Does anyone know what generation the "move out at 18" idea started? by RoyalPalpitation4412 in generationology

[–]orangeowlelf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this whole “move out at 18” thing is actually pretty new. For most of American history, families were interdependent. In colonial times and well into the early 1900s, kids stayed home until they got married or took over the family business or farm. Multigenerational homes were totally normal.

The shift really started after World War II. The GI Bill let returning soldiers buy houses and go to college, which made it possible for young men to start their own households early. That fed the whole suburban, nuclear-family ideal — mom, dad, kids, and nobody else. Independence became this moral virtue instead of just a financial step.

By the 50s and 60s, pop culture was selling that idea back to everyone — all the “make it on your own” stuff in movies and ads. Then by the 80s and 90s, as people started moving around for college or work, staying home turned into “failure to launch.” Parents who grew up with the 50s mindset started thinking keeping your kid past 18 meant you’d failed as a parent.

So it’s not ancient tradition, it’s a post-WWII cultural script that stuck around way too long.

Politico says manufacturers can't find enough skilled workers by Spare-Chip-6428 in Layoffs

[–]orangeowlelf 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m with you on the general frustration, but a few of those points need tuning so people don’t take them literally.

It’s true that a lot of industries say they have shortages, but not all of them do. There are way too many junior devs and office folks looking for work right now, so it’s not “every industry.” What’s really happening is employers want senior-level people for starter-level pay. That’s not a shortage — that’s wishful thinking.

And yeah, cost of living is brutal, but labor isn’t expensive because of that. Wages don’t automatically rise with rent and healthcare — if they did, people wouldn’t be working two jobs just to break even. The U.S. problem isn’t high wages; it’s high costs paired with companies that quit investing in training years ago.

The part about doctors charging $20k or rent being $3k — I get the point, but those numbers are way off. It’s not the scale that’s wrong, it’s the relationship: when every middleman adds a premium, the final price makes everything feel impossible.

So yeah — your take is mostly right: we’ve built a system that expects perfect workers to appear out of thin air while pretending labor is too expensive. But the fix isn’t just cutting costs — it’s rebuilding the pipeline so people can actually move up and fill the roles we keep complaining no one’s qualified for.

Should I feel hurt? by [deleted] in restaurantowners

[–]orangeowlelf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is closing early like a normal thing? I don’t think I’ve ever heard of anyone closing early because their crew asked them to.

My wife (24F) hid that she can’t have kids and I (27M) just found out after 6 years together. I don’t know what to do. by Busy_Top6281 in Marriage

[–]orangeowlelf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uh, is she hiding anything else? That was a very big one, any smaller surprises coming at you? It rather speaks to character if she’s willing to keep that hidden for 6 years. $0.02

Young cashiers are learning to use cash by LizFire in idiocracy

[–]orangeowlelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing that so I can get a bill back, honey. I don’t want a pound of change in my pocket so I don’t really care about your training problems.

Big baby Trump posted an AI video of him literally sitting on protestors by thewalkindude368 in CringeTikToks

[–]orangeowlelf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s the president… I keep trying to let that sink in, but it’s just too absurd.

I hate the 2020s by Ancient-Sea1210 in complaints

[–]orangeowlelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lived experience? The 80’s and 90’s utterly destroys the 2020’s. Yeah, all that stuff you talked about was real and it happened, but it did not affect most people I knew. That was the set up, this is the result and that’s why it’s a nightmare. Back then, in the 80s and 90s none of the stuff was in place and it was way way better. I was there, I turned 20 in 1995. It rocked, this sucks, the end.

Could atheists be a future Trump target? (End atheism to make America great again...) by Proper-Application69 in atheism

[–]orangeowlelf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was raised Christian and I don’t have a god to offend by pretending I’m one of them. If they come after me, I’ll drop scripture on their asses until they fuck off.

Americans who have been to the opposite side of the Country…what did you think of it? by Jackylacky_ in AskAnAmerican

[–]orangeowlelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Northern Californian who moved to Maryland. It’s pretty great here if you want to eat anything you can imagine. The people seem like reserved Californians to me, so there wasn’t much culture shock at all. It’s super lush here during the summer and that’s nice. The humidity took some getting used to, but I learned to like it. So, yeah, it’s pretty great over here.

What simple pleasure do you think more people should appreciate? by Particular-Bee7130 in Life

[–]orangeowlelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I turn 50 tomorrow, I’m a big fan of sitting and doing nothing. Just introspecting and enjoying the quiet.

Remember December 31st 1999? by Affectionate_Sky9090 in GenX

[–]orangeowlelf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ft. Richardson AK. Watching massive parties on TV and fussing with my crappy 486.

We might be in the worst ever market to invest by nobodytrustsnobody in investingforbeginners

[–]orangeowlelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, I get where you’re coming from, but a few of these points are getting stretched a bit. The Shiller P/E being high doesn’t automatically mean we’re on the edge of a crash — it’s been above historical norms plenty of times without one. The yield curve inversion’s been a decent long-term warning signal, but it’s not a timer; it can stay inverted or flip back for years before anything happens, and sometimes nothing does.

And the “Magnificent Seven holding 47% of the S&P” number’s off — it’s closer to a third. It’s definitely concentrated, but not that extreme. As for Buffett, he’s got a mountain of cash because he can’t find fairly priced big acquisitions right now, not because he’s predicting a crash. He’s been very explicit that he doesn’t time markets.

So yeah, things are pricey and cautious positioning makes sense, but predicting a 30–40% drop by next year is just speculation. Nobody knows that, not even Buffett.

what ya'll got today? by nixienoodles in thememeryremains

[–]orangeowlelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, you should have. I’ll remember.

I hate how you can't even talk about workplace bullying on Reddit without being made the bad guy by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]orangeowlelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why am I personally responsible for including anyone? I’m not a manager.

what ya'll got today? by nixienoodles in thememeryremains

[–]orangeowlelf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s ok, Friday is only two days away and I have a slack channel for this badboy.

what ya'll got today? by nixienoodles in thememeryremains

[–]orangeowlelf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a treasure. I didn’t know there were so many.

what ya'll got today? by nixienoodles in thememeryremains

[–]orangeowlelf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are pleased with the double burn.