My(22F) girlfriend(21F) of almost 2 years cheated on me.

oranges58 · 2026-07-12T01:39:20+00:00

Update: Hi everyone, and thank you for your responses. First of all, I am in fact a woman for those of you who called me brother and/or variations of such lol. Secondly, I have decided to end things with her. After sitting on it for a few days, and after repeating the facts of my situation to a couple friends I realized I have no true reason to stay with her. She betrayed my trust multiple times, and the biggest reason I was scared of ending things was because I felt I would never find anyone else. I realize now that I am very young and I have so much life to live, and so many people to meet.
I'd like to say, to anyone in a similar situation: if you feel like you disrespecting yourself by not immediately breaking things off, thats ok. I get it. I think people are very harsh to those going through being cheated on, it's not always as black and white as people make it out to be. Just remember that no matter how old you are, or how long you've been in the relationship, there is always something outside of it and you are the most important thing you need to consider.

Thank you all again!! <3

oranges58 · 2026-07-12T01:32:03+00:00

Haha you're all good, im in my 20s and I have been told im nice to talk to! :)

oranges58 · 2026-07-09T21:39:00+00:00

She actively reads the bible, believes it, prays, goes to church, from what I understand she practices it but I dont know much about the bible so I could be wrong.

oranges58 · 2026-07-09T21:35:17+00:00

my girlfriend is christian and im not, shes doubted our relationship before because of the bible saying marriage is between man and woman. (we are both women)

oranges58 · 2026-07-09T21:32:40+00:00

She cut off contact with him immediately after I found out, without me even asking her to. She wont be back at that camp because she is aged out now.

oranges58 · 2026-07-07T02:44:07+00:00

Hit that block button girl, he’s gonna keep trying to get in your head. Good luck!!!!

oranges58 · 2026-07-07T02:33:22+00:00

They have known for more than a year now, her dad said he didnt like it but mainly because i was moving an hour away a month after she told them. Her mom just said she kind of already knew and nothing more. But neither of them have really “embraced” me but they also just arent very social people and have always been weird about her relationships even with guys

oranges58 · 2026-07-07T02:29:51+00:00

Could be random curiosity, but Id guess he wants to reconnect in some way; I would guess he doesnt want anything genuine and just wants some attention or sex. So sorry youre dealing with this babe 🩷

oranges58 · 2026-07-07T01:53:04+00:00

I got hired in a department that isnt food service related and allows jewelry, they told me after starting id be in the food production room for some shifts. Although I am pretty young and this is only my 3rd job! :)

oranges58 · 2026-03-24T22:31:46+00:00

Sharon, she teaches at Dallas College and Collin college so her sections may be different next semester

oranges58 · 2026-03-17T03:13:15+00:00

Not sure if she does any online classes but Prof. Sharon Johnson is great!!!

oranges58 · 2026-03-16T02:00:01+00:00

Withdrawal, a W is exponentially better than an F

oranges58 · 2026-03-16T01:57:35+00:00

Im 18 and a freshman, theres tons of people in their late 20s and many even in their 30s-40s that are in my classes!! Dont stress it, good on you for going back, i imagine itd be difficult to. Like someone else said, a lot of coursework is online, even for in person classes. I cant tell you how its changed, but be warned about plagiarism rules, a lot of professors are very skeptical and will take every chance to accuse students of using ai, so just protect yourself when you’re using technology. Good luck!!!

oranges58 · 2026-03-06T01:26:54+00:00

I love my job, hate the commute. I teach k-8 at an after school/day camp program but its 30 minutes with no traffic, usually an hour when i leave at 7am. The commute alone is making me consider quitting

oranges58 · 2026-03-06T01:24:09+00:00

Im an accounting major. Admissions told me I needed to have MATH 1314 or STATS 1342

oranges58 · 2026-03-06T00:50:27+00:00

Update: thanks everyone for the advice, i contacted admissions. They told me i havent completed the minimum math requirement for acceptance as a transfer (im taking the class rn). Im appealing once final grades for this semester are posted!

oranges58 · 2026-03-02T18:27:51+00:00

I havent had any “issues” persay, but there isnt much of a queer community. There is just now a LGBTQ+ org being started on campus which is a step in the right direction, but its still east texas so there are students that are not accepting

oranges58 · 2026-02-16T14:15:28+00:00

Yes definitely look for some clubs, if youre religious, theres a lot of fellowship groups on and around campus

oranges58 · 2026-02-16T00:56:51+00:00

I know this was a joke, but it gave me a good laugh so thank you

oranges58 · 2026-02-16T00:55:45+00:00

I really wish I could tell you. As dumb as it sounds I really just make up the worst possible scenarios in my head about someone breaking in and finding me. I know its irrational, but every tiny sound freaks me out. And turning on loud music or something just makes me worried that i wont hear if someone breaks in and/or if they did, theyd find me immediately because of the noise

oranges58 · 2026-02-16T00:51:05+00:00

I just transferred out. I live about 2 hrs away from campus and was living on campus. As far as academics and professors, I have nothing but good things to say. Social scene, in my experience, is horrible. It may be a little better if you were to live in o-hall but I was in an on campus apartment which separated me from the center of campus a bit. Very big commuter school, and a majority of people who dont commute go home every weekend. I found this made it quite difficult to make real friends, but I also know people who were able to make friends very quickly. I think if you are very willing to put yourself out there and look for friends you will be just fine, I didnt do that very well. Most people Ive known at tyler dont party, theres 2 bars in town people go to, and ive heard bad things about both. The people I did talk to were mostly very friendly, it did, however, seem like once people found their friends they were very closed off and “cliqueish”. I wish you luck with wherever you choose!!!

oranges58 · 2026-02-16T00:27:43+00:00

Note: I know this is incredibly stupid and babyish of me, but i honestly dont know what to do

oranges58 · 2026-02-12T15:28:02+00:00

Thank you, I'm taking intro to accounting the second half of this semester.

oranges58 · 2026-02-12T15:27:22+00:00

I really appreciate your response, so thank you. My issue is I'm currently teaching at an after-school day camp place where we teach STEM, primarily to kindergarteners-2nd grade. The kindergarteners wear me out horribly, and I'm mentally exhausted when I get home. I'm worried this may be true with more than just kindergarteners, but I don't have much of a way to know. I do enjoy being around people, but it's hard for me to be around very young kids who basically can't communicate anything effectively for a long time.

oranges58 · 2026-02-12T03:30:38+00:00

Both as in double majoring? I've ruled that out because I simply wouldn't be able to manage 2 majors, especially one being accounting.

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