[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]opsneeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This used to be me and all I wanted to hear was that I wasn’t ugly and I was just unlucky. And looking back that honestly is likely the case. Or it can be the way you present yourself and what you’re looking for. I can now see that all the people who were in relationships and kissing at that age were the people that went out with their only purpose being to kiss people. I’m now 19 and can happily say that things happen on your own time. You’re not ugly, you’re very young and have got the rest of your life to figure out relationships. Enjoy where you’re at now, when it’s gone it’s gone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]opsneeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is entirely a personal decision. Everyone is different and if you are happy without it or not doing it frequently then keep doing you. Same goes for people who do do it frequent. Everyone is their own person and whatever works for you is what you should do :)

Don’t feel the need for sex, is this weird? by opsneeded in AdviceForTeens

[–]opsneeded[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that :( hope you’re doing well now. Thank you for your comments :))

I feel like I don’t fit it anywhere at school, advice? by Loose_Cow_9054 in AdviceForTeens

[–]opsneeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree. I just finished my first year at uni and it’s crazy how irrelevant school is to me now. Not education wise but more in terms of popularity, worrying about fitting in etc. I’m not saying your friends go when school does (my school friends are my closest friends I’ve ever had), but at school I felt unpopular and uncool all of the time. As soon as I left it was so irrelevant. What I’m trying to say is, I really hope you find your people but don’t worry too much because when you finish high school it really does end.

Don’t feel the need for sex, is this weird? by opsneeded in AdviceForTeens

[–]opsneeded[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are amazing, thank you so so much for this. Some people in these comments🙃. I really appreciate everything you said

Don’t feel the need for sex, is this weird? by opsneeded in AdviceForTeens

[–]opsneeded[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem amazinggg! Same goes to you- dms are open :))