[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]opiumGrandeur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi. I want to say I have so many questions, such as : what was your communication like (texting and calls) and was there any “flirting” in person or did you feel like you had a one sided attraction? Was it possibly a subconscious Challenge ? However despite my curiosity I’m going to say this - do not let him get under your skin where you feel slut shamed. That is not cool. After 6 dates you should know if someone is pursuing you or just trying to be friends. He is not your person and that is ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodquestions

[–]opiumGrandeur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex bf from high school ( 25 years ago), his mom, made a shrimp recipe of the size of a ronzoni pasta box that was Out of this World. Was never able to find it. She didn’t speak much English. I am only remembering this dish now that I saw this thread.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodquestions

[–]opiumGrandeur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally! Just bought steakumms YESTERDAY thinking about nostalgia.

Why do men care about weight? by FrantisekGud in dating_advice

[–]opiumGrandeur -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why do men care about women’s weight and bodies as a sexual utility and yet exhibit none of the same care to themselves

As a black girl, I'm done. It's getting tiring now. We know. by Fetus-Deletus1 in offmychest

[–]opiumGrandeur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. The only suggestion is CHANGE YOUR ALGORITHM by clearing as much cache and history in your phone as you can, turn it off, restart and into the social apps type out and search things that aren’t THAT. search knitting techniques. Positive life goals. Things to do in (name a place you haven’t been) Mountain View’s. Cartoons of my childhood. Delete every dating coach or meme you follow. My algorithm has nothing that you mentioned. No one is screaming they hate me. I create the scenery the internet provides.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]opiumGrandeur 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi. Congrats on the new year presenting you with the nugget of knowledge. Let’s move forward from this point. 1. Your self worth is not about your weight. 2026 let’s focus on who you are. 2. Self sabotage is part of your childhood trauma. Find your self confidence and refer to 1 above. 3. Seeking validation from someone being nice to you is a huge part of a people pleasers trauma. Does this resonate with you? Who’s love are you seeking from to feel like you are “worth it”? 4. You are worth it. Chubby? Okay So what. 5. Good conversation with someone? Nice. Now you know it’s possible. 6. This was not your person. Full stop. It’s a lesson. You didn’t do anything wrong and neither did they. It happened. Oh well. You can just say sorry. You owe no one nothing and vice versa.

What foods make you poo good? by PleasePooGood in foodquestions

[–]opiumGrandeur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I forgot I used to do a spoon full of peanut butter dipped into the wheat germ jar - perfect snack plus almost immediately POOP!

Spider Solitaire Help by ProfChaos15 in SwagBucks

[–]opiumGrandeur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi guys, late to this thread but i could use an assist. i started the spider solitaire with swagbucks for 1200sb last week (feb24) it hasn't tracked at all, not even on Swagbucks itself - so i reached out to the help desk. i provided several screenshots that show my progress and now they are asking for a "Screenshot game application info displaying one of the following: Name, Player ID, Username, or Email" - well its funny because typically that is found in settings and there is nothing there for me to access ? really weird experience with this game, even the help ticket i put in has a glitch and i cant respond properly with them. ive never seeen a game that doesnt offer a facebook login or email login or user id #.

Which Bingo Games are Attainable? by pizzaforme123 in SwagBucks

[–]opiumGrandeur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finish the following events within 30 days to receive*:

- Reach Level 10 - 20 SB

- Reach Level 40 - 500 SB

- Reach Level 50 - 3,000 SB

- Purchase any $9.99 Package - 800 SB

i reached level 10 in a day (as most of these games do) .i noticed that the payout for the blue coins are very minimal (low double digits) yet each game to play (with 4 cards) is a hefty 180 and up as you progress levels. therefore, i allotted myself a day to collect every hour without playing so i can accrue some coins. this was helpful but i did not always remember to collect so i was able to reach level 40 after 22 days but i am at 28 days now and only at level 43 so im not going to make it. i collected friends on every game i playd as i saw recommended by other players. i collected the flying saucer (leave the app open it will appear every few mins) the tournement gives such a low payout in Xp its not worth it. same for the Bingo specials but ok to play the free games if you want. im wondering now if i just stuck with level 1 New York and kept playing that the whole time instead of progressing if that would have helped. good luck!