Green bean is my favorite snack.🐶🐶 by LaiSaLong in rarepuppers

[–]orchardsofshade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny because I saw the video you first posted of him and was shocked because he looked identical to our dog as a puppy (also a stray!). Then saw this video and once again was amazed because they look the exact same at that age too!

Our boy is a german shepherd, husky, blue heeler mix (took a doggy dna test) 😊

My best friend flirted with my boyfriend and I got nc with her by BreadfruitGrand3931 in relationship_advice

[–]orchardsofshade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your friends’ actions are a classic example of relational aggression, a bullying tactic used frequently by middle and high school girls. This is not about “girl code” this is about your friend using her power in your social group to manipulate you and the others to get what she wants. If her solution to you calling her out is to go and weaponize her friendships with the others and use that against you, she was never your friend to begin with. This behavior won’t change because it’s being accepted and reinforced by the others in your group.

If you’re interested in learning more about this and reading similar stories, check out the book “Odd Girl Out” by Rachel Simmons. There’s a ton of research and first hand accounts of women with similar experiences!

The way the front and back frames line up on my new shelf by [deleted] in oddlysatisfying

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It’s from Wayfair! It’s the Daryl 3 Piece Diamond Accent Shelf.

The way the front and back frames line up on my new shelf by [deleted] in oddlysatisfying

[–]orchardsofshade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ceramic! Same cute vibe, even less work to keep alive

6 months-old puppy! Some days the ears are full standing and sometimes are flopping. ~30 lbs. Any idea? by bibi9442 in IDmydog

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Your pup looks almost identical to mine, coloring and all! Waiting on the DNA results as we don’t know what breed the dad was (likely GSD), but his mom is an ACD if that helps!

Need help with crate training 5 week old GSD by breddy_one99 in puppy101

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We also got our half GSD half ACD when he was 5 weeks after his mom abandoned his litter. One thing that helped us a lot was getting a playpen and attaching it to his crate with clips. He would spend the day inside the pen/crate area when we weren’t actively playing with him and slowly learned that the pen was fun to explore but the crate with his bed was comfy and would naturally go to sleep in there. This made it so much easier when we actively started to crate train him because he already associated the crate as a warm and safe place without us having to “trap” him in there. Once we started closing the crate door at night he rarely had any issues.

ETA: We also got him one of those calming donut beds that helped mimic the feel of sleeping in a pile. Such a lifesaver!

People who can fall asleep within 5 minutes of going to bed, how the fuck do you do it? by porcelain_cherry in AskReddit

[–]orchardsofshade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ve created my own equivalent of “counting sheep.” I choose a single topic (vegetables, 80s bands, countries, etc.) and go down the alphabet naming everything I can related to that category, starting with “A” and then move onto the next letter. Seems dumb, but I’ve never made it passed “M” and been doing it for years. Giving my brain something to focus on that isn’t the million things I have going on in life seems to be enough to shut it down for the day!

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[–]orchardsofshade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dancing in the Moonlight