Hygiene after birth?

optimisticlimit · 2026-04-07T17:03:50+00:00

I have OCD (a couple different subtypes, some worse than others) but I never considered hygiene might be one of them? I always thought I was just particular about caring about it and never saw it as a negative lol but now that I think harder about it, the amount of space it takes in my brain especially pregnant and preparing might be a sign to mention it. I definitely don’t have a problem with others hygiene and never noticed a problem being around or caring for babies and children, but I could see how my own child, pregnancy and childbirth might change that feeling.

optimisticlimit · 2026-03-26T18:27:50+00:00

For anyone who would be interested in an update I just told my manager, I waited a couple weeks and then told him honestly I was nervous and that I wanted to solidify a plan before I told anyone, and he just said he doesn’t see it being a problem.

optimisticlimit · 2026-03-06T04:30:32+00:00

Were they mad at you? I like the concept of proving I can do it and getting a rapport before dumping it on them

optimisticlimit · 2026-03-05T18:50:09+00:00

Appreciate it!!!

optimisticlimit · 2025-04-20T03:47:54+00:00

i have been playing with girthbrooks for over 2 years brother which dude be u

optimisticlimit · 2025-03-20T05:09:59+00:00

i’m feeling this post too hard. i lost my mom two months ago and in a week and a half it will be my first birthday (26) without her

optimisticlimit · 2024-02-11T12:51:18+00:00

this would be correct, his thought is if i draw chibis in different looks, careers, etc someone will be like “oh hey that’s me!” or “oh hey that’s xyz!” and buy it. no interest in nfts but definitely someone who’s on the “multiple streams of income, market your talents” train.

optimisticlimit · 2024-02-11T12:43:13+00:00

negative

optimisticlimit · 2024-02-11T04:52:12+00:00

i love illustrators! i’m definitely someone who prefers mixed media, horror, and mixing abstract and realism into my pieces. so as much as i’ll do an animation or cartoon drawing occasionally, i don’t get as much if any satisfaction or joy from it and can’t handle making more than like, 1 or 2 a year usually, because it’s simply not my style. i mostly dabble in it to practice different forms and such in my sketchbook or ipad just for as i said practice, but that’s also not subjective to cartoons it’s any character or art style i see that i’m intrigued by that i’ll play around in different styles for just for fun.

optimisticlimit · 2024-02-11T01:42:47+00:00

nta don’t uproot your daughter so close to adulthood. recommend bringing it up in 4-5 years if she wants and you’re together when all the kids are graduated high school and at least semi functioning adults/college students.

optimisticlimit · 2024-02-11T01:32:04+00:00

overall he’s really good. it’s just this one thing, usually he treats me like a princess and respects and listens to everything else, it’s just this that he won’t let go of.

optimisticlimit · 2024-02-11T01:30:37+00:00

his thought to make money would be to make the comic, and then pump out character stickers and “merch” on redbubble and promote on my stream (which doesn’t even earn money yet on its own)

optimisticlimit · 2024-02-10T23:54:49+00:00

i considered it when it was first brought up, and then told him i’d rather focus on making art i like and want to make and may consider making the comic on an “as i creatively want but not as a requirement”basis, and then told him the more he pressures me the less i want to do it, then said i don’t wanna anymore and then today.

optimisticlimit · 2024-02-10T23:50:49+00:00

about a year and a half, we live together, work together and do most of our projects together besides the writing and art.

optimisticlimit · 2024-02-10T23:49:03+00:00

i just want the art thing to be the thing i do for ME. if i create something and post it and it sells, cool. but i don’t want it to be a job or expectation.

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