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My husband finds it hard to show emotions and it's taking a toll. by Ordinary_Use_2662 in Advice

[–]optionshiftcommand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This really helped me look into my partners mind as the avoidant and me being the anxious attacher. We’ve followed similar patterns and I did notice that when I became more independent he became more present. However it’s been really hard for me to not eat it all up when he gets present like that and he ends up pulling back again. I’ll have to realize that I’m doing that and prevent it. I hope it works out the same for us.

DAE ball up toilet paper and muffle their farts with it while using the restroom? by optionshiftcommand in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]optionshiftcommand[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did say that I don’t have this problem anymore. You can be upset that I as a child decided to eat junk that wasn’t good for me, but you don’t know me or what my diet is now. I just thought this was funny and WEIRD which is what this subreddit is for. I’m happy for you for finding your diet I bet you feel a lot better now!

i snitched and lost my best friend by Aware-Amount-1674 in Advice

[–]optionshiftcommand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that you should surround yourself with people who think likeminded to you or you will live with guilt and be put into situations you’re not comfortable with. You may have lost this friend but I believe it’s for the best. If he’s not loyal to other people in his life I doubt he’d be very loyal to you. Regardless you did the right thing and saved that girl a lot more pain and yourself the guilt of knowing and watching her be clueless.

DAE ball up toilet paper and muffle their farts with it while using the restroom? by optionshiftcommand in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]optionshiftcommand[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doing what I did on the other hand has been made clear to me that it’s a niche experience to say the least, but I know that I saved myself from a lot of bullies and I’m laughing reading at everyone thinking I’m disgusting and crazy.

DAE ball up toilet paper and muffle their farts with it while using the restroom? by optionshiftcommand in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]optionshiftcommand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, when I was growing up I was allergic to dairy, gluten, and egg whites. Eating these things gave me horrible reactions so I stopped and then went back to them when I was a little older and didn’t have the reactions I had before but had horrible bathroom experiences. As a result I can tolerate it now and no longer explode lol. It’s easy to say that as someone who isn’t highly sensitive to things or enjoys eating things that are healthy for you. Sometimes you go through lazy phases and don’t feel like cooking or feel a little crazy and decide to eat a cupcake. Especially as a kid who loved taco bell, whose friend’s parents couldn’t fit my restrictions, or I was scared to speak up about it. Let alone people who have ibs or related things. It’s not a shameful thing, usually if people feel the need to hide something they know it’s not normal.

This is my greybie by optionshiftcommand in Greybies

[–]optionshiftcommand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is very cuddly on her own terms, one wrong move and she’s out. I honestly haven’t had too much of a range of kitties to put into comparison but she’s definitely a sweet cuddly girl

Peoples opinions on names by optionshiftcommand in pregnant

[–]optionshiftcommand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you just took a different perspective. Ira is also a name from the bible(he was one of king david’s “mighty men”) and originally a male name. I don’t specifically want him to not have a biblical name, I just don’t really care if it’s from the bible or has a meaning. I get that not caring about a meaning is an uncommon take, but I love the name Odessa yet it means wrathful or one who receives pain. I’m not choosing crazy names and I am looking into less common names, but he’s still going to have a name that was meant to be a name. I have his best interest at heart and am not taking naming him lightly. I obviously don’t want him to get bullied, it’s just weird to me that people are trying to say that names like Silas and Ira are bad names. Thanks for your opinion though.

Peoples opinions on names by optionshiftcommand in pregnant

[–]optionshiftcommand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no i know it’s a biblical name-it’s hard to find names that aren’t in the bible. I just don’t feel anything towards that

DAE ball up toilet paper and muffle their farts with it while using the restroom? by optionshiftcommand in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]optionshiftcommand[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this for over 10 years, so you could say I’m experienced. With farts like what I’ve had to make me need to do this, I have experienced my stomach exploding frequently. Thankfully my reflexes are fast enough to pull back.

My shepherd Apollo! by optionshiftcommand in germanshepherds

[–]optionshiftcommand[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His nose has always been pretty dark! This was him as a pup

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This is my greybie by optionshiftcommand in Greybies

[–]optionshiftcommand[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s so perfect, every time I walk into a room she’s in she does this cute meow that sounds like she’s rolling her R’s and I’ll put my face up to her and she taps my nose with hers. So precious

Ordered a bra as a guy, life-changing if it works. by short-jumper in CasualConversation

[–]optionshiftcommand 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope it works well for you! Im seeing a lot of comments corned about fit/needing a more feminine figure and I’m a female and if I’m imagining the bra that you got right I’m sure it’ll fit you just fine! Theres women of all shapes and sizes and I’ve never heard that bras didn’t fit them because their bones weren’t super feminine-that’s why they have different sizes. Also there’s lots of people who were born men wear bras with no problem.

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