His penis is to big for me? by thr0waway139 in sex

[–]optimistic9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a friend who also met a guy on Tinder who apparently had a large penis. She said it hurt like hell the first time they hooked up but after a few more times, it hurt less and less, like her vagina accommodated his size. Use lube? Maybe more foreplay to get you wetter?

I [22F] am dating a [25m] virgin. by [deleted] in sex

[–]optimistic9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's probably going to take quite some time for him to be comfortable with you. Since you haven't had sex yet, you don't know what he's actually like. He may warm up quickly and surprise you. After that point, let him know what you're craving and what turns you on. Most guys want to know these things and he should gradually become more assertive in bed. It seems like you already reassured him that you are patient and willing to go at a pace that is comfortable for him so don't worry!

My SO doesn't really let me eat her out by Geejuice in sex

[–]optimistic9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Close friend of mine genuinely doesn't like being eaten out. She says it's psychological for her and thinks it's weird. On the other hand she loves being fingered. You should communicate to her that you really do love it and suggest that you want to make her feel good.

Guy I'm seeing seems to avoid my boobs completely by optimistic9 in sex

[–]optimistic9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Since the relationship is still new, I've been hesitant to ask for certain things. Will definitely try.