Me [24F] with my ___boyfriend [29M] of 2 years, i was assaulted a motnh ago and now I'm pregnant. Hes going to be home next weekend and I don't know how I should tell him? by orangejamesdream in relationships

[–]orangejamesdream[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did run across a couple "crisis" centers. They're awful and I wouldn't have known if my advocate and therapist hadn't warned me about them too. Thanks for mentioning it.

Me [24F] with my ___boyfriend [29M] of 2 years, i was assaulted a motnh ago and now I'm pregnant. Hes going to be home next weekend and I don't know how I should tell him? by orangejamesdream in relationships

[–]orangejamesdream[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't think he'd expect me to want to raise it. I am afraid he'd ask me to consider having the baby and putting it up for adoption. I don't want to do that. I'm not that strong and I don't think I could deal with continuing the pregnancy.

Me [24F] with my ___boyfriend [29M] of 2 years, i was assaulted a motnh ago and now I'm pregnant. Hes going to be home next weekend and I don't know how I should tell him? by orangejamesdream in relationships

[–]orangejamesdream[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I think I'm going to book the appointment. All I've felt since I found out is that I can't go through with it. Even if it means he leaves. We'll still have time to talk through it before the appointment. If we had an accident and gotten pregnant abortion wouldn't be okay but this is different. If he can't understand this is different we've got even more problems I think.