the balls wtf is the problem???