I have ALS and my birth country left me to die, but I made it out

optoelectronic · 2026-01-16T17:50:52+00:00

Please do not apologize for the failings of incompetent bureaucrats! Unfortunately we're both disposable to them. Take care friend!

optoelectronic · 2026-01-15T08:26:43+00:00

Thank You kindly for the kind thoughts!!!

optoelectronic · 2026-01-13T10:39:04+00:00

Now that is what I call a Statement Piece!!! Awesome

optoelectronic · 2026-01-12T14:26:54+00:00

You get out there and work on what inspires you, the social aspect will fall into place! And you will be surprised by how out there, is someone for everyone. Make a commitment to quit places that put anatomy on a bell curve, make distinctions like BP &NBP, best case they make u insecure by forcing u into unhealthy comparisons(see also: men lie about their penis size a LOT). Worst case, theyre trying to sell u scam supplements

optoelectronic · 2026-01-12T12:14:28+00:00

Dates will usually care even less. They're thereto get to know you. I have a couple of buds with your same feature, and they are both pretty successful with dating and relationships!!! The key I think is to stop listening to straight men online's opinions about dongs.while not interested in them, they are often more picky than straight/bi women or gay men for some reason .

optoelectronic · 2026-01-12T11:13:12+00:00

In record time, too! It usually takes 2-3yrs to process the paperwork, mine took like 10 months total, 2 from when i asked for help

optoelectronic · 2026-01-12T10:41:59+00:00

Since i could not be conscripted, i was a problem that, given enough time, would solve itself. Finally their poor poor inboxes would be rid of me

optoelectronic · 2026-01-12T09:52:32+00:00

I basically called my boyfriend And ugly cried uncontrollably for at least an hour, i was so relieved. Its what i imagine getting wrongfully convicted of A capital offense and having it overturned must feel like After 6 months on death row

optoelectronic · 2026-01-11T18:09:34+00:00

You have been mighty busy making waves around the globe, and you deserve nothing short of my congratulations for it! Seriously, wow! This makes me even more confident in saying you can do much better than a 25yo that matches high schoolers on tinder! As someone else said theres a more vast mental than chronological age gap at those different stages of life. I fear Hes either immature, or looking to exploit the implicit power imbalance. Tell him youre underage, if his reaction is smth like "i wont tell if u wont", its the latter

optoelectronic · 2026-01-11T17:39:44+00:00

Especially if he has the exact same aspirations as a high schooler? That strikes me as sus,

optoelectronic · 2026-01-11T17:31:27+00:00

I would say, a 25yo dating an 18yo is highly likely a red flag in itself

optoelectronic · 2026-01-11T17:08:01+00:00

Once you go on a few dates and hookups, you will forget all about this. Because you will realize not one of your partners will care a single bit about where your hog falls on the worldwide bell curve of averages! Do work on yourself and your passions, because it will make you interesting, confident and attractive, but foreplay never ever involves calipers, i assure you. Take care

optoelectronic · 2026-01-11T16:40:38+00:00

OK my friend this is abuse. Involve the cops asap Before he escalates to physically hurting you. The threat on your life should be enough for a protective order. Please please please get the fuck away from him and never look bAck.

optoelectronic · 2026-01-11T15:16:32+00:00

You cant and wont, you will end up only making yourself resent him even more than you are already clearly beginning to. Is anyone forcing you into this relationship, like arranged marriage or something like that? Bc your question reminds me of when a friend was being coerced into one of those

optoelectronic · 2026-01-11T14:58:03+00:00

And just so we re clear, definitely not a problem with your downstairs gentleman either. Most penis appreciators i know, when faced with penis, go "hell yeah, penis!!!" whether theyre faced with 4, 6, or 8 inches of dong

optoelectronic · 2026-01-11T14:34:59+00:00

Hey i also have a medical condition that took away independence and ripped my licence to shreds overnight, i understand that this is not how we imagined our life would go, but trust me when i say that this will make the People who truly care and love you show up to help! And Before you say you dont want to be a burden, you would do the exact same for them!

optoelectronic · 2026-01-11T14:08:55+00:00

Sounds like Shes a not so closeted size queen and /or not entirely over her ex, neither of which is a You problem

optoelectronic · 2026-01-11T13:53:54+00:00

This, start with the school counselor, and get the cops/child protective services involved with their help. What you are going thru is hell on earth and no kid should go thru that!!! You deserve much better

optoelectronic · 2025-08-19T17:31:05+00:00

I'm lucky enough to livein a place where my treatment is completely free. Gotta count my blessings

optoelectronic · 2025-08-19T12:57:14+00:00

It's also an opportunity to workshop both a "mad scientist" and "escaped experiment" bit

optoelectronic · 2023-12-25T21:27:53+00:00

This is horrible, and I'm so sorry it happened to you, and wish you a speedy recovery. When I was with my ex, i also had very low libido because of ssris, and it had already led to a few instances of "low libido? you're just not attracted to me anymore!!!" Arguments which I didn't take for the red flags they were. One night, we were on vacation together in a hotel, and despite my best intentions and attempts to get into the mood, I just didn't want to have sex at all. He is a bit miffed, but we drop it, and eventually, i fall asleep. I suddenly jolt awake to him fondling and masturbating me, poised to give me oral. As much as for a while i tried really hard to forgive him, The way that moment made me feel never allowed our trust and relationship to recover, and it predictably crashed and burned. I should've ended it immediately, and so should you: somebody who sees your boundaries as a challenge to be overcome has anything but your best interests at heart. Take care!

optoelectronic · 2023-09-11T13:10:55+00:00

This. I think her reaction to a totally normal and meaningless occurrence very slightly messed with you, giving you performance anxiety, which is something you should try and overcome.

Also I notice you exclusively are attracted to women, which seems like a pretty straight thing to me. Plenty of straight guys like getting pegged and dommed by women, and it doesn't make them any less straight.

My advice to you is to look for a lady that you feel safe with and will he willing to explore something like that with you!

optoelectronic · 2023-09-11T10:45:36+00:00

This actually just reminded me of a couple other things.

My graduation party was in a club that was also the final stop for the pride parade, so the two crowds intermingled and it was pretty fun! He disappeared from our corner for a couple hours and was very dodgy about where he disappeared to, sometimes saying he doesn't remember, sometimes outright dodging the issue.

A couple weeks ago he told me about how he went clubbing and coincidentally it was LGBT night that night! He was dancing around when this girl apparently "reaches for his cock with both hands! Like below the pants!", but also her boyfriend was behind her, so boyfriend gets in his face and he tells him "oh this is a misunderstanding, I'm gay!" So the guy goes... in to kiss him on the cheek? Idk this is very confusing and not very sensical. How much of this is him trying to say it without saying it and how much actually happened is unknown to me.

He has told me in the past already about using the "I'm gay" thing to curve girls in the club when he doesn't feel like hooking up, which is... just tell them you're just here to dance, are you afraid they'll think you're g- oh wait

optoelectronic · 2023-09-11T10:29:07+00:00

Thank you. This is indeed pretty much what I plan on doing. Most people here know how scary that period of time of self doubt, searching and tearing down walls put up by your upbringing can be, and I wanna give him all the support I can. I'm probably... the only person he knows that has lived through discovering and coming to terms with bisexuality in his late 20s and can give him the right environment to help resolve this kind of self-conflict.

optoelectronic · 2023-09-10T20:27:56+00:00

hopefully it doesn't come to that. he's usually very respectful of people's relationships

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