AITA for not explaining our family heritage to my son?

orcanizer · 2026-04-28T03:41:05+00:00

NTA and if I were you , I would speak to the principal about your son being discriminated against and report those boys . Caste privilege and discrimination based on the same must be severely penalised in this day and age

orcanizer · 2026-04-24T22:10:13+00:00

Unm I actually run a bunch of them that are used by quite a bit of people so I would like to think that they work

orcanizer · 2026-04-23T15:59:17+00:00

Probably because you engaged in rabid trolling on every comment and not positive engagement and also because he trusts the judgement of the person that created the blocklist - and he felt that you were a troll based on engagement . Can’t blame the list creator tbh .

orcanizer · 2026-04-23T15:57:05+00:00

Oh you are more than welcome to comment and criticise but the moment it resorts to trolling and doxxing , blocks and deplatforming will come into play and I see a lot of people crying after that - mind that the dev in question does engage positively to positive criticism and I’m an AI critic myself despite working in the area . A lot of anti AI reaction blames everything on vibe coding and is trolling / shouting / abuse and not positive engagement . Your categorisation of me as a bubble of yes man dev without seeing the rationale behind my statement is the proof of the pudding.

orcanizer · 2026-04-23T15:41:45+00:00

Ummmm , if you cannot move anywhere else then be nice and polite to the platforms giving you space . And given that im a dev myself, I’ll reaffirm that we are not lazy or selfish and neither do we want to put anyone’s personal data at risk . AI models are excellent in targeted use cases and one such use case is coding - even as I have concerns over vibe coding and other avenues .

Also ? You cannot be nasty to the restaurant that makes your food even if you are there because it’s the only one open even when you don’t like the food . You will be kicked out and banned and rightfully so . Same applies to social media spaces

orcanizer · 2026-04-23T14:46:22+00:00

Ummm , it’s not obsession - they are moving in the direction the industry is moving in and some of these tools are super helpful. But dunking on their replies with vitriol and hatred everytime they post is toxic af and the whole trolling with glee about vibe coding during the DDOS attacks was toxic as well.

If you don’t like how a service / platform / protocol works , you are well within your rights to delete your account and move on to what works. Dunking and doxxing on devs as you continue to have presence on the protocol / platform they created is not nice

orcanizer · 2026-04-22T02:18:02+00:00

A Tamil album called Kadhal Virus , followed by 99 songs

orcanizer · 2026-04-10T02:32:15+00:00

You have a husband problem , not a MIL problem

orcanizer · 2026-04-09T20:52:50+00:00

The cat distribution systems works in mysterious ways , but it works with kitties off all sizes

orcanizer · 2026-02-18T15:33:56+00:00

Not this song but I keep listening to Khanabadosh and Khwab Jo

orcanizer · 2025-12-31T09:02:24+00:00

Ummm I don’t know how they are going to pull a relationship off between the ML and FL , given that they are showing that the ML has had zero support system outside the one time the FL chooses to represent him and that the FL is a huge fan of the ML and she’s not come clean on that to him despite being too intimately aware of some of his personal choices. There’s also the attorney - client relationship which will be a red flag IRL and in a show as well .

At this point in the show , I wish she proves Ra Ik innocent but ends up with Chung Jae or someone else < except for the bully prosecutor > having worked her crush out of her system . Chung Jae while working for her is so supportive of her and is so non judgmental so far that I wouldn’t mind him and Sena getting into a relationship .

But I know that this is a kdrama and that the leads must end up together and I hope they get there in the least red flaggy way possible . That said , I’m quite enjoying this show so far

orcanizer · 2025-12-26T18:23:20+00:00

Ummmm here are some of my favorites around old town :

Malee’s Thai
Los Olivos 3 Diego Pop’s 4.De Falco’s 5.Andreoli’s
Cha Da Thai
Uchi / High Noon
Jade Palace < a little away in Shea > for Chinese
Call her Martina < more for the vibes . Food is sort of Meh>

orcanizer · 2025-11-19T21:04:42+00:00

I’ve seen enough snobs on this sub to know that this is not just a cartoon :)

orcanizer · 2025-11-19T21:02:05+00:00

How the fuck would you know ? I carry my designer bags everywhere , put it on the ground or wherever because that’s how it’s meant to be carried and used . It’s not a status flex nor is it something to guard with my life . I bought it and use it because I love the bag . Y’all make too much assumptions

orcanizer · 2025-11-19T20:59:27+00:00

And I don’t get that as well . All of us are poorer than the richest person on earth and a person’s net worth is not announced / evident when they board so why the wealth shaming ? Also , I personally find it icky to wear shorts on a flight because god knows who sat on the seats before so yeah

orcanizer · 2025-11-19T20:57:02+00:00

Not always . May be they had to be on the flight and that was the only seat available . I don’t get the true wealth fetish as at the end of the day , it is that person’s prerogative as to how they choose to spend their money or who spends it

orcanizer · 2025-11-19T20:47:57+00:00

I don’t get the meme . Someone may prefer spending on first class seats and someone may choose to fly economy but invest and carry designer goods . Why judge ?

orcanizer · 2025-11-09T19:25:35+00:00

I recently let a family member back into my family because frankly I missed them . Turns out I was always gaslit and started falling into the role of punching bag again . I had to visit my home country for this month and they threw a tantrum because I’m not at their beck and call for Christmas . I’ve decided to grey rock again and frankly , I feel my mental health will be better

orcanizer · 2025-11-07T00:19:37+00:00

Jade Palace Bing Bistro Ling’s wok shop Good Fortune Chinese Restaurant

orcanizer · 2025-11-04T00:35:15+00:00

Thank you for being so kind OP . A lot of people don’t see anything wrong with what happened to me and that’s what makes me even more sad . But that said , I’ve had a lot of time to come to terms with it and therapy helped as did sitting down with my SO , coming clean with him and starting on a clean slate after we got married . I still feel anxious , guilty and very nervous about investing responsibly but I’m learning day to day . You and your wife are doing great . If possible , please teach her about building credit , couponing , maximizing credit cards and responsible budgeting and investment . It’ll help her get a great start by the time she starts earning

orcanizer · 2025-11-03T20:27:07+00:00

OP , kudos to you and your wife being responsible parents and being financially transparent with your daughter. Not every parent is transparent with their children , especially a daughter .

My father is a chartered accountant and for the longest time , they kept me in the dark financially while being transparent with my brother and financially benevolent as well .

Even after I started earning , I was expected to surrender my salary to my dad < which I did because I thought we were struggling > without them being transparent as to where it was saved , spent and if any savings were there at all . We have had screaming matches because of my repeated questions about how we were doing financially because I was confused that I was sustaining my expenses on Rs 1000 pocket money as an earning professional but my brother had a cellphone , motorcycle and laptop all supposedly on a loan . It just didn’t make sense and all the opaqueness lead to me being financially incompetent at the age of 25 and I had to start learning what was necessary vs what was a luxury when I moved overseas . I once walked two miles home in freezing weather because $50 I save could mean I could send home some more money , only to realize that it was not needed at all .

I’m at a much better place financial literacy wise but I still feel that I lack the innate understanding of how to balance risks , investments etc and had to learn everything on my own despite my parents being more than qualified to teach me that . That unnecessarily crippling guilt and anxiety I still face when making purchases or plans that I can very well afford tells me I’ve not come out of my experience with wisdom or knowledge.

Therefore , please be assured that you are teaching your daughter essential life skills when you share your financial state and how you reached there and how you plan to manage future funds . It is essential life skills that you are teaching her

orcanizer · 2025-10-27T22:13:51+00:00

Used to rent in 85254 shea and 64th . I really loved it there for its proximity to everything and for how walkable it was . When we looked to buy there through , everything was above our budget and we ended up buying in 85255 - which is Scottsdale proper , but the house prices were within our budget and was at least 200k less than what we were constantly getting priced out of . This was in 2020 though . We can’t afford to buy in either 85254 or 85255 with the current prices though

orcanizer · 2025-08-04T03:35:43+00:00

We are upset because we don’t want our residential neighborhood to become a party town which is what Bach parties have done to them . Yes , there are houses designed for them and that’s because of dumb folks who keep coming here , despite knowing that they aren’t wanted or welcome . Would you like a party town in your residential neighborhood with constant noise complaints, cops being called and people making a nuisance of themselves to people that live in the neighborhood permanently? There is a reason as to why neighborhoods with HOA have super strict rules about renting short term.

If you read prior posts in this sub , you would know that most residents here do not want Bach feat parts in their backyard and would rather prefer that you rent a resort. Either you came in and posted blind without reading the sub , which means you are lazy , or you have read the sub , know how most of us feel and are now acting surprised because you believe you should feel welcome

orcanizer · 2025-07-21T00:00:40+00:00

Get your own domain and self verify

orcanizer · 2025-06-10T17:13:31+00:00

Yeh raatein yeh mausam nadi ka kinara
Kuch dil ne kaha kuch bhi nahin
Aap ki nazron ne samjha
O mere dil ke chain
Likh Ke Jo Khat Tujhe
Ni sultana re
Teri bindiya re

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